Rakhi wasn’t wrong! - Page 2

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

You can be a genuine person and still stand up for yourself

There is NO reason Anupama has to take this shit day in and day out

As for being a MIL, Anupama cant even breathe without the entire family saying when, you think she will have the right to speak up for her DIL?

The woman cant stand up for herself one bit, yet she is going to do that for her DIL and fight for her right to be independent and work? Yeah right!

Anu's MIL and husband run the show and household..if they say Kinjal has to wear a sari, do the housework and isnt allowed to work, that is what will happen. Anu will not go against her 'god' like husband.

I never said Rakhis behr was justified. I said her words hit the mark regarding the family members and she called them out for being two faced.

So yes Rakhi was right to not marry her daughter into that family of losers as she called it

agree to this anupama is thinking she willnot let her daughter n DIL have a life like her she will let them fulfill their dreams n career but once her MIL n her husband take a decicion on kinjal she will not be able to stand up for her.

the issue with kinjals mom is she made it an issue about anupama being the servant n being uneducated. Instead she should have just said anupama cant stand up for my daughter n future DIL and you people will treat her like anupama. that would have made vanraj n his mom realise why the rishta was broken. here it became too convinient for them to blame anupama for all the mishap

Technically paritosh should stand for kinjal when wrong happen with her and he should take stand for her because it is paritosh who seriously want to marry her . It is paritosh wish to marry her

Why should anupama take stand for kinjal .it is paritosh responsibility that his future wife should not treated as maid because it is paritosh who will be bringing kinjal in house by marrying her

If paritosh can fight with his mother of no fault then why he didn't not fight with his grand mother when leela grand mother giving instructions kinjal what to do or not

Paritosh could not oppose her grand mother when leela taunting kinjal for just wearing simple salwar suit at janmashtami

And more over kinjal should take stand for herself when she is fully educated and can earn money by herself

For kinjal it will not be difficult to stand up for herself as she is professionally qualified

If being a professionally qualified kinjal can't take stand for herself then how can anupama can take stand for herself who is not even simple graduate leave professionally qualified

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

i dont think soo looser is approriate word for anupama i disagree with you here

anumapa is really genuine and innocent as person like rakhiben she cant yelled at the top of her lungs

yes anupama should take stand for herself when people like rakhiben , toshu and vinraj disrespect her

in most of culture wife dont have right to speak up in front of husband when husband already in rage

that make things worst there better been quite

but anu really make me

pissed off sometime when anupama didnt speak when toshu disrespect her there she can speak even her culture give her right to do that

she should say to toshu how dare you speak to me like this

some part what rakhiben said was right but some part she was wrong like may be her daughter was treated like anu

anu was treated like that because her mother-e-law was leela she is dominating but kinjal mother-e-law gonna be anupama she is kind

and polite and iam sure kinjal can see that not even kinjal any one can see that

Anu is uneducated this is her choice and her situation was not good that time but just because she is uneducated that

doesnot mean rakhiben get right to humiliate her whatever things happen to anu in shah family its non of rakhiben bussiness

as u said kinjal cant be happy in shah house she will b happy i feel because u doesnot need anything u just want be with that

person who u love that is more then enough rest thing is secondary

anu can tolerate anything but when things come on her kid she become strong and confident

and we see that in funfair

@bold I disagree with you. Paritosh is just like his father. He will have the exact same expectations from his wife as he has from his mother that is to be a domesticated house wife and nothing more which is something Rakhi is completely against and she should be.

Moreover as you said the person you love is primary and everything else is secondary, sorry I disagree there as well because the relationship between a husband and wife is very different from the relationship of a boyfriend and girlfriend, which involves quite a lot of responsibilities and what not and people change once they get married, the person who you were madly in love with before marriage becomes a chore post the same in many cases but people still put up with it just for name sake. Just look at Vanraj, he is a cheat, so what’s the guarantee paritosh would be any different?

Only solution to this problem would that both Kinjal and Paritosh move or live separately from both of their families. That way kinjal’s mom won’t have to worry about her daughter becoming another Anupamaa.