Who was Right, Abir or Mishti??

Today I felt Abir handled the situation so well with Kuhu and maintained the harmony !! my love for him increased<3<3<3

I might be wrong as well but want to check your poll as I just started following The serial, dont know much about kuhu, Mishti Drama, other than reading the forums .. you might be better judges..

What is your opinion? Who is right? Abir or Mishti

As I am angry with abir my vote goes to mishti 😆,but I don't think both are right in dealing with kuhu.

Abir kuch zyada hi underestimate kar deta hai kuhu ko and mishti Kuch zyada hi underestimate kar deti hai khud ko.

Abir dealt with kuhu like he pampered a child, he didn't made kuhu understand that this mistakes should not get repeated instead he said plz don't keep secret from next time

Mishti ignored kuhu deeds till now because of family's happiness, but when parul got blamed she got angry on kuhu, that parul defended kuhu but kuhu tried to put false accusations on parul. So now she wants everyone to know who did that, her straightforwardness could actually create a storm in Rajvansh house. Kuhu ka to jo hona hoga kunal to aur bhi zyada hyper Ho jaayega

This is my two bits. I think Abir handled the situation well but I think in his shock of the revelation he didn't handle it with Mishti well. He could have explained his viewpoint to Mishti without saying hurtful things to her. I know he didn't mean it and we probably say things to the ones we love most when we are upset but it was harsh. I agree with Abir's point of view that there was no point in raking up with happened on Maha Shivratri and it was a mistake and so to let it go. I don't think revealing Kuhu as the culprit would be the right thing to do. At the same time I think Kuhu needs to be spoken to and handled in a better manner. Yes he made her apologise to Parul but did not defend Mishti saying that Mishti never told him about the drugging on the contrary he heard Kuhu accept her own mistake. He deals with Kunal and Kuhu like pampered children and always tries to cover up their mistakes and that is not right. Mishti calls a spade a spade and thats one of the things that Abir always loved about her but here he finds that it jeopardises family equations so wants her not to speak out about it which is fine but just the way he handles Kuhu and Kunal why couldn't he be more gentle with Mishti. Just because she is sensible does not mean she should just take all the crap that is dished out to her.

I will stick to the dealing with kuhu part

I think abir was great in dealing with kuhu, I have already mentioned on at that its only abir who can handle kuhu in such circumstances😎

he empathises with her in such circumstances, eg., during their divorce drama both the times, it was he who she felt free to speak to & share her true feelings & insecurities👍🏼

see we cannot treat everyone the same way, so with kuhu the straight forward approach never works, thats precisely the reason kuhu hides things from mishti & kunal, but trusts abir and shares the same things with him

p.s. I am biased towards abir because I personally find him the most mature & tactful person in the show🤪

I feel sooner or later things are going to take ugly turn between MishBir because of Kuhu. I mean what's this deal of dealing with Kuhu like that of a child and saying the hurtful things to Mish?

I feel mish shouldn't have hidden kuhu's mistake and should have exposed her right then. I mean why would you save someone who's so viscious to you. I don't get Mishti mahaan at all.

I don't agree on Abir pampering Kuhu and bashing Mish. I would really give a hard time to my hubby if he ever says anything like that for anyone.

Kuhu's GALTI'S can't be brushed off everytime.

I definitely don't agree with Abir silently listening to Kuhu badmouthing Mishti.

Originally posted by: aditi16

I feel sooner or later things are going to take ugly turn between MishBir because of Kuhu. I mean what's this deal of dealing with Kuhu like that of a child and saying the hurtful things to Mish?

I feel mish shouldn't have hidden kuhu's mistake and should have exposed her right then. I mean why would you save someone who's so viscious to you. I don't get Mishti mahaan at all.

I don't agree on Abir pampering Kuhu and bashing Mish. I would really give a hard time to my hubby if he ever says anything like that for anyone.

Kuhu's GALTI'S can't be brushed off everytime.

I definitely don't agree with Abir silently listening to Kuhu badmouthing Mishti.

@bold: I dont think Kuhu can affect their relationship, yes there can be difference of opinion but mishbir relationship has grown very mature now, and even mish & abir have grown as people after being in love with each other, so nothing can affect their relationship until it is catastrophic, like abir had to choose kunal over mishti during their last break-up, because it was a crisis situation⭐️

though mishbir can easily affect kuku relationship since their relationship is in infancy stage yet😉

Originally posted by: aditi16

I feel sooner or later things are going to take ugly turn between MishBir because of Kuhu. I mean what's this deal of dealing with Kuhu like that of a child and saying the hurtful things to Mish?

