SidNaaz DT 34: Humein Todne ki Koshish karne mein bahut Late Ho Gaya😎 - Page 75

Originally posted by: wendy25

Absolutely agree...

But their is no use... People will still say ugly things, judge him as mcp and call sana doormat or what not!

I am a independent working woman, way too strong in opinions and thoughts, a core feminist too but I am a empath above all. Their interactions are too deep that you would never able to understand on face value..

Siddharth and Shehnaaz have been independent people before this show.. Not the one to get so emotionally attached.. If they were doormat /Abusive possessive people then it would have impacted on their earlier relationships too.

But Shehnaaz has been in normal relationships and handles her romantic relationships quite healthily.. Not the one to cry too much over guy, otherwise she would not have left paras!

Siddharth on the other hand seems like a serial dater, with exes all around him and he is still on so good terms with them! So girls coming and going should not have such impact on him, sure he do have some issues with Rashmi, but he avoided rashmi very smoothly till she started to get on his nerves and then he kept on retaliating.

Their is something deeper, something powerful in between them which is stopping them from getting away from each other! The care and emotional attachment is not lessening even after so many blows. #Sidnaaz tag is not the reason for them staying together, because they are not the kind of people that bend upto people's will.. They have given this right only to each other. What they have is once in a lifetimes kind of a thing. What is making things worse for them is they met in a game show which is manipulating their raw emotions. I could actually feel siddharth's helplessness today of unable to get away from hee, It was like he knows he blabbering bullshit but unable to stop because hurt and helplessness is running too deep. While shehnaaz was absorbing it all, like he knows what he is going through and just want him to feel better! But she was hurt too by him not trusting her despite of Loving her..

Its getting hard for them to deal with their own feeling, plus their past baggage and ofcourse pressure of being in a game show where whole world is judging them!

I feel pity for them, because BB is both boon and bane for them.

true! The game had indeed taken toll here and Sid is affected by Asim

He doesn’t react so much to others and if Sana is associated with Asim and his words he gets affected

He had controlled a lot, but that you want me out and you use and throw me took him off guard! It was a hit for him and he broke down there

Same evening his ex friend had called me cheat, not worth being a friend and many things and when his love of his life also said you did nothing for me among people and also other things threw him off the edge

Sid is on his emotional break down and there are lot of reasons and on top of it have fallen in love, so it’s natural

He really won’t be able to stay without her

Hope they are together once show ends

Originally posted by: wendy25

Absolutely agree...

But their is no use... People will still say ugly things, judge him as mcp and call sana doormat or what not!

I am a independent working woman, way too strong in opinions and thoughts, a core feminist too but I am a empath above all. Their interactions are too deep that you would never able to understand on face value..

Siddharth and Shehnaaz have been independent people before this show.. Not the one to get so emotionally attached.. If they were doormat /Abusive possessive people then it would have impacted on their earlier relationships too.

But Shehnaaz has been in normal relationships and handles her romantic relationships quite healthily.. Not the one to cry too much over guy, otherwise she would not have left paras!

Siddharth on the other hand seems like a serial dater, with exes all around him and he is still on so good terms with them! So girls coming and going should not have such impact on him, sure he do have some issues with Rashmi, but he avoided rashmi very smoothly till she started to get on his nerves and then he kept on retaliating.

Their is something deeper, something powerful in between them which is stopping them from getting away from each other! The care and emotional attachment is not lessening even after so many blows. #Sidnaaz tag is not the reason for them staying together, because they are not the kind of people that bend upto people's will.. They have given this right only to each other. What they have is once in a lifetimes kind of a thing. What is making things worse for them is they met in a game show which is manipulating their raw emotions. I could actually feel siddharth's helplessness today of unable to get away from hee, It was like he knows he blabbering bullshit but unable to stop because hurt and helplessness is running too deep. While shehnaaz was absorbing it all, like he knows what he is going through and just want him to feel better! But she was hurt too by him not trusting her despite of Loving her..

Its getting hard for them to deal with their own feeling, plus their past baggage and ofcourse pressure of being in a game show where whole world is judging them!

I feel pity for them, because BB is both boon and bane for them.

How well u put their entire relationship dynamics in this post 👏...

On one side Sid has a game to play where he has to show his loyalty to those who supported him in tasks and on other side the real Sid fr whom Sana has become his life ...Its not easy to balance both sides and when u hv villains like paras , asim etc matter becomes worse bec no privacy plus the world is judging them too with finale round the corner..

