SidNaaz :DiscussionThread 8:Khullam khulla pyaar karenge hum dono - Page 15

Meko zada nai maloom

Shyd merese koi bhi sehmat na ho yahan

Y cant sana js tell sid in simple words that she loves him agr itna hi mre ja rahi hai to? Kya ho jaega agr reject kr dega, paras ne nai kiya? Kya ho gaya uske baad? Fr bhi uske saath paras paras krti rahi. Jab sid pe baat a rahi hai jis mein u r badly invested that the thought of losing him scares the shit outta you, y cant u js tell that man that yes i love u n wud die without u. Itni bhi kaunsi badi baat hai ye. Paras jisne sreaam hmesha beizzat kiya hai, reject kiya hai, usko sareaam bolne ki himmat rakhti ho tum that i love u, koi aur bolke dikhaye.

Lekin yahan sach mein pyaar hai, vahan banda pooch raha hai mere pyaar mein hai kya tu? And u r denying that. Seedha seedha kyu nai bol skti and fr faaltu ki bakwaas. Gussa a gaya muje, dimaag kisi aur baat pe satka hai.

Pardon my language here!

One more post on Sid's character study. I probably can relate more with him hence a writeup on it. Sana I can comprehend most of the times but once or twice she completely escapes me.

Sid is very cautious maybe even scared of emotional intimacy. He is scared of given emotional access to anyone. There are two outer layers of his personality. The first is the reserved, aloof maybe arrogant exterior that is displayed for those whom he doesn't know or like. The second is the goofy, sarcastic, annoying side which comes out in a circle of friends. The most intimate layer we haven't seen yet. He however has talked about it when he says "main effect nahi hona chahta". I wonder why is he so fearful of emotional display and intimacy?

Individuals who don't express themselves through words have other avenues of expression. Sids physicality and body language is extremely interesting. His bouts of anger and aggression is that bottled emotion. Even his expression of camaraderie is physical i.e. the constant physical teasing and wrestling.

He has some really unique quirks too. One is his absolute insistence of correcting pronunciation. Also if he doesn't know the meaning of a word he will stop a fight midway to find its meaning. I find it hilarious.

One thing that is common between him and Sana is they both internalise humiliation to their pride. Whenever Salman and Rohit have given a dressing down to Sid, he was visibly embarrassed. Similarly, Sana internalises this too "mujhe neecha dekha rahe hain".

Finally he does have a malicious side which I don't like. He wears unlikeability as a garb to protect himself. He is purposefully mean to certain people. I don't know but I think of Severus Snape whenever I see that side of him.

Originally posted by: BorntoRead

That is exactly what I want to say. Sid probably realises that a young woman at the verge of becoming famous has many options i.e. relationships, career etc. He does not want to be part of that mix while also wanting the best for her. Also the Paras angle solidified his thinking that Sana's infatuations are fleeting. Sana does have a genuine emotional attachment, will it translate in real life too? That nobody can tell.

Sana siding with other team in yesterday nomination process was after effect of Sid asking mahira about her love byte 😆..Way Sid turned to Mahira and started talking to them while sana was sitting alone other side resulted in Sana taking Vishal name fr immunity ..Otherwise I feel either she would hv taken no name or mayb Sid ka name ..

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Sana siding with other team in yesterday nomination process was after effect of Sid asking mahira about her love byte 😆..Way Sid turned to Mahira and started talking to them while sana was sitting alone other side resulted in Sana taking Vishal name fr immunity ..Otherwise I feel either she would hv taken no name or mayb Sid ka name ..

maybe you are right, but it backlashed on her, her decision was right for game! Infact perfect that all had to get nominated!

Today extra tadka- Rashami trio was discussing nominations openly, so BB did this as twist

Originally posted by: CatcherInTheRye

Meko zada nai maloom

Shyd merese koi bhi sehmat na ho yahan

Y cant sana js tell sid in simple words that she loves him agr itna hi mre ja rahi hai to? Kya ho jaega agr reject kr dega, paras ne nai kiya? Kya ho gaya uske baad? Fr bhi uske saath paras paras krti rahi. Jab sid pe baat a rahi hai jis mein u r badly invested that the thought of losing him scares the shit outta you, y cant u js tell that man that yes i love u n wud die without u. Itni bhi kaunsi badi baat hai ye. Paras jisne sreaam hmesha beizzat kiya hai, reject kiya hai, usko sareaam bolne ki himmat rakhti ho tum that i love u, koi aur bolke dikhaye.

Lekin yahan sach mein pyaar hai, vahan banda pooch raha hai mere pyaar mein hai kya tu? And u r denying that. Seedha seedha kyu nai bol skti and fr faaltu ki bakwaas. Gussa a gaya muje, dimaag kisi aur baat pe satka hai.

Pardon my language here!

Ya i guess her reply will b pagal hai tu when he asks her pyaar mein hai tu mere ...Then this result in sid flirting with madhu ..its like ok u friendzoned me so now i hv the liberty to try my luck on another women 😆..

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Ya i guess her reply will b pagal hai tu when he asks her pyaar mein hai tu mere ...Then this result in sid flirting with madhu ..its like ok u friendzoned me so now i hv the liberty to try my luck on another women 😆..

Nai krna confess to theek hai

Kuch bhi kre fr vo bhi, kya masla hai.

