Yes yeh bhi ho sakta h jhoola might be Anirudh's surprise and flowers too, but instead of he himself do it, it would be some one else or by doing that he try to persuade her to stay in haveli only. As Ani said earlier too, Bondita is a kid, and to make her understand something, he has to use different things. but still i am happy Anirudh first time with full determination with out any guilt called Bondita his wife.
Hope he stays with the same determination 😳 but it looked he was all concious and know what he is talking while declaring her as his wife.