Our society is in deep trouble - Page 3

Originally posted by: Unsila

Because for me, this show is not about a man or woman. All are players here. And all those players want equality.

Originally posted by: SoPunk

I agree with you.

He did it in anger and that wrestling kind of physicality already were happening between them for a long time. But I fully agree that's not the right thing to do. He was wrong.

But when the pattern of relationship is wrong, wrong things do come in. Sana was extremely physical with him as much a girl can be. So he over stepped. Sid should have just told her what he told, without being physical.

Both are wrong, if we don't say it in the same breath, the girl gets the license to provoke like she was doing. That's only my point.

The relationship was abnormal from the beginning & actually sickening at this point. They should terminate it immediately.

Well, ya both are definitely wrong. I just wish Sid handled it more maturely purely today ONLY because of the inherent imbalance of physical power that exists between him and Sana.

Chalo lets take gender out of the equation. If Sid was a strong, muscular, tall woman who was purposely instigating/teasing her about the jealousy thing (which everybody knows is a huge trigger for her) and Sana was a weak, smaller-frame man who was visibly upset about it all day, had already shown a physical frustration (when they were playfully but kinda seriously play-wrestling in bed that morning) then it would still be just as wrong.

Honestly, I try to stay as objective as is humanly possible with Sid because I always think to myself maybe he will surprise me, but this guy has been given so much leeway on this show that he literally does not care anymore. He is a pretty logical guy, and he spends alot of time thinking, so he must have connected the dots by now. When he himself knows that even after hours of 'aisi ladki' misogynistic sl*t-shaming comments, the host will justify his words and say he doesn't poke - then he obviously will feel empowered to poke Vishal/Madhu while they are in a fight just for his amusement. The sad thing is if Asim or Rashmi or someone else (Paras/Mahira before he joined Shukla) did this - the whole house would pounce on them for instigation. When Sid does it, everyone knows its futile to discuss it any further. Salman I'm sure will call it entertaining or at the very least 'masti' gone wrong. That's the problem right there. Sid is already sick with alot of bullying and narcissistic tendencies and the show is completely milking it from him for the sake of ratings/profits. Short-term mein jitna bhee favor ho raha ho, but long-term mein this show is catastrophic for Sid's overall mental health, as they are enabling his worst impulses and not giving him correct feedback, which makes him for further down the sickness. If Sid was kept accountable for all his actions up till today, he wouldn't have the guts to act the way he did today.

Jo bhee ho, your bottom line is absolutely correct - SidNaaz need to immediately realize that they are deeply incompatible and end this friendship asap. It'll be tough to stay away since there is strong attachment and waise bhee ek hi ghar mein rehna hai 1.5 more months, but its really going to be detrimental to both of them if they don't stop this over possessive behavior. Its looking really unhealthy and pathetic now, and will destroy both their balance and confidence by the time the show is over.

Originally posted by: Unsila

Ye log na toh man, woman, hindu, Muslim, ameer, gareeb, chhota, baraa ko represent Kar rahe hain aur na hi society ko. They are in a game life not in real life.

Na Sana aur na Rashmi or mahira, woman ko represent Karne gayi hain. Big boss universe mein jidhar har planet se alien aaye hain.

See you can't deny the fact tv show has bigger role to influence people it is reality show and bigg boss concept was about mind games and being vocal now this people are not gone there to represent love stories too still they are showing it too so in game there is rules and ethics too there is a difference between forming genuine relationship and fake relationship in reality show only sana was talking about woman who smoke if she is not gone there to represent woman she is not gone there to degrade smoking woman too in this show every topic has been bought up from equality to metoo ,in this show woman has been told if man is aggressive stop doing your task and in this show itself women has been shown it is ok to be doormat and not being respected all this women forget about representing I don't want them to represent woman but at least don't degrade a woman.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

but are they equal? Sana and shukla are equal in the strength? Equal to chhodo Sana is half his size.

Then do you really think that sid used his full power 😳

According to many people here, he has the power of saand, the bull, and is the strongest in the house. 10th bhi use karega toh bones crack ho jaayenge saare.

And don't underestimate that punjabin kudi also. 👍🏼

Our society toh has been doomed for a while now otherwise loser filthy POS like Shukla wouldn't have been defended and justified over his wrongful actions! ... It's actually very sad that there are educated and supposedly sensible people, even today's "woke" youth who are cheering for Shukla' and finding his sh!tbag worth of antics cute ! .. Highly disturbing and disgusting this trend of toxic masculinity is!

Siddharth shukla is everything a good man shouldn't be! 🤢Period.

Btw at TM are u a male? Hats off for this post. Until movies like Kabir singh is appreciated and promoted out society will keep going down the dogs.

Don't you know both secretly love each other but can't express? Chalta hain bruh

@TM - do you know how much Kabir singh made at box office ? do you know how youth ( girls and boys ) defended Kabir singh actors and makers against those critics on social media ?

All those people also belong to Indian society.

Shukla is the biggest MCP that I have every seen. He is arrogant, rude, always has a problem with any kind of criticism.

his behaviour today was absolutely pukeworthy. not sure how anyone could find that cute. he was deliberately annoying the hell out of sana.

also, what business did he have in getting involved in madhu and vishaal's fight?