Originally posted by: piyasingh
Jayu..U exactly copied my thoughts.. Bang on post yaar..👍🏼
BP is 100% right in this. Aisa family me shaadi kerwane se acha hai, mish ko khud jaker dhakka maar de kuwe me. Even if Mishbir stay separately, but how much abir wld protect mish, for 1, 2, 3 , 5-10 yrs, but ye meenu ke naam ki talwar whole life mish ko emotionally torture karegi.. And eventually it will affect Mishbir's relationship. Kehna easy hai ki pyaar kafi hota hai, but in our Indian society we have been taught that "shaadi sirf ladke ke sath nahi hoti , family ke sath bhi hoti hai."
I hope no girl faces this situation ever in her life, but Ager me hoti, then i think I would have said Yes to Nishant. So many people dont marry their first love, Even my frnd didnt. But now she is the most luckiest one to have such nice hsbnd. The think is I want to be with someone where i dont have to be judged at every step and prove my intentions and where i can feel secure. I dont want constant fear in my mind of getting replaced., Which I once felt in my real life too with my Best frnd. I wld never want to get married in a family like RVs. For Mishti, it wld be like any other arranged marriage, but atleast Nishmish r frnds so understanding, trust and respect wld be there.
I have heard few statements from many people:-
--"Love is everything, and except love, u dont need anything in a relationship.
-- "Love hi sab kuch nahi hota, baki Choti choti cheezein bhi matter keti hain, and these small things can create lot of hurdles in ur relationship."
And jayu i agree with 2nd statement. We all have seen many small /big problems in our lyfs, i dont think we want more uncertainty, we all want and deserve peaceful and respectful life.