Same goes fr Sana too ..she has her own game which is more about her as independent player than a team player but other side her relationship with Sid remains at stake always bec Sid is a team player ...then comes the media who will always question her loyalty and flipper image .

I m sure once they go out they will hv a much better understanding of each other bec both r similar in many ways ..both r head strong and very possessive..Plus noone will b out there judging both ..So if they can withstand the storm inside bb house and still b together tgen nothing can stop them fm being together in outside world if they wish.

Originally posted by: wendy25

Their is something deeper, something powerful in between them which is stopping them from getting away from each other! The care and emotional attachment is not lessening even after so many blows. #Sidnaaz tag is not the reason for them staying together, because they are not the kind of people that bend upto people's will.. They have given this right only to each other. What they have is once in a lifetimes kind of a thing. What is making things worse for them is they met in a game show which is manipulating their raw emotions. I could actually feel siddharth's helplessness today of unable to get away from hee, It was like he knows he blabbering bullshit but unable to stop because hurt and helplessness is running too deep. While shehnaaz was absorbing it all, like he knows what he is going through and just want him to feel better! But she was hurt too by him not trusting her despite of Loving her..

Its getting hard for them to deal with their own feeling, plus their past baggage and ofcourse pressure of being in a game show where whole world is judging them!

I feel pity for them, because BB is both boon and bane for them.

In the larger picture, it’s a boon alone since in outside space, this relationship would not have reached as far. Both of them have been melted in fire and are being moulded differently just coz of being under this roof.

The universe conspires in mysterious ways when it decides its time for two designated souls pledged to be together have to find each other amongst the crores of the population. The emotions he displayed today was not just past trauma. It was hurt at not being held by and cared for by whom he needed all these years. Where was she all this while? See what I have become today after years of searching? I am vile and not good enough for you today... you should leave me... And so it goes...

The superficial body shall manifest several unlikable habits. But a soul meant to bond knows one destination alone.

Disclaimer: To those who feel the above is hogwash, feel free to ignore.

Can't believe Manu Punjabi is accepting Sid's words with open arms.. first time I'm saying he is a pathetic reviewer with this mindset. Negativity ko khatam karne k liye all these people are fight different issues across the globe and he just justified it by saying "thak jata hai insaan". Okay insaan thak jaata hai I agree, but the way you speak decides how you want your relations to be progressed. If it takes I Love You to start one, it takes one Get Out to stop it right there.. the people watching his reviews will get a green signal to go negative in a relationship and don't give any damn about it. Dear all, Treat Your Loved Ones With Respect, Not Everyone Is A Sana. Period. The girls and boys present here can correct how many of you can stay in a relationship like that!?

I'd just expect Sod to not just say that check your self-respect but also help her doing that.. this kinda behavior may be tolerable at home but its the tv that makes a difference here.. his hurried apology won't much be highlighted as much as his patient negativity.. now don't say Sana this, Sana that or I'm being a fanatic or something of sort.. its the truth.. its good that Sana doesn't care about people. She is in love that's all matters to her but Sid does care about people then he should be the one taking notes here.. he is scared to lose her, but his timing of realization is very slow.. i hope outside if they date Sid never crosses this line .. neither by his words nor by testing her patience .. because he'll end up doing the worst he can do for his life..

I won't believe the people who call it toxic because its your feelings that make it toxic.. if a person feels negative or being taken advantage of something then only its toxic.. if that person's heart burns and ache like no tomorrow then only its toxic.. for people like Sana it may not be toxic b/c of whatever reasons but she finds it easy to smile without much happening.. its not toxic for her.. her choice is Sid after all, I'm happy with whatever she is happy.

I agree with uma here.....agar sid aur sana is ghar mein nahi hote......yeh relation yaha tak kabhi nahi pahuchta......and sid really really needs to mend his way in life.......this what happens almost everytime wont work ....as someone said here.....sirf pyaar kaafi nahi hota zindagi jeene ke liye.

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

I won't believe the people who call it toxic because its your feelings that make it toxic.. if a person feels negative or being taken advantage of something then only its toxic.. if that person's heart burns and ache like no tomorrow then only its toxic.. for people like Sana it may not be toxic b/c of whatever reasons but she finds it easy to smile without much happening.. its not toxic for her.. her choice is Sid after all, I'm happy with whatever she is happy.

