How intention can make an action different

Hii guys this post is not bash anyone but I just want to put my views on this show.since the time anurag threw pre off the bridge he has been bashed left right and centre.he has been called by names like murder,separating pre from everyone , an underserving father and what not.

Let's see difference between intention and action in this show only.

1) both Naveen and Mr bjaj made deal with prerna for marriage.i am refraining myself from using word blackmail as people do jo call it a blackmailing.

Result of bjaj deal was that pre was disown by her family and everyperson whom she used to love.remember pre in Switzerland alone.how suffocated she was feeling.

Anyways what makes him grey and Navin black was intension though action was same that is deal marriage.navin intention was to sell pre and bjaj wanted a naanu for his daughter that's it.

Similarly in this situation as cvs shows anurag intention was right but his action was extreme.i know it's not acceptable in real world.bit it's a fiction story.so we need to go by story without any biasness.

Agar bat intention kay atee hai then lets start from the beginning . just shuru se shuruyat karte hai .

Like Naveen babu ka entry hui kahase .. basu family kay bajajse ... and mohini ka intention was to make marital relationship bet naveen n prerna. her intention was not to destroy pre's life .. becoz of her intention prerna life turned as hell ... later anurag saved preyu .. inhi challte uss save karne kay chalte chalte anurag -prerna ka peyar ho geye .. they did consummation jiska result hai sneha .. anurag ka intention was not to hurt pre, only giving love.. but end result sneha , pre marriage pregnancy jiska abtak ka keya anjam on going woh toh hum sabnei dekhlia

. inhi beech mishka through komo anurag kayi jindagi mai ayee .. anurag ka intention was not to hurt prerna , but he married komolika to save pre's ghar .. jiske chalte prerna bin bihai ma bani , faced enormous insult bla bla bls.. also komo kay ane se ek time kay baad pre lost her father .. everything .. chalo idhar bhi anurag ka intention was not to hurt , he only wanted prerna's happiness. but at the end result , sabkoi pata hai ...

now bajaj part .. bajaj ka entry bhi prerna kay jindagi mai hui hai basu family kay bajajse. To save anurag , mohini- nivi sent her to bajaj and bajaj offered her a deal on term and condition . prerna ko woh sauda manjur hui and they married. now mohini - nivi ka intention was anurag's happiness , but at the end prerna had to marry ...

in swiss , prerna was not alone at all .. pura Swiss mai anurag glued with prerna like anything. har ek jagah follow karna and what not . yes prerna was detached from her family just for time being . cos bajaj shadi stayed for 1/2 months as per show's timeline . swiss se ane kay baad 2 din kay andar they came to live under basu roof .. toh anupre ka EMA was talk of the town . prerna kuch din kay baad maikay mai ana jana everything she did whatever she wanted .. even on that time bajaj helped veena to earn money in subtle way ..

but as naveen n bajaj are third wheel , so they all termed in villain category ...

But anurag's intention , anurag's actions and the aftermath .. basu families connection to make pre's life hell everything will be justified by cv as anurag is white as per track . so he will get sympathy from cv .

and yah i agree with your last line 👍🏼 . agar Bajaj , naveen babu , komolika wrong hai , despite being a positive character Anurag same category mai ate hai directly , indirectly balki kahi jeyada ,

People are going to get biased. Period.

The story sucks. Majority is sticking here for their favorite actors. We tend to justify things our dear ones do because we have a soft corner for them. This is no secret. That's about it. 🤷‍♀

I might possibly be sharing my thoughts in a chain of posts as it deals with a lot of things. And those won't be bashing but my POV

First thought- should I consider Anurag is just another third person like Naveen, Komolika, Bajaj, Viraj and not quote unquote "Soulmate"?

If he is then what makes him the lead of the show? Then why do we all cry and shout when Komolika and Bajaj if they do something with a good intention. Komolika's good intention was to get her love back so she attacked Prerna just like Anurag did.

Bajaj married Prerna, (please remember she agreed) for his daughter.

Prerna used Viraj to bring back Anurag's memory jabki she had no idea that he was bad person.

By this logic ya to all of these people are right or all are wrong. So either we defend all with same passion or question all with same conviction.

With regards to RB-PB’s deal:

I was under the impression that the sharma was upset with Prerna because of the way Prerna dealt with the situation and not because of RB’a deal or actions... Our Madam left with her suitcase quietly without informing anyone, went and got married with full rituals without inviting or informing her family... Veena Ma got to know about this from the Great Mohini Basu, and she is the last person who knows how to communicate with ppl without insulting them..

So, Prerna was fully responsible on how the sharma’s behaved with her.. As far as I am aware, RB always respected the sharmas.

Coming to Anurag Basu now:

1. I didnt like the fact that he took the decision on his one that affected soo many lives..

2. Prerna could have died way before she hit the water

3. How will anyone justify the separation between a young mother and a 2 yr old daughter? Who is solely responsible for that?

RB wanted a mother for his daughter, a family home... If he wanted a nanny, then he could have made her the maid of the house and not Mrs Bajaj...

Mrs Bajaj.. Mrs Prerna Bajaj - the name says it all...

The same name that gave Pre equality, freedom and an identity that is more than just a PA or a nurse to the Basu..

Originally posted by: cassiop

I might possibly be sharing my thoughts in a chain of posts as it deals with a lot of things. And those won't be bashing but my POV

First thought- should I consider Anurag is just another third person like Naveen, Komolika, Bajaj, Viraj and not quote unquote "Soulmate"?

If he is then what makes him the lead of the show? Then why do we all cry and shout when Komolika and Bajaj if they do something with a good intention. Komolika's good intention was to get her love back so she attacked Prerna just like Anurag did.

