Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 26 Aug 2020 - Page 19

Originally posted by: LiNdASoUmZ

in short Kuhu ko bhejdo three months k honeymoon mein😆

Janmashtami Kand bahar aye 😆

Honeymoon ka location bhi mast hai

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

It doesn't matter how long ago the topic was discussed. Abir has always been ready to move away, because he had already predicted that staying together in RV house, with unpredictable volcanoes like BB and Kuhu will only bring trouble, will only bring chaos and negativity. That's why he always advised Mishti to consider living away (important to note he never forced her). But Mishti never realised the consequences that would arise due to living under the same roof as BB.

Ofcourse we know Mishti is not selfish to make Abir leave his family...but Mishti never understood that Abir wasn't sacrificing his family, but rather trying to build peace. He always clarified to Meenu & RV family...that living away doesn't mean you cut off ties, doesn't mean you stop caring, doesn't mean you leave responsibilities....living separately just means you can give space, you can create a peaceful environment whilst still maintaining relationships...because he knew BB (and now understands Kuhu too) will not let them live in peace and harmony.

If Abir wanted to..he could've given an ultimatum that Mishti must choose between adjusting with Kuhu or leave the RV house/family to live separately. But he doesn't do that, because he knows he cannot make Mishti choose like that...he knows neither of them can choose between family and love.

That's why he was insisting to at least solve the sister's issue properly by getting to bottom, getting to the roots. That is the only way the will be able to survive living in RV house; both Mishti and kuhu need to come to a compromise. Once again, I repeat, it is not Abir's responsibility to make Kuhu understand where she went wrong and how to fix it, he doesn't not have that haq or authority - he knows where to draw a line with his sister-in-law. That's why he turns to Mishti, he knows he has that liberty and haq to speak to Mishti openly about where she went wrong, and try to explain how to fix it - he trusts her and believes in their love that Mishti will understand.

Abir probably didn't use the best of words to explain all these (in-between the lines) properly to Mishti, because he thought automatically assumed that his best-friend-wala Mishti bina kuch kahe understood his intentions. Unfortunately both of them were too emotional to understand each other. That's ok. I'm sure given some time (2-3 more episodes) they would definitely explained their pov clearly and understood each other properly. Alas, the writers screwed it up by rushing to this kuhu accident...🤔

@Bold: you know at first, I also didn't understand why would they be make such a big drama on just a magazine cover page. But then I realised that...it wouldn't make sense if Kuhu blamed mishti with logic. Kuhu will take any small petty thing (with minimal logic) and blame it on Mishti. And so that's exactly what happened. And this time Mishti didn't take it lightly, she was fed up. Fair enough, I totally agree with that.

hehe wasn't aiming for such a long post...but oh well. 😆😆 It's a way of getting out these emotions

xxx

B- didn't he do dat in last track n mishti budged in to going to Bangalore with him.

I - I will d last person u can expect to even want abir to scold her. I said from d beginning kuhu is not abir's responsibility. But it's kuhu's fan wanting abir to handle her 🤷‍♀ dey even wanted abir to handle her insecurity, handle d coffee issues. I said it before also kuhu can nly be handle by kunal none other dem him. But in dis situation I wanted meenu to scold kuhu Dan n der when she was badmouthing mishti. Not a single elder in d house will tolerate d bullshit which she spoke dat day instead every one was requesting mishti to call d publisher even when abir gave d idea to kunal to demand an apology from d editor of d magazine but he refused

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

It doesn't matter how long ago the topic was discussed. Abir has always been ready to move away, because he had already predicted that staying together in RV house, with unpredictable volcanoes like BB and Kuhu will only bring trouble, will only bring chaos and negativity. That's why he always advised Mishti to consider living away (important to note he never forced her). But Mishti never realised the consequences that would arise due to living under the same roof as BB.

Ofcourse we know Mishti is not selfish to make Abir leave his family...but Mishti never understood that Abir wasn't sacrificing his family, but rather trying to build peace. He always clarified to Meenu & RV family...that living away doesn't mean you cut off ties, doesn't mean you stop caring, doesn't mean you leave responsibilities....living separately just means you can give space, you can create a peaceful environment whilst still maintaining relationships...because he knew BB (and now understands Kuhu too) will not let them live in peace and harmony.

