Originally posted by: Aleyamma47
Oh my apologies, I did not mean to criticize her English but I was rather furious that she is taking the wrong meaning of what I have said.
My extreme apologies Mala, I should have not have criticized your English, because I myself believe that no one is perfect. Really my extreme apologies for those words.
I disagree that ACTORS can't become idols because we have examples of Amir Khan who is indeed an IDOL through his good deeds.
I agree with you that army personnel, scientists and researchers make better IDOLS!
Here what the Pranbir fandom is doing is called as IDOLATRY, that is blindly following every WRONGDOING shown by Pranbir.
Okay let me get this straight to you. We aren't idolizing pranbir. In fact I find prachi to be super annoying sometimes. We just think they make a good couple and we are rooting for them to get together, that's it. Prachi is incredibly flawed and so is Ranbir and literally every character. But there's just too much negativity out in the world now already so it doesn't hurt to discuss how cute Ranbir is when he does something for prachi etc.
And amir Khan as a person is an idol,not the characters he plays. Sriti jha does a lot for the society. So does Shika but Aliya is the worst person there is, doesn't mean I don't respect shikha and what she has done for the orphans and girl children.
I agree that itv has too much negativity but that has to do with stuff like character assaulting women, women damaging other women's character, fake molestation charges,murder, terrorism(that could be sensitive to people who have actually lose their loved ones in these attacks in real lives) etc than these trivial things like prachi isn't acting like a 21 year old. I agree but so what if she isn't. Only Aryan and shahna are. And you don't have to be a super human to know that killing is wrong btw. You just have to be a human for that. And I agree that all itv couples are flawed that includes pranbir. But I don't agree that abhigya is better than pranbir or something not because I am an ardent pranbir follower who idolize them but because abhigya has too much toxicity. Maybe pranbir might also have in future,I won't put it beyond the makers to do that. But atm no couple is better than the other,they are all toxic and they shouldn't be looked up to in real lives as one true pairing. Draw a line between fiction and reality. You can't watch stuff and hope that everything shown would apply in real life. There are shows like naagin,what part of that applies in real life? And who in real life knows a woman who'd do anything to kill her own sister in law and get her out of the way or something? Or who in real life would be so obsessive and possessive over the woman he asked to leave seven years ago knowing she is with another man happily now? Or who'd be stuck over someone for 20 years when you have kids to raise? Or who in real like would take the blame for something they didn't do like a murder or an alleged drug dealer? Does any of this seem real to you? It doesn't,so take fiction as a fiction.
And no we aren't like abhigya fandom. We are all for healthy debates and discussions. In so many cases we all disagree with each other but we never take it personally. And we choose to discuss the obvious negativity in characters like Maya and Rhea over others because we choose to focus on the bigger issues here. Doesn't mean your opinions aren't valid. Just don't be aggressive and go around calling everyone else stupid. You say we aren't trying to understand your point but it seems like you are being a hypocrite and not trying to understand what we are trying to say. So yeah if you don't agree with us then cool just agree to disagree and move on enjoy whatever parts of show you like enjoying and we'd enjoy what we like enjoying.
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