Originally posted by: Uma2010
I love her too and can push this away as her being her ridiculous innocent free spirit self, but not everybody can do that. No wonder she has to become more “samjhdaar”. Not that I think she will. But it’s time for her to exert a bit of self-restraint in multiple domains. What is painful for me is I trust people too exactly like she does and don’t hold grudges and hope to see people improve themselves and I have learnt the hard way and I see her making the same professional (and personal) mistakes and I made those mistakes at 22. She’s 27 and in a cut throat industry. Anyway, we cannot control their lives- can only vent and feel sorry for them. Chalo, moving on...
Hi uma good morning ...I messaged you to ask something on your pm late night check it ..anyways I want to say something not just to you but in general since this discussion is going on ..
Even I feel it’s high time like really high time Shehnaaz gets mature ..she needs to conduct herself with little caution ..even in B.B. she had no filter on her mouth that can create problems ..plus she is to spontaneous to think of the consequences and lands in trouble ..maybe that is what salman sir pointed ..even during himanshi entry without thinking or discussing she distances herself from everyone especially sid and even went down to go to paras and openly venting out to sid...I didn’t like her there ...but somehow I feel sid now knows her well enough to understand..I admire that quality in sid now that he very well now knows what Shehnaaz thinks and speaks ..but as far as show is concerned..I still feel concrete details are not out
I still feel Sid being unaware of her signing the show is nearly impossible...I even told this yesterday and I’m repeating it again ..nowhere nowhere Shehnaaz has expressed herself to be part of such show even during gg episodes or post it ..by expressed I mean the way she conducted herself with sid...if she would be on board of msk she won’t be running behind childishly after sid when sid was upset post gg task ..if u see those episodes Shehnaaz kept on asking him why are you upset with me ..she was badly hurt when sid said that he won’t like to meet Shehnaaz outside coz she flipped on Gautam kartik ..plus that paras talk post her father ..he thought inspite of her father saying keep distance from paras and salman sir insulting paras to speak rubbish about Shehnaazs father she was least affected as far as sid saw ..she even said I’ll better keep distance from you otherwise I’ll start having feelings...after so much how can she say like this ..the problem is Shehnaaz takes everything too lightly and this comes out as if she is unconcerned ...she thinks everything is a joke ..she has to understand that she needs to get serious at times ..this kind of made sid believe that she doesn’t listen to anyone does her own thing and then the other person is hurt which she doesn’t see ....I myself don’t like this about her ...I must applaud sid for this coz he travelled that bridge and now knows how to handle Shehnaaz and what is going on her mind ...
As far as show is concerned if msk was offered to sana during gg period why was Shehnaaz so confused why sid is hurt post gg came ..she is not that dumb to realize that her signing the show has made sid upset ...even post that If sid would have even accepted the show he wouldn’t have gone down so close to her during finale days and even during her birthday ...even Shehnaaz wouldn’t rant pati pati if she knew she is doing shaadi show ..the families would also not been involved..I feel sid was definately aware when things were happening legally ..I heard from some sources that sid discussed many things in detail ...do you guys remember that live Vedio of Shehnaaz dad where in background the casting directior was giving all details about the contestants and it will be a very clean show he even said sid I have your old no and asked whether it’s the same to which sid said no it’s the same ...I don’t know what happened during the signing phase and Shehnaaz saying yes for the show but she was not that interested from day one ..on finale day she kept on asking sid for details ...her discomfort was very much evident remember that rashmi conversation fight between them Shehnaaz did say mein aise hi nahi chod sakti...to which sid replied koi nahi chod raha hai ...even if you see clearly during later days sid was more trying to patch up with Shehnaaz than her ..and I feel sid is not a kid that out of nowhere he comes to knows about her signing show and breaks up with her and later reconcile in a more stronger way ..also remember even paras was not sure about the concept ...ok now jsit tell why was aarti crying so much in the bathroom and everybody consoling her ...and now finally I don’t feel any guy like sid if is not happy about her signing the show brings his family onboard ...if you see sids family were never much affected by the show ..so maybe they knew certain things in more clarity ....and Shehnaazs family was completely against it that was very much clear ..papa Gill was even ready to pay the legal compensation amount to stop Shehnaaz doing the show ..he even said we don’t want any money for B.B. also ...he is a politician and for such people image matters a lot ..and I have known from some reliable sources outside this forum that post Shehnaaz came out she got details and she denied doing the show and agreed to her family she didn’t come for shoot also ..the channel pressurized them so much that they were ready to pay Shehnaaz more and even let her out on weekends since her dad was clear this will affect her mental health also ...I even came to know through reliable sources that the channel were so hell bend to pressurize Shehnaaz that they even asked her parents not to interfere in her show committed and just leave her alone ...after so much opposition by her parents also if the channel managed to bring Shehnaaz on board imagine what would have happened behind doors ..and jsit tell me if Shehnaaz denied to shoot for the show after talking to her parents then how would it be possible she agreed to do a shaadi shows without even asking sid ...coz during gg even if they both were not official but they definately knew they had feelings for each other ..that line by sid that he won’t meet Shehnaaz outside did hugely hurt Shehnaaz and sid knew it ...I feel intitially they didn’t give a very clear picture of the show format while Shehnaaz gave a vocal yes and later on when the show concept and details were finalized Shehnaaz was tensed but couldn’t go back on her words as it was too late .....I really feel channel has definately manipulated a lot ..it’s evident even paras is not that interested ...but whatever the channels moves be I totally agree that final call was on Shehnaaz and she should have been more careful ..such mistakes may make her pay a heavy price ..but I guess now since she has a pr and a whole team she won’t sign anything like that ..plus one should not forget she was made to sign the show inside the house without any outside contact ..even now she is not allowed to give ivs...something big really happened behind the doors which we are not aware ....
