Self respect talks - Doesnt it apply to sid - Page 3

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Any other guy would have ripped Sana apart. Wow - indeed. Payr dhoke peene chahiye iss maha purush ke sab ko - kitna mahaan kaam kiya to have not ripped the woman apart 👏

Equality is a convenient myth here - there’s nothing to be said if one refuses to see the power imbalance at play. And the same goes for the refusal to acknowledge that hurting a partner and disrespecting a partner are two different things. People in healthy relationships, with respect as a firm fixture, also hurt each other - they’re not mutually exclusive. Shukla cannot respect his partner - that much is obvious from his behaviour with Rashmi, Sana and Aarti.

He can control, emotionally abuse and disrespect the crap out of his partner, however - that too is exceedingly obvious. If he takes Sana’s slaps - that’s his choice, and of course - anyone is free to find him lacking in self-respect for that. Not to mention find this entire equation toxic AF. Doesn’t give him the license to behave as he does towards her. And people are equally free to find Sana lacking in even the semblance of self-respect, to crawl back to him time and again - and especially after the shit he said to her yesterday.

It is my view that no self-respecting woman would give such a POS the time of the day after being treated thus, let alone crawl back to him - and it appears that opinion is shared by at least a few other women. I truly hope Sana is not this version of herself outside of the house - and that she would not allow anyone to treat her thus beyond this game show.

Originally posted by: sahisri

In real life? Who behaves likes this? I dont think even shehnaz will bear the insults and foul language of shukla once she is out of bb..

In case ,in any relationship anyone have that kind of behavior, that relationship wont survive for a long run

Well you'll be surprised. Take any "domestic abuse" case, man or woman, they continue taking the sh!t for "various reasons" - for kids, not independent, society, shame, bad support system, giving benefit of doubt, even for the sake of "love" - Many many reasons why people take "abuse", yes in real life! ... Ofc such relationships don't survive for long, yet there are many cases where partners have tolerated it for years. There was a recent case I read on Bollywood forum where this actress took the abuse for almost 2 decades becoz "kids"! ... Such toxic relationships aren't as uncommon. I mean just look at this forum and SM where Sidnaaz are put on a pedestal. Do you think it's becoz their "favs"?! May be, but I am sure there are many out there with such mentality where treating each other like sh!t means :LOVE:! ... SMH!

I posted this in another thread I am cutting and pasting here

“I am neither Sana or Sid fan.

Any form of abuse, physical, sexual, emotional or financial is an abuse. Unfortunately both Sana and Sid are in this loop, they are not breaking for whatever reason it is - be it the game, be it their core personality.

This loop can only be broken by the person in question, only when they are ready. Meanwhile they keep going to the person, even though their higher mental abilities may state the contrary to what they are doing.

Sid plays the role of abuser aptly, so does Sana.

Calm -> tension building -> incident -> reconciliation-> calm ->

The loop keeps cycling. Somewhere there is love/connection, societal (here game) pressures, blame, possessiveness, verbal/physical aggression etc”

Originally posted by: sahisri

In real life? Who behaves likes this? I dont think even shehnaz will bear the insults and foul language of shukla once she is out of bb..

In case ,in any relationship anyone have that kind of behavior, that relationship wont survive for a long run

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

thing is Sana let’s outside feedback effect her too much . First Vikas came and feed her this Sidnaaz crap . Sana forgot about everything even Paras whom she genuinely liked till then and chipkofied completely with Sid. Then whenever she genuinely tries to break away from him , she is bashed and criticised and pushed towards him. She isn’t strong like Rashmi and Asim to take all the criticism and bows down to channel demands. I am sure once out of the BB house even she won’t take all this shit and crap.

I don't think so. Nobody can behave like this for sake of show. For Sana being with Sid is happiness. It's above everything. Her main issue is she needs to be happy. So no matter how he treats her after an hour she will be back to him.

Originally posted by: Penny123

I posted this in another thread I am cutting and pasting here

“I am neither Sana or Sid fan.

Any form of abuse, physical, sexual, emotional or financial is an abuse. Unfortunately both Sana and Sid are in this loop, they are not breaking for whatever reason it is - be it the game, be it their core personality.

