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Posted: 5 years ago
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The contestants definitely do it for the sake of the show. People get invested in romance and it gives this added advantage of having a stable support.

I think nobody with a good intention would take a relationship forward here. A mature enough person would pursue the attraction outside and see if it goes anywhere. You can stay together, but if you are declaring open love then it is 100 percent for monetary reasons.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Doremon_Selfie


Yes, I was about to mention the infatuation thing. But will you get romantically involved with someone in Bigg Boss? My question to you and everyone. Don't take offence please, just asking.


None taken.


Considering they are under camera 24*7 it is hard to judge , whether they are doing it for camera , or they do genuinely fell in love on show

Sab asliyat show khatam hone k baad hi clear hoti hai.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I do feel that they may get attached for sometime. They are detached from the outer world, there is no one like close friends or family to correct them or make them understand. But falling in love doesn't have a time limit. Even in real life outside BB house, people go for divorce or break their long term relationships.

Just an example, Divyanka and Sharad were in a relationship for 7 years, they broke up. But Divyanka fell in love with Vivek in a short period of time and now they are together.

So, some people like Prince, Puneesh found their partners. But with limited people in the house, not everyone falls in love. Some do it for the sake of game and some do get attached like Upen, Karishma, Gauhar, Kushal but when they get other options outside or get back to the life which is far different from BB, they break up.

Life outside BB and inside is very different. And that's the reason, very rarely any love story exists after BB.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Yuvika was there for 28 days only. After her leave Nora and Prince lived together for I guess 70-80 days. We saw their love story more and Prince-Yuvika less.

I guess the actual relationship between these two started after BB........not in BB. As this is impossible. 3 months toh flirt karte karte nikal jaata hai. Love kahan se ayega? 😆

Me and my hubby had 10 yrs long friendship story first. The we accepted love. To build a concrete you need time. But concrete lasts longer. ❤️


Nora admitted it was only for the show.

I loved reading about your love story. Stay blessed dear.

Beautiful comment about love Kahan se ayega.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: BaylorBee

The contestants definitely do it for the sake of the show. People get invested in romance and it gives this added advantage of having a stable support.

I think nobody with a good intention would take a relationship forward here. A mature enough person would pursue the attraction outside and see if it goes anywhere. You can stay together, but if you are declaring open love then it is 100 percent for monetary reasons.

Exactly, that's my point too.

Talking about you, will you get romantically involved with someone in bigg boss house, if you participate on the show?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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No. And below is why i wont!



Because according to me what happens in that house is attraction based on being together on a place where you are 24x7. Most of the time this happens when you are part of one group against another, so the fact that they have a similar rivalry brings them closer.


So the bond that's created remains untouched by any kind of external influence - dost, parivar, jobs, different hobbies, different priorities, different ambitions, nurturance, language, food habits. Those are things which at most are just discussed in the house. Not carried out. So the implication of thise are still unknown!


Love is an emotion. To sustain that emotion, other intrinsic and extrinsic factors play a role. Big one. Of all the BB jodis, i only see Punish amd Bandagi who are still together and Prince and Yuvika (i havent seen that season so dunno if their affair started dusring bb or after that) Lets also not forget that most of those are just JUST showmance. Sidnaaz clearly proved that!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I think that we as audience will never really fully comprehend what it means to live in a closed house with almost strangers, sometimes ur rivals and people u don't like from before, no friends or families, no phone, computer, internet, no good food, having to cook, clean by urselves....most importantly when u are in a fight ....not to move away from that person because u are still in that house...no connection with the outside world.......I know we judge them...we are too harsh with them...but unless u stay in that house.....u won't imagine what it would be like.....one day the internet is down and our whole world comes crumbling around us...imagine them not even having a book or some music to entertain them...uss per BB ke all those tasks and manipulations and what not...I think whatever friendship or love or even enemies are formed in that house are because of the circumstances....and unless they are tested in the real world no one would know...that is why most enemies become neutral towards one another even if they are not best friends....personally for me....I would come out of that house pulling my hair out in just a week....I need my family and being connected with them 24/7....hats off to all the contestants for surviving there for almost 4 months....its unimaginable for me.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Doremon_Selfie

Exactly, that's my point too.

Talking about you, will you get romantically involved with someone in bigg boss house, if you participate on the show?


No, I don't think so. Yes, I might form attachments with people but love is much more than just staying together and offering support (IMO). If it something close to love, it will be explored outside😌. Plus why the haste in giving it a label? Stay close and see where it goes!

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