BARRISTER BABU CHAT CLUB #12BB KI AYEGI NEW EPIs DT NT pg 120 - Page 62

Originally posted by: Home786

I trust you to the core Alexia.. You knew it, I love you the most... Please don't back off behen.... Please.

Don't make my depressed now dear. 😔😒

I cant take it forward

Might as well leave

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

Please aisa mat karo Alexia.

I am really sorry that we were being inconsiderate of you. You are not only a member but a family, this whole group of barrister babu are family. If you leave, it won’t be the same. Please don’t.

All of us will try to understand yours and each other’s problems from now on. But please don’t do that.

And most Importantly, all of us trust you here. Maybe more than ourselves

But then have there been a thought that maybe they are busy

Maybe they have problems

Not only me others too. I just expected a PM. Just a PM asking is there any problem but no

Kahaan milta hai yeh sab

Originally posted by: Home786

I really don't know... I thought you're Ok today... That's everyday, I start my forum activity by enquiring you personally....

You've misunderstood me Alexia... 😭

I know you might not know this

And its totally fine Shaheen. But puchna aur jatana alag hota hai. I expected some trust on me. Agar main aayi nahi toh I expected some haq that you will ask me where am I and why am I not coming

But you toh never said anything like that

Originally posted by: Home786

Yes... We trust you Alexia more than ourselves... We are a family and you're a head who is leading this family with full bestowment... Please don't get angry.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

And Alexia, I also apologize for complaining. We should have been more understanding of yours and other’s problems with the timing. We kind of forgot that people have life beyond India forums and will not always have time for things like this. They might feel bad and guilty reading comment about how they are, in a way stopping the game from being fun like how it was suppose to be.

I hope you forgive us and I promise that I will be more careful of how other people feel from now on.

Even you have life beyond IF so this was to be taken care of

I toh have duties here too na

Understanding is required

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Agreed to the fact we didnt come

But then have there been a thought that maybe they are busy

Maybe they have problems

Not only me others too. I just expected a PM. Just a PM asking is there any problem but no

Kahaan milta hai yeh sab

I truly do feel bad for not thinking of other people’s problem. But the thing is I am someone who tends to overthink a lot. I always think before posting anything so to make sure that it doesnt have any thing that might offend someone.

I feel like asking someone who you don’t really know or talk to about their personal life might make them feel weird or they might judge me for being nosy so I choose to not get to personal with anyone online.

When you said you were going to take a break from forums for sometime, I wanted to ask you but I thought you were using this time to clear up your mental health and didn’t wanna disturb you.

Again, I will from now on make sure that I do consult with someone who has recently started behaving weirdly distant. I don’t want someone to feel like no one cares about them because I know how that feels. It’s a really horrible feeling but since I am a person who tends to keep everything to themselves, I don’t really mind other people’s ignorance to my feelings because it’s me that is not letting my feelings out.

But I do understand that not everyone is like that.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

I truly do feel bad for not thinking of other people’s problem. But the thing is I am someone who tends to overthink a lot. I always think before posting anything so to make sure that it doesnt have any thing that might offend someone.

I feel like asking someone who you don’t really know or talk to about their personal life might make them feel weird or they might judge me for being nosy so I choose to not get to personal with anyone online.

When you said you were going to take a break from forums for sometime, I wanted to ask you but I thought you were using this time to clear up your mental health and didn’t wanna disturb you.

Again, I will from now on make sure that I do consult with someone who has recently started behaving weirdly distant. I don’t want someone to feel like no one cares about them because I know how that feels. It’s a really horrible feeling but since I am a person who tends to keep everything to themselves, I don’t really mind other people’s ignorance to my feelings because it’s me that is not letting my feelings out.

But I do understand that not everyone is like that.

Agreed to the fact that asking something personal can be considered being nosy. But isnt complaining also bad?Have I ever been inconsiderate towards you all?Is it so problematic?

I know how it feels to get ignored and it has happened on IF only. Where my journey started I got ignored.Why? Because I took a path they disliked

I am sensitive due to this considering the fact I had real bad days here

But then you cant expect a lot from people any which ways

Its easier and wiser to let go and than stay

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Even you have life beyond IF so this was to be taken care of

I toh have duties here too na

Understanding is required

Yeah understanding is required in any relationship, weather it’s of a parent-kid or husband-wife. And I do agree with that.

I can’t speak for all of the people in the forum but me personally, have only been able to have that deep, trustworthy, understanding relationship with only one person in my whole entire life. I would say for me, I tend to keep out of other people’s business even if I think that me being involved will not really effect the situation badly.

Understanding is something that comes after you talk to people and really understand who they are. I haven’t been able to really talk to you that much, apart from the serials writings, which I am deeply regretting now. You seem to have a lot of things to deal with in your life rn.

Well, why not start over and actually get to learn each other more.

Hi, my name is shiristika, nickname srishti. I lived for sometime of my childhood in Nepal and came to the states at the age of 5. I am very talkative and you may think I am immature by my talks but if the situation requires, I can give out decent views and advice. I may seem to have no problems and scars in my life, but trust me, there are many. I just don’t like showing them. My favorite food is Pani puri and I love to watch romantic shows.

Alexia, this is not me trying to make you become a member again but me trying to know you more. I hope you accept this 😊♥️

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Agreed to the fact that asking something personal can be considered being nosy. But isnt complaining also bad?Have I ever been inconsiderate towards you all?Is it so problematic?

I know how it feels to get ignored and it has happened on IF only. Where my journey started I got ignored.Why? Because I took a path they disliked

I am sensitive due to this considering the fact I had real bad days here

But then you cant expect a lot from people any which ways

Its easier and wiser to let go and than stay

Yeah, I and I would say many of us were very wrong in complaining. I wish I was able to go back and stop that from coming from me and many other people. And trust me that, you are the best mod anyone can ever have. You have never been inconsiderate. It was us.

But we are humans, right? And humans do make mistakes. We learn from them, and we move on, keeping that lesson with us. We make choices, decisions by learning from our mistakes.

I am not going to say that you should forgive us because it’s you that felt hurt and you should be the only one deciding if you think we are really worthy of that forgiveness. But I would say that once a person has realized that he/she has made a mistake, he/she won’t make it again. Maybe after this, people will be more wise and thoughtful of what they comment.

Again, it all depends on you. You can forgive us whenever you want. It can be right now or after 1-2 years since this show will last pretty long. Take your time, there’s no rush.

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Agreed to the fact that asking something personal can be considered being nosy. But isnt complaining also bad?Have I ever been inconsiderate towards you all?Is it so problematic?

I know how it feels to get ignored and it has happened on IF only. Where my journey started I got ignored.Why? Because I took a path they disliked

I am sensitive due to this considering the fact I had real bad days here

But then you cant expect a lot from people any which ways

Its easier and wiser to let go and than stay

Please don't back off.... Forum needs you.. I will back off from everything.. Forums needs you more than anything else. Your presence is needed rather than anyone else. I apologize to you from my side and on behalf of others who failed to understood your absence... Sorry once again.... Please forgive us and come back Alexia... We need you badly....