Don’t have much to add to what you said expect that your understanding of toxic isn’t completely right. I’m not talking about SidNaaz here coz I don’t want an argument but just making a point and this is a fact, for a lottt of people they don’t realise they are in a toxic relationship or realise it much later when they’re sitting with a therapist. There are people who don’t even grasp the concept coz of the way they have been conditioned. People don’t even realise they’ve been abused. Till a couple of years back and in fact even today, there are people who don’t understand consent. There are women who have been told to believe that they HAVE to have sex with their partners. People don’t believe or understand marital rape. I could go on and on about various toxic situations/behaviours that have been normalised by society.
Sometimes people just don’t know they’re in a toxic situation/relationship, even the strongest most independent of people.

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

Can't believe Manu Punjabi is accepting Sid's words with open arms.. first time I'm saying he is a pathetic reviewer with this mindset. Negativity ko khatam karne k liye all these people are fight different issues across the globe and he just justified it by saying "thak jata hai insaan". Okay insaan thak jaata hai I agree, but the way you speak decides how you want your relations to be progressed. If it takes I Love You to start one, it takes one Get Out to stop it right there.. the people watching his reviews will get a green signal to go negative in a relationship and don't give any damn about it. Dear all, Treat Your Loved Ones With Respect, Not Everyone Is A Sana. Period. The girls and boys present here can correct how many of you can stay in a relationship like that!?

I'd just expect Sod to not just say that check your self-respect but also help her doing that.. this kinda behavior may be tolerable at home but its the tv that makes a difference here.. his hurried apology won't much be highlighted as much as his patient negativity.. now don't say Sana this, Sana that or I'm being a fanatic or something of sort.. its the truth.. its good that Sana doesn't care about people. She is in love that's all matters to her but Sid does care about people then he should be the one taking notes here.. he is scared to lose her, but his timing of realization is very slow.. i hope outside if they date Sid never crosses this line .. neither by his words nor by testing her patience .. because he'll end up doing the worst he can do for his life..

I won't believe the people who call it toxic because its your feelings that make it toxic.. if a person feels negative or being taken advantage of something then only its toxic.. if that person's heart burns and ache like no tomorrow then only its toxic.. for people like Sana it may not be toxic b/c of whatever reasons but she finds it easy to smile without much happening.. its not toxic for her.. her choice is Sid after all, I'm happy with whatever she is happy.

Thing is we only see 1.5 hrs of footage where mostly there r fights and arguments based on tasks and then place our judgements..

Usud give different picture wherd sid is seen pressing sana ka leg on national tv as she was hving her monthly ..

Then shehbaz himself said in interview that every morning he makes tea fr sana and gives it first on her bed which we dont get to see but her own brother saw it ..

Washing utensils fr her too we hv seen ..

So after all this if sana tolerates his anger that comes only during tasks , its not a big deal ..in real world u wont get such tasks where u hv to choose one over other ..there both will hv a normal life where sid will do things fr sana whether its making tea or washing utensils fr her ...

Sana is not a kid to fall fr sid out of blue ..kuch toh hoga ladke mein . Even debo ko he carried all the way to gate when she had back problem ...

in garden scene...Sid said thank you bye to sana when she was arguing with paras...Sana snapped out angrily n said sid to watch his attitude and to sit there quitely...he abided...so basically both are behaving as hubby wifey ..Sid is scared of sana...i liked today that when one was angry other was keeping cool...🤣

Originally posted by: jyoti06

During fight Sid told her that I warned u about the task and not to react to which sana said yes i know u told me not to react but still ...

So they did hv a word about this plan of exposing asim ..

Rest sana felt bad that paras was choosen over her which was separate issue but sid had told her not to react beforehand itself ..

I agree sid has no control on his words when he is angry bec sana deeply affects him and he cannot express it openly either bec cameras around. But Sana is difficult girl too and its not easy to handle her either which paras keeps saying that she was so ott that i had to cut off with her.. So if Sid needs a sana to control his temper then sana too needs a sid to control her emotional vulnerability which we saw how sid did in that wkw when sana broke down after jealousy tag...

So Both deserve each other in a way 😆..Sid ne toh bol diya lifelong ka. .lets see if sana wants same too ..but i guess she wants it too ..she said during fight that khasam tu hai mera, kisi aur ko khasam mat bana.. Khasam is husband in punjabi.

I am not sure how far she knew that Paras was going to be saved.

Sana may be difficult to live with but her words or actions have never fallen legally into the domain of emotional abuse.

But yes, they understand each other quite well and so are quite made for each other so long as they work upon their behavioral weaknesses.

I swear i am having major crisis thinking of what i am suppose to do once Big boss ends.

Watching SidNaaz everynight has become an aadat now.

Emotionally attached now 😭