I feel mish shouldn't have hidden kuhu's mistake and should have exposed her right then. I mean why would you save someone who's so viscious to you. I don't get Mishti mahaan at all.

I don't agree on Abir pampering Kuhu and bashing Mish. I would really give a hard time to my hubby if he ever says anything like that for anyone.

Kuhu's GALTI'S can't be brushed off everytime.

I definitely don't agree with Abir silently listening to Kuhu badmouthing Mishti.

Definitely agree with. Abir stood there and listened to Kuhu badmouthing his wife and he said nothing. Amazing isn’t it.

Kuhu said she wouldn’t hurt anyone in this family meaning the rajvansh family. She didn’t say anything about not hurting mishti. She hurt her b4 during dahi handi and this time she wanted to drug mishti. Kuhu herself admitted it to mishti.

Abir chose Kuhu instead of his wife. It’s sad that mishti only has BP and BM who support her. When the going gets tough Abir isn’t there for her. Abir is the same guy who Broke up with her and said all those vicious things.

I’m on Mishtis side on this situation. I felt her pain and I felt how alone she was even though she has a husband who loves her. Love isn’t just romance during the good times and during the difficult times u don’t side with ur wife even when u know she’s right. Sad situation mishti is in

Is there an option : none of the above??

One is too soft and the other is too brash and neither of them lets Kuhu take responsibility for her actions.

I agree to @popeye's post mostly, he dealt with it tactfully.

And @peacenfun is right he is the most empathetic and tactful character in the show. And thats why Kuhu feels comfortable in confiding in him compared to Mishti and Kunal.

But somehow his empathy and tact disappears when it comes to Mishti, as evidenced by the tactless breakup and unempathetic dialogues he said during breakup and his thoughtless statement yesterday.

Also standing there listening to someone bad mouthing his wife doesn't come under neither tact nor empathy towards Kuhu.

Somehow his character contradicts himself when it comes to Kuku vs Mishti.🤔

Kuku is treated with kid gloves and Mishti is made to face harsh realities......🤔

I'm usually a silent spectator in this forum. But thus us a very interesting topic.

I think it's unfair to say that mishti didn't handle it well because she didn't disclose it in front of everyone and make a big deal out of it. Agreed she was pissed but I think that's justified... more so because Kuhu started blaming when she went to talk to her without even listening to what mishti was saying. Also, she planned her birthday

Surprise and like she said that day ..she wasn't happy.

Also if I'm not mistaken, Abir assumes that Kuhu did it by mistake

...when I'm reality she had the intention to spike Mishti's drink...and that is not okay....even the fact that she has those thoughts need to be addressed.

But Abir is living in oblivion and instead unnecessarily blaming Mishti and to make it worse he was just listening to Kuhu. He could have cut her off right there and still listened to her. 😕Don't bring mishti in between

Because it's convenient if you hate her immensely.😏

To top it all of, what makes it worse is Kuhu expecting Mishti to defend her...I mean the nerve.😏

I dont understand how someone can defend the other for childish behaviour. It's cute to an extent...but not when it can be dangerous.

Originally posted by: HorcruxHunter

I'm usually a silent spectator in this forum. But thus us a very interesting topic.

I think it's unfair to say that mishti didn't handle it well because she didn't disclose it in front of everyone and make a big deal out of it. Agreed she was pissed but I think that's justified... more so because Kuhu started blaming when she went to talk to her without even listening to what mishti was saying. Also, she planned her birthday

Surprise and like she said that day ..she wasn't happy.

Also if I'm not mistaken, Abir assumes that Kuhu did it by mistake

...when I'm reality she had the intention to spike Mishti's drink...and that is not okay....even the fact that she has those thoughts need to be addressed.

But Abir is living in oblivion and instead unnecessarily blaming Mishti and to make it worse he was just listening to Kuhu. He could have cut her off right there and still listened to her. 😕Don't bring mishti in between

Because it's convenient if you hate her immensely.😏

To top it all of, what makes it worse is Kuhu expecting Mishti to defend her...I mean the nerve.😏

I dont understand how someone can defend the other for childish behaviour. It's cute to an extent...but not when it can be dangerous.

Bold - point 👍🏼