Anu is a Mamma's boy, but not like many have understood it - Page 2

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

i want to know what action u expect anurag to take against mohini, he always stood and told she was wrong .. If expecting stand against mother does not literally mean scold the mother and cheeko on top of lungs, anurag has said it many a times to pre, mom i dnt like the way u treat prerna, i think he has said this...

In naveen babu track anurag told all that it was mohini who forced pre for marriage did he hide from moloy to save mohini😆😆😆 nope

Moloy dint take any action against mohini what he can do

And other than that did mohini insult veena or pre infront of anurag 🤔🤔🤔 Noooooo

So anurag is not antharyaami to know what happened..

Thats my dil.ki khwaish that anurag should disown his mothwer one day ... Day is not far when mohini will do all her venomous act infront of anurag ...that day i will say whether he is mommas boy or mommas boy standing with right

Anurag was never a coward or blind.. He has essence with his own charm...

Thaddak baddak dialogues baazi from anurag to mohini 😉its too much OTT from anurag ka charcater

And i will hate it to hear those from anurags mouth

And one more in general why married womans expect husband to scold his mother to protect his wife .. Why mother in law should get scoldings to prove husband is not mommas boy..

Dnt being a son cant he show his disappointment with his mother in a subtle way without climaxing the mom & son relation...

I dnt understand wifes of men 😁😁😁😬 they want husband to sunao thier mother in laws in meantime respect their sasuralwale😂😂😂

Kudiyon ka zamaana...

I dont want any action from him pari, I like him the way he is..😆 I said he will at most say that she is wrong or get upset for sometime but never abandon her because he loves her.

Whatever you have written is my point exactly ,in reply to the post.

You want him to abandon also then proud of him being mammas boy too..how do these two things match? Showing disappointment ina subtle way means disowning her ?then first moloy should disown her because he toh knows na moh inside out ? My problem is with disowning only..when you all are proud of him being a mammas boy ,why keep this expectation from.him? This is how anurag is ,like this is how prerna is..

Awesome post grace......

Anurag is a momma's boy and will always be....and I love him for that.....

But the relationship has been gradually....very slowly getting deteriorated....from NB track to now......

His behavior with his mom has changed quite a lot in subtle manner actually.....

He may not show Mohini her place because of his respect for her...but he has repeatedly shown her his stand through his actions......

And as for him not doing anything immediately while she humiliated prerna in kom track....in 1 or 2 instances that is..... I only have to say one thing.....

This is ITV.... Everyone need to have space to do DRAMA..... When he is reacting slow in these instances it's because for the sake of DRAMA....because cvs wanted it lol.....

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

And one more in general why married womans expect husband to scold his mother to protect his wife .. Why mother in law should get scoldings to prove husband is not mommas boy..

Dnt being a son cant he show his disappointment with his mother in a subtle way without climaxing the mom & son relation...

I dnt understand wifes of men 😁😁😁😬 they want husband to sunao thier mother in laws in meantime respect their sasuralwale😂😂😂

Kudiyon ka zamaana...

Generally speaking , this is the problem with every man in india bec they are brought up that way..you will understand this only when you get married and you live in a joint family...things are changing , children dont want to live with their parents anymore , everyone asks for freedom and space and privacy..but in a nuclear set up also, every other dil has this same issue in her family ..if you look around you will know..

From.mohinis pov, as a mother , who is so obsessive for her son, for whom she was the most important person in his life ,suddenly changes when he gets married or loves some other woman ..nothing but human emotions....this is how love is ...from anurags pov, he never saw this as a problem , that's his lack of understanding of the dynamics between a mil and dil. He thinks his mother will accept the girl he loves for his happiness..he never addressed this problem, and this I noticed a lot of times specially during his wedding before bajaj..how he bulldozed her feelings ..so when a mother is treated like this, she will react and react strongly. This isn't a woman is against woman thing..this is the problem with all mothers and their boys.. men are incapable of understanding women's emotions by large..they can never understand his family politics ..they either keep quiet and ignorr or react too strongly ..yes very few are able to balance , but for that , their wife has to be more understanding and compromising because elders DO NoT understand or adjust in their age.

Let me tell you ,you all have millions of issue with moh and moh is not your mother in law ok😆 But in reality, the girl doesnt have that much of a problem if her husband is supportive ..like moh can blackmail anurag with her emotional drama, anurag ca n do it too..they have that much power on each other....this is what you are trying to explain me , that anurag will stand up for what's right...,I know it already..he won't stand up for "what's right " , he will stand up for those he love ..and he loves both the women in his life equally..neither will be abandon any one of them nor shout at them and Express his disappointment ..he is ma ka laadla, he will manipulate both with his emotional drama..like mother like son..so I dont have a problem with him and moh ..nor do I expect anything ..in this garbage,I have repeatedly said this, moh dynamics with anurag is the only sane thing which intrigues me..

