Har baar mujhe kyun prove karna hota hain ..15th July Analysis

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Posted: 5 years ago
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"Ghar toh woh hota hai jahan chot aik ko lagay aur dard sab ko ho Humray ghar jaisay nahi jahan har koi apnay dard kay saath akela jee raha hain" Even in a house full of people Abir felt lonely. He used to feel suffocated in his own house. Since day 1 his family taunted him for staying away .


My heart broke for Abir Rajvansh because yet again his family disappointed him. Ever since day 1 they have blamed him for running away from his responsibilities never once asking him his reason for going away.I remember how he once questioned that why does no one bother to check up on him or see the pain behind his fake smiles. He has never been given unconditional love."Maa aur Kunal mujhse pyaar kartay hain par uss pyaar ki mujhe qeemat chukani padhti hain"

"Dur rehanay ka matlab yay nahi risthay bhool gaye "


Abir very rightly states that the fact he lived separately doesn't mean he stopped caring. This needed to be said since the nuclear family concept is still demonized in our society.Loved how Abir called out his family's hypocrisy just because he stayed away from his family with his wife for 3 months doesn't mean that he doesn't care or he has no right to know what's going on in his sister's life. As the eldest son of the family no one thought it was important to keep him in the loop just because he was living separately. Is living away from home such a big crime.

"Hamesha mujhe hi kyun prove karna padhta hain Kay main iss ghar ka beta hu aap sab mera yakeen kyun nahi kartay" why does he even have to prove his importance. Why is the respect that he deserves contingent on where he lives. Abir always had to prove his loyalty to his family even now he wasn't informed about his sister even when he checked in with the family daily. In contrast Kunal was informed & no one minds him staying away since he is alone & gone for work. No one is willing to understand Abir's reasons for staying away they all believe that Abir's NGO work isn't work & he was just vacationing . Is it because Kunal was alone and Abir was spending time with his wife. Can a newly married couple not spend time with each other?

Also what's despicable is that not even once the family has made Mish feel that she was missed too. Except from Parul Masi no one told her that they are happy she is back. They can see that she is distressed but instead they are judging her.

Kuhu lost my respect a long time ago but today she stoops to a new low. She is just pissed and frustrated at the fact that she stayed away from her hubby for 3 months while Mish was honey mooning with Abir. The amount of venom she spewed today sigh even a pandemic can't change certain people. I mean to say people are dying from a deadly disease life ain't normal anymore but Kuhu is still stuck on what Mish is upto and how everything is her fault. Loved how Abir rightfully called her out today. If she had respected the so called fake bro bond she wouldn't have spiked his drink and let Parul Maasi take the blame. She didn't confess until she was caught and even today she didn't say sorry. Rather she said Mish is churning out fake stories. Also why did she accuse Mish of stealing her bro like gal he is Mishti's husband of course Mish is his priority like why are you treating Mish like a 3rd angle?? KUCH BHI🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Abir Rajvansh was just so damn good today asking all the right questions I legit clapped when he said "Mishti abb aur adjust nahi karay gi" he and his wife have had enough. Why should they always be the understanding and mature ones why for once the other family members can't be accommodating.

One of the reasons Abir fell for Mishti was that she prioritized him. She sneaked out at night to check up on him. She truly cared."Tum awesome ho""Mujhe celebrity wali feeling ahati hain" she loved him unconditionally.

She made him feel important. Mish saw beneath his mask and fake smiles. She helped him solve the biggest mystery of his life. She grounded him. She literally is his pyaara sa ghar who compelled the Banjara to stay at one place. So don't you dare call Mishti a homebreaker she is Abir's home. Also don't forget that Abir wanted to move out but she refused and even now she brought him back, Honestly the people who are still defending Kuhu its 2020 for god's sake bullies like her legit trigger people's mental health issues like she triggered Mish today. Its due to her that Mish said "Mujhe yahan ahana hi nahi chayiya tha". People like her force people to commit suicide. Call a spade a spade please its high time.