If Abir wanted to..he could've given an ultimatum that Mishti must choose between adjusting with Kuhu or leave the RV house/family to live separately. But he doesn't do that, because he knows he cannot make Mishti choose like that...he knows neither of them can choose between family and love.

That's why he was insisting to at least solve the sister's issue properly by getting to bottom, getting to the roots. That is the only way the will be able to survive living in RV house; both Mishti and kuhu need to come to a compromise. Once again, I repeat, it is not Abir's responsibility to make Kuhu understand where she went wrong and how to fix it, he doesn't not have that haq or authority - he knows where to draw a line with his sister-in-law. That's why he turns to Mishti, he knows he has that liberty and haq to speak to Mishti openly about where she went wrong, and try to explain how to fix it - he trusts her and believes in their love that Mishti will understand.

Abir probably didn't use the best of words to explain all these (in-between the lines) properly to Mishti, because he thought automatically assumed that his best-friend-wala Mishti bina kuch kahe understood his intentions. Unfortunately both of them were too emotional to understand each other. That's ok. I'm sure given some time (2-3 more episodes) they would definitely explained their pov clearly and understood each other properly. Alas, the writers screwed it up by rushing to this kuhu accident...🤔

@Bold: you know at first, I also didn't understand why would they be make such a big drama on just a magazine cover page. But then I realised that...it wouldn't make sense if Kuhu blamed mishti with logic. Kuhu will take any small petty thing (with minimal logic) and blame it on Mishti. And so that's exactly what happened. And this time Mishti didn't take it lightly, she was fed up. Fair enough, I totally agree with that.

hehe wasn't aiming for such a long post...but oh well. 😆😆 It's a way of getting out these emotions

xxx

Also Abir needs to start snubbing kuhu whenever she does unnecessary drama. the issue here is no one is making kuhu realize that she needs to keep peace, peace cannot be attained by mishti alone. And Abir is no kid not to realize that

And Abir knows kuhu wont listen to mishti even if she tries. How about getting someone to talk to her whom she listens to. Like meenu or kunal or himself.

if the problem was going to be solved by- editor ko hi call karna .why Abir cant do it why mishti has to.

And varsha is the most irresponsible mother i have seen because of her daughter so much drama happened n kunal left his home still she never told kuhu to maintain peace in the house n not start fights with mishti. she was only advising her to manao meenu

Originally posted by: naq5

thats right but Abir also needs to understand that mishti really cannot solve this issue unless kuhu wants to solve it. And kuhu dosent want to, its clear. Kuhu actually dint care that even Abir too was on the cover pic, her so called bro with whom she was feeling jealous of. What stopped Abir from asking her this question, kuhu would have realised she was wrong there. Its not that Abir would have overstepped boundaries if he asked kuhu that. And if he has so much boundaries with respect to kuhu then keep her in that boundary. If they call each other bro n Abir cant even make her understand things and have that much haq then why keep calling each other bro. keep the relationship as sister in law - brother in law. call her kuhu n treat her as ur brothers wife not like ur own sibling.

Also Abir needs to start snubbing kuhu whenever she does unnecessary drama. the issue here is no one is making kuhu realize that she needs to keep peace, peace cannot be attained by mishti alone. And Abir is no kid not to realize that

Exactly! Resolving the matter has to come from BOTH sides but as usual Mishti alone apologized to Kuhu, Mishti called the publishers and rectified their mistake and NOBODY thanked her, NOBODY told Kuhu to say sorry to Mishti at the hospital. They were all laughing and joking as if both parties have resolved their differences because Mishti rescued her so all is hunky dory between them.

Abir can not tell Kuhu anything but he can joke with his Bro at the hospital about nail spa and relaxing on the couch etc etc. If he can call her Bro he can frankly offer his advice too about how she should behave at RJV house. Mishti is older in age and status in the household yet Kuhu insults and abuses her on a daily basis! In a cultured house that would not be allowed.