And unlike you all, I have a different view of moh..class difference was once upon a time but her issues with prerna now r mainly bec of her ditching anurag at the mandap and anurag going berserk for her...giving up.his life for prerna..a mother can never accept this self destructive behavior of children..they will.try to protect their children in this case and not try to give them what they want ..that's the reason why veena also advises prerna against the basus...but she doesnt listen..nor does anurag so their moms will oppose them..aise bhi prerna didnt marry anurag nor.did anurag ever tell them about the child so she is making her own assumptions which is normal..prerna is now the other woman in anurags life as he is married to sona (this anurag only told hrr) so from her pov prerna is only trying to intrude in his life , knowing it's dangerous to his life..I dont believe this, this is acc to the story.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Generally speaking , this is the problem with every man in india bec they are brought up that way..you will understand this only when you get married and you live in a joint family...things are changing , children dont want to live with their parents anymore , everyone asks for freedom and space and privacy..but in a nuclear set up also, every other dil has this same issue in her family ..if you look around you will know..

From.mohinis pov, as a mother , who is so obsessive for her son, for whom she was the most important person in his life ,suddenly changes when he gets married or loves some other woman ..nothing but human emotions....this is how love is ...from anurags pov, he never saw this as a problem , that's his lack of understanding of the dynamics between a mil and dil. He thinks his mother will accept the girl he loves for his happiness..he never addressed this problem, and this I noticed a lot of times specially during his wedding before bajaj..how he bulldozed her feelings ..so when a mother is treated like this, she will react and react strongly. This isn't a woman is against woman thing..this is the problem with all mothers and their boys.. men are incapable of understanding women's emotions by large..they can never understand his family politics ..they either keep quiet and ignorr or react too strongly ..yes very few are able to balance , but for that , their wife has to be more understanding and compromising because elders DO NoT understand or adjust in their age.

Let me tell you ,you all have millions of issue with moh and moh is not your mother in law ok😆 But in reality, the girl doesnt have that much of a problem if her husband is supportive ..like moh can blackmail anurag with her emotional drama, anurag ca n do it too..they have that much power on each other....this is what you are trying to explain me , that anurag will stand up for what's right...,I know it already..he won't stand up for "what's right " , he will stand up for those he love ..and he loves both the women in his life equally..neither will be abandon any one of them nor shout at them and Express his disappointment ..he is ma ka laadla, he will manipulate both with his emotional drama..like mother like son..so I dont have a problem with him and moh ..nor do I expect anything ..in this garbage,I have repeatedly said this, moh dynamics with anurag is the only sane thing which intrigues me..

I completely agree with this part and that is exactly why i feel Anurag's treatment of the entire situation is quite realistic(even though its kzk) . He is trying to balance between his mother and wife/lover and that is what even the most supportive spouses do. No sane person will go and blast his mother/ disown her to show support for his wife unless the mother has done something so nasty and unforgivable.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I completely agree with this part and that is exactly why i feel Anurag's treatment of the entire situation is quite realistic(even though its kzk) . He is trying to balance between his mother and wife/lover and that is what even the most supportive spouses do. No sane person will go and blast his mother/ disown her to show support for his wife unless the mother has done something so nasty and unforgivable.

True!! It's like an utopian scenario expecting a son to see & understand his mom's nature, what she's capable of doing & then call her out when she's wrong. Most south asian married men do is act oblivious all their life even if they know what's happening in their family.

Like charu said both mom & son are alike when it comes to using emotional blackmail as a tool to get their way. Once the other gives in, everything else is forgotten.

One more thing, if I correctly remember even in sony tv's show (Erica's prev) did the ml ever confronted his mother?, did he at least decipher his mom's toxic possessiveness towards him? I guess no! Although the entire show was based on that theme. In the end it was all the fl's good doings something related to his mom's past, that helped this lady to tone down her toxic possessiveness towards her son and accept her dil.

I know comparisons aren't allowed, but whichever show it is progressive or regressive, we can't expect showdown between mom & son. It just remains a dream😆

Originally posted by: falah5

True!! It's like an utopian scenario expecting a son to see & understand his mom's nature, what she's capable of doing & then call her out when she's wrong. Most of south asian married men do is act oblivious all their life even if they know what's happening in their family.

