SidNaaz DT 34: Humein Todne ki Koshish karne mein bahut Late Ho Gaya😎 - Page 76

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

in garden scene...Sid said thank you bye to sana when she was arguing with paras...Sana snapped out angrily n said sid to watch his attitude and to sit their quitely...he abided...so basically both are behaving as hubby wifey ..Sid is scared of sana...i liked today that when one was angr other was keeping cool...🤣

I agree he is indeed scared of her. When he was justifying saving paras to ppl he kept mentioning how sana would get upset if he saves arti.

He has major crisis thinking of how she would react in situations now 🤣

Originally posted by: Bee93

Don’t have much to add to what you said expect that your understanding of toxic isn’t completely right. I’m not talking about SidNaaz here coz I don’t want an argument but just making a point and this is a fact, for a lottt of people they don’t realise they are in a toxic relationship or realise it much later when they’re sitting with a therapist. There are people who don’t even grasp the concept coz of the way they have been conditioned. People don’t even realise they’ve been abused. Till a couple of years back and in fact even today, there are people who don’t understand consent. There are women who have been told to believe that they HAVE to have sex with their partners. People don’t believe or understand marital rape. I could go on and on about various toxic situations/behaviours that have been normalised by society.
Sometimes people just don’t know they’re in a toxic situation/relationship, even the strongest most independent of people.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

In the larger picture, it’s a boon alone since in outside space, this relationship would not have reached as far. Both of them have been melted in fire and are being moulded differently just coz of being under this roof.

The universe conspires in mysterious ways when it decides its time for two designated souls pledged to be together have to find each other amongst the crores of the population. The emotions he displayed today was not just past trauma. It was hurt at not being held by and cared for by whom he needed all these years. Where was she all this while? See what I have become today after years of searching? I am vile and not good enough for you today... you should leave me... And so it goes...

The superficial body shall manifest several unlikable habits. But a soul meant to bond knows one destination alone.

Disclaimer: To those who feel the above is hogwash, feel free to ignore.

@bold you know uma, even I feel so. If they have met in real world, then they would have surely felt intrigued by each other but yes, given up upon each other earlier because of feeling too scared by intense emotions that they evoke in each other.. Specially Sid. He fell for her, but was so reluctant and untrusting.. even now!

And then society, time etc would have interfere d, but again who knows! Because for what I know Siddharth had eyes on her even before meeting her, he was intrigued.. But her paras factor made him back out initially! And i know this for a fact, coz I have been told by a insider.. cant reveal more on this!

@red. That's what exactly it was! I could understand his misery. As they say, we hurt those people the most, whom we love!

It was like today siddharth was on a mission to hurt her so much that she just goes away. But her staying gave him confidence. He lives in some sort of constant fear that she deserves better, so would find one outside, he doesnt consider himself as worthy enough, so its like before she could hurt me, i should her..

Whatever it is, like you said ball is in Sana's court if she could keep it up with it..

Tbh, one more thing i feel is that as you have said many times in BB house things got fast forwarded for them but just their feelings but the past baggage and hurt will take time to ween off.. They never got enough time to adapt to each other's mood swings due to fast paced time frame. Considering their complex personalities, they need to mould themselves somehow for better, if they want a healthy future..

This is exactly what we dont see in main epi ..

https://twitter.com/cap_weirdo/status/1226233493178503168?s=19

BEFOFE commenting I ne si sidnaaz would like Ron tell up

Originally posted by: jyoti06

How well u put their entire relationship dynamics in this post 👏...

On one side Sid has a game to play where he has to show his loyalty to those who supported him in tasks and on other side the real Sid fr whom Sana has become his life ...Its not easy to balance both sides and when u hv villains like paras , asim etc matter becomes worse bec no privacy plus the world is judging them too with finale round the corner..

Same goes fr Sana too ..she has her own game which is more about her as independent player than a team player but other side her relationship with Sid remains at stake always bec Sid is a team player ...then comes the media who will always question her loyalty and flipper image .

I m sure once they go out they will hv a much better understanding of each other bec both r similar in many ways ..both r head strong and very possessive..Plus noone will b out there judging both ..So if they can withstand the storm inside bb house and still b together tgen nothing can stop them fm being together in outside world if they wish.

👍🏼👍🏼

But still their needs to be major changes needs to be done behaviour wise, specially on sid's front.

Though sana loves him the way he is but sid will change himself if he truly loves her... Which i feel he does..

Post BB life will be a bigger realization for them i am sure and things will be much smoother, and i hope it does because from where i see, Love this deep should be culminated in a happy way...

Originally posted by: wendy25

@bold you know uma, even I feel so. If they have met in real world, then they would have surely felt intrigued by each other but yes, given up upon each other earlier because of feeling too scared by intense emotions that they evoke in each other.. Specially Sid. He fell for her, but was so reluctant and untrusting.. even now!