This loop can only be broken by the person in question, only when they are ready. Meanwhile they keep going to the person, even though their higher mental abilities may state the contrary to what they are doing.

Sid plays the role of abuser aptly, so does Sana.

Calm -> tension building -> incident -> reconciliation-> calm ->

The loop keeps cycling. Somewhere there is love/connection, societal (here game) pressures, blame, possessiveness, verbal/physical aggression etc”

I agree in the long run no relationship can run smoothly with ongoing abuse mental and/or physical .

I do not understand why people do not understand that love without respect or trust is worthless. This kind of relationships where too much love and pampering but no respect can cause lot of mental issues like anxiety. I know a few cases in this regard.

When do not love and respect yourself no one else will

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I don't think so. Nobody can behave like this for sake of show. For Sana being with Sid is happiness. It's above everything. Her main issue is she needs to be happy. So no matter how he treats her after an hour she will be back to him.

If sid was truly in love with sana and respected her a single bit he wouldn't have been selfish and be friends with pahira if sana doesn't like. She was pleading , crying, showing displeasure but sid was was not ready to budge. This proves how important his game is for him and he keeps himself first then the rest. Sana is mad to go behind him after getting this disrespect from him . Maybe she is not strong enough and wants support of sid for the game sake so again crawling back to him.

Also if he loved her so much why did he not save her in the final immunity task that was so important for her at this stage. Again he thinks for himself and his game and not her feelings. So this again proves that he is not in love with her . So if he is not in love with her the excuse that he can abuse her because he loves her goes down the drain.

Originally posted by: intruderfast

So all this naari morcha starting . Some blueticks also giving self respect kaa gyaan. Apparently cos of the gabd and f off statement

Hasnt sana given gaalis too. They both have in their fship relation. Ye unke relationship kaa comfort hai . Who r we to judge ?

As if we all haven't said hurtful things to out loved ones in moments of anger. We say bad things to ppl we love

Self respect talks and all. Is self respect limited to women only. I thought we r in an equal world.

This guy took 4- 5 slaps on national television .

Sid is a big tv star. She pushed him again intentionally in task.

Any other guy wld have ripped sana apart .Made a big issue out of it. Pata hai naa vishal paras kaise cry babies hain in mamlon mein . If sid didnt bother abt it, hasn't he also lowered down his self respect for this bandi cos he loves her so much . Koi aur usse thappad maar de to vaat lagaa deta . Arhaan kaa ek haath se shirt phaad diya tha .

Even when salman waa blasting sana for the slaps , he defended her pointed the root cause to Salman.

So when sana bends , it is a question of self respect . When sid does it , why isnt the same logic applied

Double standards .

If sana has bended and sacrificed , so has sid. That's why I love both . Both have understood each other in their worst times and supported each other. Been with each other.

That's love. That's sacrifice.

Exactly sid ki self-respect ki kisi ko padi nahi h bande ne sirf diya h sub ko kabhi kuch liya nahi h wo chaye aasim ho Aarti pahira ya sana ho or is show mein agar subse jyada kisi ne kisi ke liye kuch kiya h to wo sid h uske jaisa nahi kisi ne kuch kiya h na kar paayegA sid ne hamesha sana ko support kiya uski galti pe usko maaf kiya h uske har nakhre khele h kya logo ke ye nahi dikhta sana ne kya kiya h

Kitni galiyan di h sana ne sid ko

Usko time aane pe backstabbing

Uske against gayi h hamesha har task mein

Sid ko ghatiya bola h aasim ke sAath mil ke

Agar sid sana ko chappal maart to pata nahi kya hojata

Sid sana ko thappad maarta to tusnami aajati sayad yaha

Sub ko sid kya karta h wAhi dekhna h

Sid kisko immunity deta h

Sid kisko save kart h

Sid kisko kya bola

Sid ne kisko kya position di

Itna sub sid sid sid ho raha h to hum fans ko proud hona chaiye sid ko attention lene ki jaroorat nahi log usko khud attention de rahe h