Like charu said both mom & son are alike when it comes to using emotional blackmail as tool to get their way. Once the other gives in, everything else is forgotten.

One more thing, if I correctly remember even in sony tv's show (Erica's prev) did the ml ever confronted his mother?, did he at least decipher his mom's toxic possessiveness towards him? I guess no! Although the entire show was based on that theme. In the end it was all the fl's good doings something related to his mom's past, that helped this lady to tone down her toxic possessiveness towards her son and accept her dil.

I know comparisons aren't allowed, but whichever show it is progressive or regressive, we can't expect showdown between mom & son. It just remains a dream😆

True and in cases where the man is a supportive husband, he will never disown his mother over one issue and why should he? As much as he is a husband, he is also a son. Either he will try to balance between both(explain to the mother how her behavior is unacceptable without making her feel insulted) and if that doesn't work, live separately while not cutting all ties with her. What people here want Anurag to do is shout at his mom and distance himself from her over one issue. It is not going to happen. I remember this was the expectation from the halwa kaand during the first Komo track. Many wanted Anurag's to blast Mohini but he didn't. Instead he handled the situation in a way I felt was quite realistic.

Edit:I have no idea about the storyline of Erica's previous show.Have not watched it.

Originally posted by: falah5

True!! It's like an utopian scenario expecting a son to see & understand his mom's nature, what she's capable of doing & then call her out when she's wrong. Most south asian married men do is act oblivious all their life even if they know what's happening in their family.

Like charu said both mom & son are alike when it comes to using emotional blackmail as a tool to get their way. Once the other gives in, everything else is forgotten.

One more thing, if I correctly remember even in sony tv's show (Erica's prev) did the ml ever confronted his mother?, did he at least decipher his mom's toxic possessiveness towards him? I guess no! Although the entire show was based on that theme. In the end it was all the fl's good doings something related to his mom's past, that helped this lady to tone down her toxic possessiveness towards her son and accept her dil.

I know comparisons aren't allowed, but whichever show it is progressive or regressive, we can't expect showdown between mom & son. It just remains a dream😆

@ Bold : True that and I think that has more to do with the values that our culture has imbibed in us. Even today ma baap ka darja is above that of God and there is no change to the mindset that "Ma ke charno ke niche swarg hota hai"... Hence, showing an ML going out for all out frontal confrontation with his mother, is probably, still a little unpalatable for general audience.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Generally speaking , this is the problem with every man in india bec they are brought up that way..you will understand this only when you get married and you live in a joint family...things are changing , children dont want to live with their parents anymore , everyone asks for freedom and space and privacy..but in a nuclear set up also, every other dil has this same issue in her family ..if you look around you will know..

From.mohinis pov, as a mother , who is so obsessive for her son, for whom she was the most important person in his life ,suddenly changes when he gets married or loves some other woman ..nothing but human emotions....this is how love is ...from anurags pov, he never saw this as a problem , that's his lack of understanding of the dynamics between a mil and dil. He thinks his mother will accept the girl he loves for his happiness..he never addressed this problem, and this I noticed a lot of times specially during his wedding before bajaj..how he bulldozed her feelings ..so when a mother is treated like this, she will react and react strongly. This isn't a woman is against woman thing..this is the problem with all mothers and their boys.. men are incapable of understanding women's emotions by large..they can never understand his family politics ..they either keep quiet and ignorr or react too strongly ..yes very few are able to balance , but for that , their wife has to be more understanding and compromising because elders DO NoT understand or adjust in their age.

Let me tell you ,you all have millions of issue with moh and moh is not your mother in law ok😆 But in reality, the girl doesnt have that much of a problem if her husband is supportive ..like moh can blackmail anurag with her emotional drama, anurag ca n do it too..they have that much power on each other....this is what you are trying to explain me , that anurag will stand up for what's right...,I know it already..he won't stand up for "what's right " , he will stand up for those he love ..and he loves both the women in his life equally..neither will be abandon any one of them nor shout at them and Express his disappointment ..he is ma ka laadla, he will manipulate both with his emotional drama..like mother like son..so I dont have a problem with him and moh ..nor do I expect anything ..in this garbage,I have repeatedly said this, moh dynamics with anurag is the only sane thing which intrigues me..

