Our society is in deep trouble - Page 2

Originally posted by: aparnauma

As long as there are people who describe what Shukla does to Gill as cute and loving acts fun filled acts we will get to see these kind of things on TV.

People write essays on how each movement Shukla makes/Sana makes as a gesture filled with love we will get to see this.

Worse is that they think that others who are critical about this kind of stuff don't know what romance lovers having simple or even kinky sex is all about. People who criticise are not necessarily puritanical or ignorant or narrow minded.

It is about the attitudes of the said man and woman involved in this makes it look this stuff belongs in gutter. They look like two pigs rolling in the gutter

This is not love, it's a sickness. Nobody can deny. If this is the nature of Sana, she can never be in any relationship.

Originally posted by: S2590

https://mobile.twitter.com/SidharthTeam_/status/1214241051629826052

Watch this if we question man for his manhandling behaviour even sana goes back to him and how can we forget sana taunting about woman who smokes get multiple bf and get divorced this show has been bad representation of both man and woman.

I agree completely

It just shows that movies like Kabir singh n this Sidnaz nonsense lets people to believe that No doesn’t mean No. harassing a girl is okay coz it’s fun as I saw in a movie. Treating a woman like you own her is the definition of love.

BB this year has promoted the worst kind of values.

Anyway I’m skipping episodes as I can’t take Sidnaz at all. Asim glimpses I can watch on IG or Twitter. But I can’t watch absolute filth in the name of entertainment.

This show has often supported some nasty shit in then name of TRP. But normalizing and romanticizing manhandling, violence and such toxicity - that’s a new low, even for them. And it’s a right shame given the hugely impressionable section of the viewership. Kabir Singh ke deewane and emulators kam hain shayad, that BB felt they needed to contribute some more.

For me too - Shukla was shittier today then he’s likely ever been this season - and he’s been shitty through most of it.

Originally posted by: SoPunk

I don't know if you are fan of Sana or not. But you are giving her too much benefit of doubt. When he did that, he had had enough and he wanted her to hear what he had to say. She was like a patient of a mental hospital throwing all four limbs and yelling, that's not a normal adult behaviour, while she's insulting and being violent.

Jealous is not a swear word and she is severely jealous everyone can see that except her. Sid had to normalize it for her benefit by talking about it.

She was the one even discussed infront of Salman that he should pay attention towards her, Rutha hai toh manana paddga, she is over possessive, she is throwing objects, she's slapping and hairpulling .. etc etc all these don't look like poking yo you? In return Sid was taking all thse shit by joking about it. Which you are calling to be poking. It was just the way to take the shit she was dishing out for no aparent reason.

Well I'm sure this SidNaaz thing is over now & there's no way this can or this should survive. This is a sick relationship

I'm not a Sana fan at all for the record.

I totally agree with you that this is a sick relationship and it desperately needs to end for the sake of both the people's longterm mental wellbeing lol, its taking a toll and its clear to see.

Here's the thing - I'm not advocating for Sana's innocence at all. But the thing is, she is a woman and is considerably weaker than Shukla is physically. The way he pinned her down, I'm sorry, but is NOT ACCEPTABLE unless she was causing him physical harm and he was protecting himself - which was obviously not the case at the time. This entire thing happened when Sana was in bed and Shukla was trying to bring this thing up, then he followed through with it in the kitchen, and then again with the teasing in the garden area. He absolutely is poking. Just because Sana is also guilty of the same in other moments does not excuse Shukla for the way he acts. Eye for eye leaves the whole world blind. (sorry for the filminess lol but its true) The way Shukla physically overpowered her was absolutely unacceptable in my opinion. No matter how flawed Sana is and how 'wrong' she may be to be so insanely possessive and weirded out by this jealous thing, at the end of the day, when a man twice your size is twisting your arm and telling you to behave a certain way while he is causing you intentional physical pain - it must be a helplessly scary moment. This is the kind of shit that people get over in the short term, but ends up causing longterm trauma. Her complete breakdown that followed showed that she was genuinely rattled by that moment.

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

Today we saw a man literally overpower a woman physically to the point of tears, and more than half the people on social media are calling it a 'cute nok-jhok.' There cannot be a more textbook example of physical harassment, and manhandling, yet on this very forum there is a thread running right now saying they are loving this 'funny' side of Sid.

Remember when Asim tried to separate Sid/Rashmi and everyone said he 'poked'?

Well, today Sid actually 'poked' in a matter that isn't his and people found it funny.

The show is biased and the people in the house have figured it out and sold their conscious. WHY THE F**K is the audience going with it though? Is it Salman's star power? Will we believe anything he says? Are we seriously that inept at thinking critically and coming to our own conclusions?

In my opinion, Shukla has never looked worse than he did today. Not even during the pushes, or the Aarti panic attack, or even the 'aisi ladki' misogyny ki dukaan incident. Today was absolutely disgusting because he not only got fully physical with a woman, but he was also running around all day seeking happiness from causing chaos over a deeply personal matter. F**k this guy, and f**k everyone who supports him. Our society is f**ked.

This is a game show.

Boxing ka match dekhoge toh punches hi dikhenge.