Door raho ek doosre se, give space to each other and see if things get sort out or not agr nai krna confess to.

Abhi na mere dimaag mein bohat kuch a raha hai jyoti ji

Lekin bolunga nai, kaam khraab ho jaega🤬

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Ya i guess her reply will b pagal hai tu when he asks her pyaar mein hai tu mere ...Then this result in sid flirting with madhu ..its like ok u friendzoned me so now i hv the liberty to try my luck on another women 😆..

When you look at extra tadka it looks like Sana loves Sid and suddenly says no while discussing with Vishal, either she is confused about her feelings or scared to accept it as she doesn’t want to face rejection

Only Sid can give her the confidence, but looks like even he is scared of rejection.

Originally posted by: BorntoRead

One more post on Sid's character study. I probably can relate more with him hence a writeup on it. Sana I can comprehend most of the times but once or twice she completely escapes me.

Sid is very cautious maybe even scared of emotional intimacy. He is scared of given emotional access to anyone. There are two outer layers of his personality. The first is the reserved, aloof maybe arrogant exterior that is displayed for those whom he doesn't know or like. The second is the goofy, sarcastic, annoying side which comes out in a circle of friends. The most intimate layer we haven't seen yet. He however has talked about it when he says "main effect nahi hona chahta". I wonder why is he so fearful of emotional display and intimacy?

Individuals who don't express themselves through words have other avenues of expression. Sids physicality and body language is extremely interesting. His bouts of anger and aggression is that bottled emotion. Even his expression of camaraderie is physical i.e. the constant physical teasing and wrestling.

He has some really unique quirks too. One is his absolute insistence of correcting pronunciation. Also if he doesn't know the meaning of a word he will stop a fight midway to find its meaning. I find it hilarious.

One thing that is common between him and Sana is they both internalise humiliation to their pride. Whenever Salman and Rohit have given a dressing down to Sid, he was visibly embarrassed. Similarly, Sana internalises this too "mujhe neecha dekha rahe hain".

Finally he does have a malicious side which I don't like. He wears unlikeability as a garb to protect himself. He is purposefully mean to certain people. I don't know but I think of Severus Snape whenever I see that side of him.

Sid wasn’t this afraid of emotional intimacy with Sana until she began her testing games. It was she who began them. Not him. And his withdrawal began there millimeter by millimetre . Though he could logically understand its objective and play along with it too, it has been damaging him emotionally. Ofcourse I am not going into his efforts to get her to notice him the way he wanted her to. Anyway, they need help!

Originally posted by: BorntoRead

One more post on Sid's character study. I probably can relate more with him hence a writeup on it. Sana I can comprehend most of the times but once or twice she completely escapes me.

Sid is very cautious maybe even scared of emotional intimacy. He is scared of given emotional access to anyone. There are two outer layers of his personality. The first is the reserved, aloof maybe arrogant exterior that is displayed for those whom he doesn't know or like. The second is the goofy, sarcastic, annoying side which comes out in a circle of friends. The most intimate layer we haven't seen yet. He however has talked about it when he says "main effect nahi hona chahta". I wonder why is he so fearful of emotional display and intimacy?

Individuals who don't express themselves through words have other avenues of expression. Sids physicality and body language is extremely interesting. His bouts of anger and aggression is that bottled emotion. Even his expression of camaraderie is physical i.e. the constant physical teasing and wrestling.

He has some really unique quirks too. One is his absolute insistence of correcting pronunciation. Also if he doesn't know the meaning of a word he will stop a fight midway to find its meaning. I find it hilarious.

One thing that is common between him and Sana is they both internalise humiliation to their pride. Whenever Salman and Rohit have given a dressing down to Sid, he was visibly embarrassed. Similarly, Sana internalises this too "mujhe neecha dekha rahe hain".

Finally he does have a malicious side which I don't like. He wears unlikeability as a garb to protect himself. He is purposefully mean to certain people. I don't know but I think of Severus Snape whenever I see that side of him.

Interesting take ..

My gut feeling says he will soon hv an emotional breakdown soon ..it will b related to sana only..he has bottled up lot of emotions related to her inside ..yesterday when he tells her i dont like u anymore , camera deluberately focusses on his close up bec he was trying his best to hold up his tears while saying it but could not hide his choked voice ..

Also when a matured 39yr old guy like Sid goes and sleeps outside when u hv empty beds already in bedroom , u can clearly say the guy is not in his senses ..He himself admits next day that my mind is off ..But why his mind is off when there r no real disputes or fights in house ??

So he has bottled up lot of emotions inside ..his outburst will happen soon i feel ..its needed too ..

Whats hurting him most is He assumes Sana is still not over Paras and so the jealousy word still haunts her ..Rest whatever he says is cover up ..He is only hurt assuming his love is one sided and Sana just needs him fr some attention ..

In today one of the extended USUD where he says i will pour cold soup on u which even came in episode , they showed further detail of that scene in usud where sarcastically he tells her I m not a toy which u will use and throw as per your wish ..This he says after she was like mujhe irritate nat kar, let me sleep ..

So theres lot of hurt hidden inside him which he expresses here and there bec he is not getting direct confession or clarity from Sana about what exactly she feels fr him ..He wants a proper commitment fm her ..