Stray Thoughts

Loved the small Mishbir room scene Abir cracking jokes to lighten up Mishti's mood was the cutest thing ever.

Varu's entry was intriguing

Ketu and Abir have such a cute bro sis bond

Over all a bang on episode

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Posted: 5 years ago
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This is the ABHIR RAJVANSH I fell in love.So good to see him after break.Now he will fight mishti's battle and will help her to come out from her demons.Kuhu she badly need some kind of shock treatment to come out of her delusional world where everything happen coz of mishti.

I m very excited to see mishbir journey from now on

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Lovely post😀hats off to u guys for the patience with which u analyse decipher each and every emotion and make us feel more for the characters. To be honest we need to ignore ppl who are defending Kuhu. Faltu me importance de rahe unko.

Post leap the writers have really upped their game . They have really utilised the lockdown for some amazing story line and screen play . So so happy With how things are moving. 😇pls keep writing. It’s lovely reading ur analysis posts 🙂

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I was thinking of that quote you started with yesterday when Abir finally speaks out for himself. Amazing post! We haven't interacted before. I am Daya.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: surbhi1995

This is the ABHIR RAJVANSH I fell in love.So good to see him after break.Now he will fight mishti's battle and will help her to come out from her demons.Kuhu she badly need some kind of shock treatment to come out of her delusional world where everything happen coz of mishti.

I m very excited to see mishbir journey from now on

Abir slayer Rajvansh is back uss say better kuch nahi ho sakta. K needed the reality check. Same I am loving the MishBir bits so far

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinutha91

Lovely post😀hats off to u guys for the patience with which u analyse decipher each and every emotion and make us feel more for the characters. To be honest we need to ignore ppl who are defending Kuhu. Faltu me importance de rahe unko.

Post leap the writers have really upped their game . They have really utilised the lockdown for some amazing story line and screen play . So so happy With how things are moving. 😇pls keep writing. It’s lovely reading ur analysis posts 🙂

Thanks for your lovely words. This is actually less back in the day I used to write 1000 word plus reviews for the show. Yeah writers really have learned what the fans want during lock down. The writing has been really good

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelfire78

I was thinking of that quote you started with yesterday when Abir finally speaks out for himself. Amazing post! We haven't interacted before. I am Daya.

Hi Daya

I am Zara I used to write long af MishBir reviews for each episode until I stopped and transitioned to twitter. Yeah this is one of my fav post leap Abir dialogues

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Abir’s word which you quoted - I accidentally saw that episode only yesterday before watching new episode! Earlier episodes, I did not pay attention to Abir’s words that much! Now I can relate !

coincidently, yesterday Mishti was telling that she had enough of test! Now Abir is telling you ppl are testing me!

But seriously speaking , we humans are always evaluated by actions and words, rather than emotions and intentions! Harsh reality!


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Posted: 5 years ago
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bang on zara...


no one except mishti... respects and love abir and his work... she loves abir like he is perfect in what ever he does, even same goes with abir too... he loves her unconditionally and treats her like a queen...


kunal is out of home, he is doing work but the work is related RJV and they know on which he is working, but they never try to ask abir about his work nor encourage him, for god sake apart from running NGO he is a app developer and entreprenuer of the year too... but no one recognises it... as abir never shows his work pressure nor his work nor show off about his talent...


the main thing, abir is with his wife right after marriage that for 3 months, who will digest it, abir should take responsibility of everyone and should love everyone except his wife... this show how they are obsessed with abir but never love him...


he know only mishti loves him unconditionally, she never kept any conditions nor she will keep... so if he loves her to the core no one can digest it...


abir ko sab judge karenge and dont even respect but he should solve everyone problem...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Wowww zara..such a wonderful analysis...I loved reading it

We haven't interacted much..I'm Ammu......🤗🤗

What u said is absolutely ryt.. putting in some words Mishti is Abir's only family and vice versa...their love is above anything..I think the love that Mishbir have for each other is so pure that,the ppl surrounding them fails to understand that...💔💔

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