Bajaj married Prerna, please remember she agreed for his daughter.

Prerna used Viraj to bring back Anurag's memory jabki she had no idea that he was bad person.

By this logic ya to all of these people are right or all are wrong. So either we defend all with same passion or question all with same conviction.

No she never knew bjaj married her for his daughter.she came to know about her after coming from swiss.she married when bjaj offered her proof for anurag innocence which he had .

Yes fact is no one is saint and that is the only thing I like in this show.

Also Anurag's Action did not only create effects on prerna ... but also -

1) Basu family is horribly suffering

2) Sneha is suffering , detached from mother

3) Basu's Business has lost the root identity

4) Sharma Family suffering horribly

5) Somehow komolika as well as being a wife she never got her legal priority from anurag . yah now anurag knew the fact she is komo .. what when anurag was on ML condition , how he treated sonalika , everyone knows very well

Anurag is following that mantra ..

Jo jhoot Kisi ki Jaan bachane ke liye bola jaye.. Wo jhoot nahi hota...😆

But bechara He is not aware of the conditions applied.. 🤣

Ps: I m not supporting his actions.. He was spineless and he will remain.. ✋

Originally posted by: surbhi1995

No she never knew bjaj married her for his daughter.she came to know about her after coming from swiss.she married when bjaj offered her proof for anurag innocence which he had .

Yes fact is no one is saint and that is the only thing I like in this show.

She never knew Anurag is going to throw her off the bridge either. She never knew she will never be able to see her daughter again. She only got to know when she actually fell off the bridge that what has happened with her. With Bajaj at least both her life and baby were way more safe and protected. Not just her life and baby but her self respect too.

Also she went to Bajaj. She accepted the deal without giving it a thought. She was warned several times thats it will a sacrificial deal and she was equal part of that deal. Nobody held her hostage or put a gun on her head to accept the deal. She failed to find a way to release Anurag and accepted the proposal and she owned her decision post shaadi. Unlike Anurag who instead of fighting (just like her) decided to throw her and now instead of owning his decision he is been portrayed like he had no option. All he is doing is self pity and call himself a thornbird which is irritating honestly.

Noboby asked him to do that, he did it himself. So sorry but he can't be defended ever. Never.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Agar bat intention kay atee hai then lets start from the beginning . just shuru se shuruyat karte hai .

Like Naveen babu ka entry hui kahase .. basu family kay bajajse ... and mohini ka intention was to make marital relationship bet naveen n prerna. her intention was not to destroy pre's life .. becoz of her intention prerna life turned as hell ...

Mohini was never hailed for blackmailing ore to get married to Naveen.. however anurag saver her frm that marriage to life kab hell hui----aisa kuchh show me dikhaya???

later anurag saved preyu .. inhi challte uss save karne kay chalte chalte anurag -prerna ka peyar ho geye .. they did consummation jiska result hai sneha .. anurag ka intention was not to hurt pre, only giving love.. but end result sneha , illegal pregnancy jiska abtak ka keya anjam on going woh toh hum sabnei dekhlia ----anuPre consummation was mutual to jo anurag k intentions the wo preyu k bhi the....

. inhi beech mishka through komo anurag kayi jindagi mai ayee .. anurag ka intention was not to hurt prerna , but he married komolika to save pre's ghar ..

Anurag agreed to Komolika's deal bcoz both prerna n Veena begged him to save Rajesh at any cost just like moh n nivi sent pre to bajaj

jiske chalte prerna bin bihai ma bani , faced enormous insult bla bla bls.. ye kab hua...as far as I remember kahin bhi show me prerna ko bin biyahi maa nhi dikhaya the day she got to know about her pregnancy next day she was in bb claiming to be anurag's wife..

also komo kay ane se ek time kay baad pre lost her father .. everything .. chalo idhar bhi anurag ka intention was not to hurt , he only wanted prerna's happiness. but at the end result , sabkoi pata hai ...so komo killed rajesh and for that anurag n his intentions have to be blamed👏

now bajaj part .. bajaj ka entry bhi prerna kay jindagi mai hui hai basu family kay bajajse. To save anurag , mohini- nivi sent her to bajaj and bajaj offered her a deal on term and condition . prerna ko woh sauda manjur hui and they married. now mohini - nivi ka intention was anurag's happiness , but at the end prerna had to marry ... this was the same case with anurag both Veena n pre begged him to save Rajesh at any cost..Veena to uske pairo pe gir gayi n pre said bas unko bacha lo bas ye aakhiri cheej kar do phr I won't ask u anything and where was anurag n his intentions involved here...

in swiss , prerna was not alone at all .. pura Swiss mai anurag glued with prerna like anything. har ek jagah follow karna and what not . yes prerna was detached from her family just for time being . cos bajaj shadi stayed for 1/2 months as per show's timeline . swiss se ane kay baad 2 din kay andar they came to live under basu roof .. toh anupre ka EMA was talk of the town . prerna kuch din kay baad maikay mai ana jana everything she did whatever she wanted .. even on that time bajaj helped veena to earn money in subtle way ..

but as naveen n bajaj are third wheel , so they all termed in villain category ...chlo achcha hai u categorised both Naveen n Bajaj in the same category...and both have won awards for a negative role so how can they not be considered as villian...as per my knowledge the negative award is for the villian or vamp of the show.

But anurag's intention , anurag's actions and the aftermath .. basu families connection to make pre's life hell everything will be justified by cv as anurag is white as per track . so he will get sympathy from cv .

and yah i agree with your last line 👍🏼 . agar Bajaj , naveen babu , komolika wrong hai , despite being a positive character Anurag same category mai ate hai directly , indirectly balki kahi jeyada ,