Most important detail in today's episode || Aman's opinions of his dad - Page 6

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Yeah Jinn Sahab as always minds his own business and does his work. Jinn baby and a classy house 😆 Pura ghar basane ka plan hain kya? 😛

And I get you... Aman not hating his dad even a little bit does not make sense to me. Like even if we consider that Aman thinks he isn't the main cheating party, he's the reason y'all lives are SHIT. Pure relentless SHIT. He's the reason you become a wild beast sometimes ffs -___- He's the reason you're only half human! Aman should really really hate his father! For bargaining his firstborn's life for money! But here we are... always blaming the other woman.

Am just..meh about him right now.. I pity Roshni that she's dying for someone like him. :/

he does not know any of this

his family never told him

Originally posted by: audacious_scribbler

okay i know this is not an excuse and it does not justify the way aman is behaving

but he has grown up listening to his mother always blaming the other woman and somewhere it has affected his judgement as well. when you hear the same thing for 20 years(that too from your mother), developing a different perspective is hard

i hope when he learns the truth about his father we will see considerable character development and he will apologise to tabeezi and roshni( I REALLY REALLY want that apology or i am never defending him again )

I would understand this coming from a teen. Impressionable kid who did know better. But not a grown adult. And I would definitely understand if he hated both of them. But as a grown man,if he thinks only the woman is at fault...an educated man..then that's certainly an issue. Parveen doing that I still understand. She's from a different generation. I don't have a problem with Aman hating the other woman,I have a HUGE problem with Aman hating only the woman and not his dad. Aman should be in what..in his mid twenties... He doesn't know how adultery happens? Aman has biases based on childhood trauma I agree completely but we can still critique how those biases are misogynistic in nature in his day and age. He has a massive flaw that needs redressal.

Originally posted by: zooni.blue

Asr hated khushi from first meet without any proper reason... Here aman was at least cordial with roshni until he finds out about nachnewali...

He has grown up with wrong notins n values n i guess that makes him what he is today... He is flawed n will learn with time...

Aman is 100 times better than that guy. Didn't he hurt the FL and manhandle her several times? That's just -_- Gul's heroes are so problematic. Aman started out so Wonderful. Best best best but then went down the tangent.

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

I would understand this coming from a teen. Impressionable kid who did know better. But not a grown adult. And I would definitely understand if he hated both of them. But as a grown man,if he thinks only the woman is at fault...an educated man..then that's certainly an issue. Parveen doing that I still understand. She's from a different generation. I don't have a problem with Aman hating the other woman,I have a HUGE problem with Aman hating only the woman and not his dad. Aman should be in what..in his mid twenties... He doesn't know how adultery happens? Aman has biases based on childhood trauma I agree completely but we can still critique how those biases are misogynistic in nature in his day and age. He has a massive flaw that needs redressal.

i think his biggest flaw is that he doesn't wait to listen to the other side of the story

the way he reacts is wrong and i am glad that roshni left (in a way it was a toxic relationship)

i admit that aman has never shown any resentment for his father but we have never seen him support or sympathize with his father either

they have never really shown how aman really feels about his father

also he doesn't know the entire truth about his father

all i am saying is that he isn't completely irredeemable. there is room for improvement

Originally posted by: zooni.blue

Asr hated khushi from first meet without any proper reason... Here aman was at least cordial with roshni until he finds out about nachnewali...

He has grown up with wrong notins n values n i guess that makes him what he is today... He is flawed n will learn with time...

Some unknown person comes and ruins your annual fashion show which is crucial for your business! I guess that's practical enough reason for ASR to hate Khushi! He misunderstood her as a person sent by rivals. And thats very much possible in fashion industry!

Originally posted by: audacious_scribbler

i think his biggest flaw is that he doesn't wait to listen to the other side of the story

the way he reacts is wrong and i am glad that roshni left (in a way it was a toxic relationship)

i admit that aman has never shown any resentment for his father but we have never seen him support or sympathize with his father either

they have never really shown how aman really feels about his father

also he doesn't know the entire truth about his father

all i am saying is that he isn't completely irredeemable. there is room for improvement

I think the writers are purposefully showing him as a flawed man so that they can showcase his redemption and Garner TRP! Nothing touches the heart of ladies more than a repenting husband! That stuff gives more satisfaction than getting a compliment for looking young! 😆

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Aman is 100 times better than that guy. Didn't he hurt the FL and manhandle her several times? That's just -_- Gul's heroes are so problematic. Aman started out so Wonderful. Best best best but then went down the tangent.

If you consider verbal abuse lesser humiliation than manhandling then yes ASR is no better than Aman but for me verbal abuse is equally degrading and sometimes more hurting than phyiscal pain! An insulting statement from your significant other can scar you for life!

Originally posted by: msainhjaug

I don't really think its hypocrisy, his mentality is integral part of this story and why he couldn't accept his love for Roshini..

He is not shown to be perfect and this gives him scope to evolve. Without this flaw, he would be as good as roshini.

I think If anything being done wrong here is making Roshini adopted child of salma. Like salma's real daughter can't be that nice..

It is hypocrisy when you think that someone is capable of being cheap and greedy just because of their poor background! Aman thinks Roshni is a gold digger and enticer just because she is the daughter of a prostitute! If this is not hypocrisy then what is?

And why can't a Man be shown to have a good character? There is nothing wrong in showing a ideal ML..infact that would be such a role model and inspiration for the patriarchical society of India. I don't think Aman is setting a good example for the Men followers of the show! He is encouraging them to mistreat their wives without giving them an opportunity to explain!

And lastly kids do not always inherit parents characters! We have seen great kids from parents with not so good characters and bad kids from almost Saint parents! So thinking that a person like Salma cannot have a daughter like Roshni is streotype! I think thats one of the USP of the show..a Tawaif with a farista Dil! That shows anyone can have a gold heart not just the privileged ones!

Guys i have observed something fishy in aman's mom reaction today ...i mean i may be connecting wrong dots but still...

"she was weird from start ..when she got to know tat aman has to marry ayaana to save aman she was opposing and against it and today when tabeezi was saying abt the danger she was still trying to manipulate aman by not to trust her(tabeezi) when she even got to know that she (tabeezi) was the one who was helping them all these days"

Is SHE aslo with jinn by any chance ?? i mean ya she has a past with rubina but still its a matter of her son's life, she could have atleast give rubina a chance to tell wat danger it was talking abt...🤔 i felt its fishy ...

Originally posted by: shreesharamesh

Guys i have observed something fishy in aman's mom reaction today ...i mean i may be connecting wrong dots but still...

"she was weird from start ..when she got to know tat aman has to marry ayaana to save aman she was opposing and against it and today when tabeezi was saying abt the danger she was still trying to manipulate aman by not to trust her(tabeezi) when she even got to know that she (tabeezi) was the one who was helping them all these days"

Is SHE aslo with jinn by any chance ?? i mean ya she has a past with rubina but still its a matter of her son's life, she could have atleast give rubina a chance to tell wat danger it was talking abt...🤔 i felt its fishy ...

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If that's the case then Dear lord kill me now! 🤣

But I can understand your paranoia! She has pushed us to the limit where we start imagining anything under the sun! 😉