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

I don't think mishti will ignore abir's request to stay seperately. She was even ready to go to Bangalore with him. She first refuse but later she budged in to. When abir firmly said her

Kunal also huv no control on kuhu. He said he will come n say sorry everytime anything happens. It's best nly . Aur kya kare bechara

While kuhu was cursing mishti instead of every one saying mishti to call d publisher if dey scolded her dan n der nly it would stop

I will side with meenu in dis . If u huv spoilt brat like her. U huv to be strict. Varsha is of no use 🤷‍♀

I think Mishti only agreed with Abir's decision to go to Bangalore because she believed it was for her medical health (not to live away in their own house) - she trusted Abir's decision was for the best and so got the courage to tell BB that she will do anything and everything to keep Abir at home, but at the end it is Abir's decision. She had become so dependent on Abir during those 3 months because she mentally very very weak.

But now after the varun-track is over, she got 'closure' to her closure, and felt stronger because the family support is with her, So why would she agree to leave RV house?

Maybe..just maybe as a result of this sister drama over the last few days, Mishti has realised that living in RV house, means she will have to deal with Kuhu which affects not only her but her relationship with Abir as well - so finally, maybe she herself will come with the suggestion to live away for the betterment of their relationship and future (i know that is far-fetched hope).But I'm sure Abir always has the thought of living separately at the back of his mind, because he knows that RV house is unpredictable when it comes to Mishti and their relationship.

@Bold: completely agree👍🏼 I actually feel bad for both Kaveri and Avinash; the kuku relationship has remained stagnant with hardly any growth ever since their second marriage. Especially kuhu hasn't had any growth as character. Like I've said before, I'll say it again, kuku both needed that divorce to happen, they needed time to understand each other with time apart. Kunal has taken Kuhu's support to him, for granted. This was a testing time for their relationship - as a husband it was his duty to sit down with Kuhu and try and explain to her where she was going wrong and why?

The one time makers needed to bring equal screen space for kuhu/kunal and mishti/abir, they didn't. They simply focused on mishti and abir and made it look like they were fighting for no reason

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I think Mishti only agreed with Abir's decision to go to Bangalore because she believed it was for her medical health (not to live away in their own house) - she trusted Abir's decision was for the best and so got the courage to tell BB that she will do anything and everything to keep Abir at home, but at the end it is Abir's decision. She had become so dependent on Abir during those 3 months because she mentally very very weak.

But now after the varun-track is over, she got 'closure' to her closure, and felt stronger because the family support is with her, So why would she agree to leave RV house?

Maybe..just maybe as a result of this sister drama over the last few days, Mishti has realised that living in RV house, means she will have to deal with Kuhu which affects not only her but her relationship with Abir as well - so finally, maybe she herself will come with the suggestion to live away for the betterment of their relationship and future (i know that is far-fetched hope).But I'm sure Abir always has the thought of living separately at the back of his mind, because he knows that RV house is unpredictable when it comes to Mishti and their relationship.

@Bold: completely agree👍🏼 I actually feel bad for both Kaveri and Avinash; the kuku relationship has remained stagnant with hardly any growth ever since their second marriage. Especially kuhu hasn't had any growth as character. Like I've said before, I'll say it again, kuku both needed that divorce to happen, they needed time to understand each other with time apart. Kunal has taken Kuhu's support to him, for granted. This was a testing time for their relationship - as a husband it was his duty to sit down with Kuhu and try and explain to her where she was going wrong and why?

The one time makers needed to bring equal screen space for kuhu/kunal and mishti/abir, they didn't. They simply focused on mishti and abir and made it look like they were fighting for no reason

Well u can call me bias by my approach. I was enjoying grey kunal a lot more Dan positive kunal. I never wanted kunal to turn positive. I knew d day he turn positive his character importance will go . I was just waiting for him to turn grey again but (😑😑)

Unpopular opinion : I am not yet convince with avinash. I mean he is good with sweet n simple scenes but yet to see his variations in other aspects of kunal Dan dis scenes

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Aap ke wajashe ye idea aaya hai guruji

Makers : let give them dhaasu promo which will shock them

Viewers 1 : Omg 😲 ye kya ho raha hai

Viewers 2: let predict the track

Viewer 3: mishbir will be in this together

Viewers 4: I have hope makers told us let the real track unfold

Viewer 5: let start twitter trends

Viewer 6 : very interesting promo

Viewer 7: sees and trend spoiler and articles

Makers : become happy seeing promo is trending and every one is talking about it...

Star plus and producer: good job

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Janmashtami Kand bahar aye 😆

Honeymoon ka location bhi mast hai