Originally posted by: naq5
the way the makers have shown its been showing mishti symphatising with a rapist since beginning by making her think of only the murder n not rape attempt. Her i Made a mistake i did wrong shows exactly that. They have actually been downplaying the rape attempt n molestation on her by making it more of abir choosing between ketki n mishti.
She killed someone in defence. ok she wants to tell the truth ok. But the truth is that she killed in defence. why isn't she telling that truth. Abir respect also lies in that mishti his wife isn't a murderer she protected herself in self defence. I did not like mishti only harping about that she killed karan today. Ek to it was not murder it was self defence. She should have been clear n stood up for herself that she hit in self defence. As a woman I'm disappointed with how trivial the makers have made molestation into by not making mishti speak about it. If the woman herself dosent stand for herself how will others do it for her. Now after the truth comes out that mishti dint actually kill him then if they plan to. Make her strong then it's gives a wrong signal. Mishti was never so weak that she will not tell the complete truth. A woman's respect comes first before any family's respect. N abirs respect is maintained only if her respect is there.
mishti symphatising with a rapist since beginning by making her think of only the murder n not rape attempt.
She never sympathised with Karan.
She sympathised with his family...
A crime can be anything..but rape attempt or molestation is a shameful crime...not only the survivor and her family suffers...
The boy / man whoever commits it is somebody's son too..who has to bear the guilt of not seeing where his/ her son's mentality was going...that family suffers too from society...
So I don't see anything wrong with Mishty sympathising with Karan's family..
She should have been clear n stood up for herself that she hit in self defence.
No one can say that..It's my right to kill someone if they molested me...
of course self defense matters..it's her right to defend herself but not to kill...it's a precarious premise..
As the story unfolds it's Mishty''s right to self defend is upholded..not murder..true culprit is in hiding..
We have to consider Mishty''s moral compass too...according to her a wrong is wrong for whatever right reason it's done
woman's respect comes first before any family's respect.
Totally agree..
But she is never going to lose that self respect... that's Mishty..
Even when Abir was not by her side she fought for her respect..
And now Kethu's self respect... family izzath and all...it's her call whether to get married to a family of blackmailers and rapists..
Actually it's her stance in the show which will determine the writers perspective towards a women's self-respect.
Edited by suryavni - 5 years ago