And then society, time etc would have interfere d, but again who knows! Because for what I know Siddharth had eyes on her even before meeting her, he was intrigued.. But her paras factor made him back out initially! And i know this for a fact, coz I have been told by a insider.. cant reveal more on this!

@red. That's what exactly it was! I could understand his misery. As they say, we hurt those people the most, whom we love!

It was like today siddharth was on a mission to hurt her so much that she just goes away. But her staying gave him confidence. He lives in some sort of constant fear that she deserves better, so would find one outside, he doesnt consider himself as worthy enough, so its like before she could hurt me, i should her..

Whatever it is, like you said ball is in Sana's court if she could keep it up with it..

Tbh, one more thing i feel is that as you have said many times in BB house things got fast forwarded for them but just their feelings but the past baggage and hurt will take time to ween off.. They never got enough time to adapt each other according to fast paced time frame. Considering their complex personalities, they need to mould themselves somehow for better, if they want a healthy future..

Yes. His intensity of emotions scares him which is why he is hesitant to be that vulnerable.

Yes, they could have met elsewhere too if meant to meet. But no stronger melting pot than BB house!

And yes, it’ll take time for past trauma scars to smoothen. For that matter she is sure to hear more of Paras and Vishal and Asim whenever his insecurities arise. She’s got a long journey ahead :)

He loves this girl so much that she is truly a princess for him and I felt that he was checking their superficial physical compatibility as a couple staring at the polaroids infinitely longer than expected.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Yes. His intensity of emotions scares him which is why he is hesitant to be that vulnerable.

Yes, they could have met elsewhere too if meant to meet. But no stronger melting pot than BB house!

And yes, it’ll take time for past trauma scars to smoothen. For that matter she is sure to hear more of Paras and Vishal and Asim whenever his insecurities arise. She’s got a long journey ahead :)

He loves this girl so much that she is truly a princess for him and I felt that he was checking their superficial physical compatibility as a couple staring at the polaroids infinitely longer than expected.

What was that convo about sana wanting to leave ??Did she say She doesn't want to see him???

Sid said tere saath rishta banaya aur woh life long rahega . Tujhe rakhna ho toh rakhna????

What was that ???

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Yes. His intensity of emotions scares him which is why he is hesitant to be that vulnerable.

Yes, they could have met elsewhere too if meant to meet. But no stronger melting pot than BB house!

And yes, it’ll take time for past trauma scars to smoothen. For that matter she is sure to hear more of Paras and Vishal and Asim whenever his insecurities arise. She’s got a long journey ahead :)

He loves this girl so much that she is truly a princess for him and I felt that he was checking their superficial physical compatibility as a couple staring at the polaroids infinitely longer than expected.

I agree... And the last paragraph is just Sad!!

I have observed sid rarely explains his deed voluntarily or justify himself and n front of housemates not just because he doesnt give a damn about them.. But also somewhere, specially with girls, he believes worst in him!

Specially nowdays, he is all about I am this, i am that!! He is holding such a low opinion for himself!

Sana do have long journey ahead...But i just want siddharth to not push her to the deep ends because she has been through a LOT!! She deserves just Happiness and only happiness..

If everything went good, I can see Siddharth can boost sana's sense of self worth and wisdom upto no ends and actually make her strong, while sana can teach siddharth to accept his vulnerability with open arms. Siddharth's hold his emotions way too much that ends up coming out as agression!!

I come from a family of hot tempered people. I am very hot tempered myself. I can tell you one thing that that cycle of emotions one goes through in a fit of anger, I saw it today in full form.

First it starts with mild irritation. Then words / gestures by both sides will lead to escalation. You are stuck in a zone where you want to disengage but you instantly react as well. If one disengages at that time, it cools down. The third stage is when rage takes over. You lose the ability to rationalise anything. I hate this stage because you literally feel as if your ears and eyes are on fire. A ball of fury rises within you. All of this comes out in a vile way. Once you have passed that stage, you feel vindicated. That you have expressed your anger as if it was the best thing to do in the world. It gives you a high. And then follows guilt. You relive that fight / altercation again and again. You think what is the point in apologising when you have done the worst. Finally you put yourself down and feel terrible. This takes the form of an apology. But the forgiveness of the other side is still not enough because the whole cycle takes it toll.

This fight had all these phases. My god! Shukla does need to learn how to communicate without regressing to this cycle. I felt for the man. His fights with others usually end at the vindication phase. But with Shehnaz he goes through the whole gambit. Its hard to watch.

Over the years I have learnt to disengage quickly. I remove myself from that situation. This house does not give that chance to anyone.