Originally posted by: vatika_r
He has oscillated, not once but many times. He left the marriage mandap, not once but twice. Both the times, maya had to pull him. Fine, he didn't meet his family and friends for 3 years but he also chose to run away from maya instead of taking her for medical help. In a married life if your spouse doesn't come in your way, we have to go in their way and bring them to track. He told maya that he is only dusky's duffer and Saanjh is his madness.
I respect your views but you don't respect mine. We have watched the same show and I am not telling it just like that. Arjun was selfish, self-centered, and shallow and was taking people for granted be it mother, brother, friend, or even wife.
How? Does disagreeing mean disrespecting? I'm just countering your opinions with counter-arguments. That's not disrespect.
Coming to Arjun, staying away from your family and friends for THREE YEARS is a HUGE EFFING DEAL. In real life, Arjun would go crazy from the mental torture Maya inflicted on him. Why should he risk his own sanity for his abuser? Maya abused him mentally.