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Posted: 5 years ago
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Recently watched the whole story of Abir and Mishti and now seeing the current track, I genuinely had a question.. why can't Nishant be perfect for Mishti? Abir is a strong guy who fights for his family, just like Mishti, though I think they were both wrong in forcing Kunal to marry Kuhu.. But Abir is also that typical Male lead who thinks he only has the power to solve everything.. He broke Mishti's heart, did not even confide in Kuhu about being blackmailed about something to be doing this and to be honest, did nothing to find out what happened to Mishti after the heart break, at least not till she came in front of him..


Nishant on the other hand, has been a very good friend to Mishti, leaving his feelings aside also.. He still wants best for her and cant see her cry, while Abir is okay with it, it seems, as long as his brother is protected.. Why can't Mishti be shown as the woman who overcomes heartbreak and moves on into a happy life? Star Plus is all about Nai Soch, I would love to see a woman take charge of her life and move on in life.. Crying and waiting for a boy to be nice to her, would any girl in real life want to be with someone who broke her heart and didnt look back to even check on her? Would anybody deserve such a life partner? How is Abir being different than Kunal here? Both listened to their mom and ruined someone's life, one in her blind love and one with blackmail.. Abir becomes slightly better as he felt he was forced, but not telling her the truth makes him equally wrong according to me..


Not meant to hurt anyone's emotions.. it just felt like it so said so

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I agree with you. Even though I am a Mishbir shipper still I think Abir is wrong

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I don't think, it will happen in ITV where FL moves happily other than ML. It will be intersting to see something like HUM Dil CHuke SaNam where Nandhini moves with her husband finally that was master piece.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Hello,


Who said Nishant is not the right choice for Mishti? I totally agree with you. Nishant is a nice guy and he deserves the best.


But the question is whether Mishti is the right one for him? She has not moved on and her life is totally messed up now. I think her family should give her time and space to come over of it.They need to understand that marriage is not the solution for every problem.That's why i am not okay with NishMish marriage at this moment.


Coming to MishBir,whatever happened between them was very unfortunate. But i think they both were at fault.(Abir thoda jyada).In reality Mishti shouldn't go back to Abir after all this and also who wants a monster MIL like BB.😆But it's ITV,so makers will not go with the nai soch. They will follow the same gheesa pita formula and MishBir will be the end game.Also i am a Shaheer fan,so i will always have a soft corner for the character Abir.😃

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Posted: 5 years ago
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They won't and can't show Mishti with Nishant because the show was and is being marketed as a Mishbir plotline rather than only Mishti being the main character.

As for the fact where Nayi Soch is concerned, starplus has done this already with Nisha aur Uske Cousins where the main lead Nisha moved on from the 1st guy who rejected her even after their love track and married another guy who was nice and really positive. Very similar situation to NishMishBir.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Nishant is not at all a bad guy for mishti or anyone. If mishti wants to move on then she should

But mishti really has to then, in segment too she was saying that because of abir's rejection and family's love she's moving on, then how could it be a right choice when her decision is based on abir's actions.


And I am still not understanding why nishant assumed that mishti is ready to move on considering he was the only who has seen her suffer with pain in London after break up, if nishant does not want mishti to be with abir then its absolutely right no friend will allow, but marrying the girl that still loves someone madly just to make her move on, I don't think it's friendship, it's also a kind of selfishness, abir did the mistake because he chose kunal that time, what's Nannu doing now is also not a right thing.

He has lived in London, why he thinks that the solution of everything is marriage


And if bp had arranged mishti's marraige with someone else, would nannu have agreed?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I think Nishant not saying no has more to do with not taking that option from Mishti.. I dont get the lying feeling from him..


For Abir, he really needs to start looking at Mishti like a human, like he used to before he found out about his brother's birth story.. Since then, he has refused to look at another POV than his brother and that's what makes him wrong according to me.. He is the one judging Kunal as bechara and Mishti as playing games, even though he knows her core values are not what he is assuming her to be..


For Mishti, I agree that she isn't ready for marriage at all, she needs to accept whatever has happened and then move on rather than be pushed to marry someone.. But post that, I would honestly love to see her move on from Abir and Rajvansh family.. she is always going to be insulted and harrassed there and Abir has kinda proven that he can get blind at crucial points..


I agree with if Mishti is for Nishant though as he is very sincere but I hate that in the end, either they will show him as evil or sacrificial lamb who will have a broken heart.. That is something I dont like..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs

I think Nishant not saying no has more to do with not taking that option from Mishti.. I dont get the lying feeling from him..


For Abir, he really needs to start looking at Mishti like a human, like he used to before he found out about his brother's birth story.. Since then, he has refused to look at another POV than his brother and that's what makes him wrong according to me.. He is the one judging Kunal as bechara and Mishti as playing games, even though he knows her core values are not what he is assuming her to be..


For Mishti, I agree that she isn't ready for marriage at all, she needs to accept whatever has happened and then move on rather than be pushed to marry someone.. But post that, I would honestly love to see her move on from Abir and Rajvansh family.. she is always going to be insulted and harrassed there and Abir has kinda proven that he can get blind at crucial points..


I agree with if Mishti is for Nishant though as he is very sincere but I hate that in the end, either they will show him as evil or sacrificial lamb who will have a broken heart.. That is something I dont like..

Only if abir don't realize his mistake the I would definitely like mishti to move on, but this abir realized, let's see how his character will be redeemed, hoping for best, as I am abir's fan from starting, I would really like to see him happy in the show 😅😅

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutepigs

I think Nishant not saying no has more to do with not taking that option from Mishti.. I dont get the lying feeling from him..


For Abir, he really needs to start looking at Mishti like a human, like he used to before he found out about his brother's birth story.. Since then, he has refused to look at another POV than his brother and that's what makes him wrong according to me.. He is the one judging Kunal as bechara and Mishti as playing games, even though he knows her core values are not what he is assuming her to be..


For Mishti, I agree that she isn't ready for marriage at all, she needs to accept whatever has happened and then move on rather than be pushed to marry someone.. But post that, I would honestly love to see her move on from Abir and Rajvansh family.. she is always going to be insulted and harrassed there and Abir has kinda proven that he can get blind at crucial points..


I agree with if Mishti is for Nishant though as he is very sincere but I hate that in the end, either they will show him as evil or sacrificial lamb who will have a broken heart.. That is something I dont like..

Bold - there is nothing to sacrifice, mishti was never in love with him, he realized that he loves mishti 3 days ago then too he had knew mishti loves abir, then what is there to sacrifice

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Posted: 5 years ago
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It would be sacrifice because if promos are to be believed, their marriage will be announced and even he knows Mishti, he knows she isnt the type of girl to say yes without meaning it or being ready or at least comfortable in moving on.. and he loves her, the days of realization cant be a criteria that when Abir would get off his high horse and come to claim Mishti, who will happily forget all the pain and go to him, his heart will be broken because he would have started dreaming of a life with her by then..


So either Mishti will never find out so he would lie he doesnt love her, or if she does find out, he'll tell her he understands, at the end he will sacrifice his love so she can go back to someone else, or else they'll show him as evil who will deserve it...


I know I sound anti Abir, even I like Shaheer and the character, but since the Kunal truth came out, he has been very blind to Mishti and her pain.. He knew she was hurting, but he justified it in his head by him hurting, despite him being the decision maker there.. You cant decide to break someone and then justify it by saying since you are broken and you had a good reason, it is all okay...

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