And unlike you all, I have a different view of moh..class difference was once upon a time but her issues with prerna now r mainly bec of her ditching anurag at the mandap and anurag going berserk for her...giving up.his life for prerna..a mother can never accept this self destructive behavior of children..they will.try to protect their children in this case and not try to give them what they want ..that's the reason why veena also advises prerna against the basus...but she doesnt listen..nor does anurag so their moms will oppose them..aise bhi prerna didnt marry anurag nor.did anurag ever tell them about the child so she is making her own assumptions which is normal..prerna is now the other woman in anurags life as he is married to sona (this anurag only told hrr) so from her pov prerna is only trying to intrude in his life , knowing it's dangerous to his life..I dont believe this, this is acc to the story.

Very well said! 👏

Originally posted by: _charu_

Generally speaking , this is the problem with every man in india bec they are brought up that way..you will understand this only when you get married and you live in a joint family...things are changing , children dont want to live with their parents anymore , everyone asks for freedom and space and privacy..but in a nuclear set up also, every other dil has this same issue in her family ..if you look around you will know..

From.mohinis pov, as a mother , who is so obsessive for her son, for whom she was the most important person in his life ,suddenly changes when he gets married or loves some other woman ..nothing but human emotions....this is how love is ...from anurags pov, he never saw this as a problem , that's his lack of understanding of the dynamics between a mil and dil. He thinks his mother will accept the girl he loves for his happiness..he never addressed this problem, and this I noticed a lot of times specially during his wedding before bajaj..how he bulldozed her feelings ..so when a mother is treated like this, she will react and react strongly. This isn't a woman is against woman thing..this is the problem with all mothers and their boys.. men are incapable of understanding women's emotions by large..they can never understand his family politics ..they either keep quiet and ignorr or react too strongly ..yes very few are able to balance , but for that , their wife has to be more understanding and compromising because elders DO NoT understand or adjust in their age.

Let me tell you ,you all have millions of issue with moh and moh is not your mother in law ok😆 But in reality, the girl doesnt have that much of a problem if her husband is supportive ..like moh can blackmail anurag with her emotional drama, anurag ca n do it too..they have that much power on each other....this is what you are trying to explain me , that anurag will stand up for what's right...,I know it already..he won't stand up for "what's right " , he will stand up for those he love ..and he loves both the women in his life equally..neither will be abandon any one of them nor shout at them and Express his disappointment ..he is ma ka laadla, he will manipulate both with his emotional drama..like mother like son..so I dont have a problem with him and moh ..nor do I expect anything ..in this garbage,I have repeatedly said this, moh dynamics with anurag is the only sane thing which intrigues me..

And unlike you all, I have a different view of moh..class difference was once upon a time but her issues with prerna now r mainly bec of her ditching anurag at the mandap and anurag going berserk for her...giving up.his life for prerna..a mother can never accept this self destructive behavior of children..they will.try to protect their children in this case and not try to give them what they want ..that's the reason why veena also advises prerna against the basus...but she doesnt listen..nor does anurag so their moms will oppose them..aise bhi prerna didnt marry anurag nor.did anurag ever tell them about the child so she is making her own assumptions which is normal..prerna is now the other woman in anurags life as he is married to sona (this anurag only told hrr) so from her pov prerna is only trying to intrude in his life , knowing it's dangerous to his life..I dont believe this, this is acc to the story.

Amazing post charu 👍🏼

Though i am looking for confrontation between the two according to story but i know in reality their is very thin line about abandoning your loved ones be it mother father or wife. I so wish in whatever realistic way they can they give few episodes dedicated to this mother son duo maybe if done it right it will be nice to see it without too much shouting and bad mouthing basically OTT.

Cheers charu and great post by TM(grace) and it was so nice to read everyone here 🤗

Originally posted by: BombayGirl10

Amazing post charu 👍🏼

Though i am looking for confrontation between the two according to story but i know in reality their is very thin line about abandoning your loved ones be it mother father or wife. I so wish in whatever realistic way they can they give few episodes dedicated to this mother son duo maybe if done it right it will be nice to see it without too much shouting and bad mouthing basically OTT.

Cheers charu and great post by TM(grace) and it was so nice to read everyone here 🤗

Thanks bg🤗 As long as the actors decide to leave or the character only ends, this wont happen..confrontations may be there with back to square one scenario..like if you remember during komo #1, moh spits venom on pre in every epi...in the end what happened? Neither did she learn from her mistakes , nor feel guilty, the only scene they gave us was moh feeling sorry for anurag for putting up with a girl like komo...we have seen so many times , moh will bend in front of anurag every single time he throws a tantrum but he doesn't do it too often ..n the lady is extra cautious around him coz she knows he wont approve of it...such kind of women r very difficult to tackle..