"Ghar toh woh hota hai jahan chot aik ko lagay aur dard sab ko ho Humray ghar jaisay nahi jahan har koi apnay dard kay saath akela jee raha hain" Even in a house full of people Abir felt lonely. He used to feel suffocated in his own house. Since day 1 his family taunted him for staying away .
My heart broke for Abir Rajvansh because yet again his family disappointed him. Ever since day 1 they have blamed him for running away from his responsibilities never once asking him his reason for going away.I remember how he once questioned that why does no one bother to check up on him or see the pain behind his fake smiles. He has never been given unconditional love."Maa aur Kunal mujhse pyaar kartay hain par uss pyaar ki mujhe qeemat chukani padhti hain"
"Dur rehanay ka matlab yay nahi risthay bhool gaye "
Abir very rightly states that the fact he lived separately doesn't mean he stopped caring. This needed to be said since the nuclear family concept is still demonized in our society.Loved how Abir called out his family's hypocrisy just because he stayed away from his family with his wife for 3 months doesn't mean that he doesn't care or he has no right to know what's going on in his sister's life. As the eldest son of the family no one thought it was important to keep him in the loop just because he was living separately. Is living away from home such a big crime.
"Hamesha mujhe hi kyun prove karna padhta hain Kay main iss ghar ka beta hu aap sab mera yakeen kyun nahi kartay" why does he even have to prove his importance. Why is the respect that he deserves contingent on where he lives. Abir always had to prove his loyalty to his family even now he wasn't informed about his sister even when he checked in with the family daily. In contrast Kunal was informed & no one minds him staying away since he is alone & gone for work. No one is willing to understand Abir's reasons for staying away they all believe that Abir's NGO work isn't work & he was just vacationing . Is it because Kunal was alone and Abir was spending time with his wife. Can a newly married couple not spend time with each other?
Also what's despicable is that not even once the family has made Mish feel that she was missed too. Except from Parul Masi no one told her that they are happy she is back. They can see that she is distressed but instead they are judging her.
Kuhu lost my respect a long time ago but today she stoops to a new low. She is just pissed and frustrated at the fact that she stayed away from her hubby for 3 months while Mish was honey mooning with Abir. The amount of venom she spewed today sigh even a pandemic can't change certain people. I mean to say people are dying from a deadly disease life ain't normal anymore but Kuhu is still stuck on what Mish is upto and how everything is her fault. Loved how Abir rightfully called her out today. If she had respected the so called fake bro bond she wouldn't have spiked his drink and let Parul Maasi take the blame. She didn't confess until she was caught and even today she didn't say sorry. Rather she said Mish is churning out fake stories. Also why did she accuse Mish of stealing her bro like gal he is Mishti's husband of course Mish is his priority like why are you treating Mish like a 3rd angle?? KUCH BHI🤦♀️🤦♀️
Abir Rajvansh was just so damn good today asking all the right questions I legit clapped when he said "Mishti abb aur adjust nahi karay gi" he and his wife have had enough. Why should they always be the understanding and mature ones why for once the other family members can't be accommodating.
One of the reasons Abir fell for Mishti was that she prioritized him. She sneaked out at night to check up on him. She truly cared."Tum awesome ho""Mujhe celebrity wali feeling ahati hain" she loved him unconditionally.
She made him feel important. Mish saw beneath his mask and fake smiles. She helped him solve the biggest mystery of his life. She grounded him. She literally is his pyaara sa ghar who compelled the Banjara to stay at one place. So don't you dare call Mishti a homebreaker she is Abir's home. Also don't forget that Abir wanted to move out but she refused and even now she brought him back, Honestly the people who are still defending Kuhu its 2020 for god's sake bullies like her legit trigger people's mental health issues like she triggered Mish today. Its due to her that Mish said "Mujhe yahan ahana hi nahi chayiya tha". People like her force people to commit suicide. Call a spade a spade please its high time.
Stray Thoughts
Loved the small Mishbir room scene Abir cracking jokes to lighten up Mishti's mood was the cutest thing ever.
Varu's entry was intriguing
Ketu and Abir have such a cute bro sis bond
Over all a bang on episode