Boxing dekhne wali audience bekaar hai, aisa nahi kehte hain.

Aapko pehle se hi sid pasand nahi, toh ye sab toh hoga bhi nahi.

Bahut logo ko toh mauka hi mil gaya hai.

It was nice episode today. 👍🏼

Society is still safe. Most of it doesn't watch this show. Jo dekhte hain woh sab samajhdaar hi hain. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: S2590

https://mobile.twitter.com/SidharthTeam_/status/1214241051629826052

Watch this if we question man for his manhandling behaviour even sana goes back to him and how can we forget sana taunting about woman who smokes get multiple bf and get divorced this show has been bad representation of both man and woman.

Ye log na toh man, woman, hindu, Muslim, ameer, gareeb, chhota, baraa ko represent Kar rahe hain aur na hi society ko. They are in a game life not in real life.

Na Sana aur na Rashmi or mahira, woman ko represent Karne gayi hain. Big boss universe mein jidhar har planet se alien aaye hain.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

Nobody is going to understand here... I am just sad today...today I came across a man who knew that another man was wrong but few women hell they don't even want to listen why it's wrong , not even for second they want to entertain the idea that it's not ok it's not cute.

Because for me, this show is not about a man or woman. All are players here. And all those players want equality.

Originally posted by: NepaliArtist

I'm not a Sana fan at all for the record.

I totally agree with you that this is a sick relationship and it desperately needs to end for the sake of both the people's longterm mental wellbeing lol, its taking a toll and its clear to see.

Here's the thing - I'm not advocating for Sana's innocence at all. But the thing is, she is a woman and is considerably weaker than Shukla is physically. The way he pinned her down, I'm sorry, but is NOT ACCEPTABLE unless she was causing him physical harm and he was protecting himself - which was obviously not the case at the time. This entire thing happened when Sana was in bed and Shukla was trying to bring this thing up, then he followed through with it in the kitchen, and then again with the teasing in the garden area. He absolutely is poking. Just because Sana is also guilty of the same in other moments does not excuse Shukla for the way he acts. Eye for eye leaves the whole world blind. (sorry for the filminess lol but its true) The way Shukla physically overpowered her was absolutely unacceptable in my opinion. No matter how flawed Sana is and how 'wrong' she may be to be so insanely possessive and weirded out by this jealous thing, at the end of the day, when a man twice your size is twisting your arm and telling you to behave a certain way while he is causing you intentional physical pain - it must be a helplessly scary moment. This is the kind of shit that people get over in the short term, but ends up causing longterm trauma. Her complete breakdown that followed showed that she was genuinely rattled by that moment.

I agree with you.

He did it in anger and that wrestling kind of physicality already were happening between them for a long time. But I fully agree that's not the right thing to do. He was wrong.

But when the pattern of relationship is wrong, wrong things do come in. Sana was extremely physical with him as much a girl can be. So he over stepped. Sid should have just told her what he told, without being physical.

Both are wrong, if we don't say it in the same breath, the girl gets the license to provoke like she was doing. That's only my point.

The relationship was abnormal from the beginning & actually sickening at this point. They should terminate it immediately.

Originally posted by: Unsila

This is a game show.

Boxing ka match dekhoge toh punches hi dikhenge.

Boxing dekhne wali audience bekaar hai, aisa nahi kehte hain.

Aapko pehle se hi sid pasand nahi, toh ye sab toh hoga bhi nahi.

Bahut logo ko toh mauka hi mil gaya hai.

It was nice episode today. 👍🏼

Society is still safe. Most of it doesn't watch this show. Jo dekhte hain woh sab samajhdaar hi hain. 👍🏼

What a ridiculous statement. Boxing match mein boxing ka expectations hota hai. Two boxers training, height, weight, skill level ke hisab se mahino se train karne ke bad match mein ate hai woh bhee ek bohot hi protected environment mein where referees are trained to stop immediately if there is some major accident and ambulances are always on stand-by. You are comparing that with Bigg Boss? Mazak kar rahe ho?

Bigg Boss mein people live in the house 24/7. Reality show hai. There was a time when this show was about many things - masti, entertainment quotient, audience interest, tasks. Now it is about mostly ONE thing - morality. Weekend episodes mein batein yeh nahee hoti ki kiska task technique sahi ya galat thah. Batein hoti hain ke kaun insaan sahi ya galat thah. Aur Sid bohot bohot bohot galat hua hai iss season mein. Objective undeniable truth yahi hai. Salman Khan mera bhagwan nahee, main khud ke dimag se sochne ki chhamata rakhtahoon, aur mujhe pata hai ki Sid ne bohot galatiyan kiya hai. Call this being a hater if you want to, but truth is, Sid has committed more violence and misogyny than all contestants combined in 12-seasons history of the show, because pehle it was simply not allowed and now it is with a light nomination punishment. Uskelie 2 weeks nomination toh saza bhee nahee hai, bas formality hai.

Ab ap mereko yeh mat boliye ke mujhe mauka mil gaya. Apko genuinely disagree karna hai toh samjhaiye ki Sid ka behavior aj kaise sahee thah?