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Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Haan she trusts meenu enough to believe she manipulated abir but she doesnt trust abir enough to believe he cant be manipulated and now here to test his love... how is it right to test his love... she didnt trust him enough in past too now after break up it has gone weak thats the only trust Anu.. but does abir deserve all this for the blind trust n understanding he has on her...

how come she read abir n understood him during baba track n did all jaasoosi when he was strong to move out why didnt she just believe that and accepted to move out... one day before he was expressing his fear on her leaving him n next day he does all this and she believed he fell out of love... i always asked what more does mish want abir to do for her to trust him blindly now break up has made it weak only...

@bold - this think abir in mish place n mish in abir place... he would've never believed anything even if she did something more harsh too he would've still understood she is doing all this for a reason and never ever tested her love...

the kind of understanding n blind trust abir has on her can never be shown by her.. he had thousand reasons to get manipulated by meenu that day but he always found reason to trust her but she always gets reason to feel insecure... thats the basic difference btw abir n mishti...

sorry Anu if you feel i was rude but i couldnt handle her testing his love he doesnt deserve that like how mish doesnt deserve the harsh break up... a balance should be there n abir alone cant go on showing the trust n understanding...

Are are.. Meri light.. Tu cool hoja......

See from where I see

1. Mishti learnt the hard way to trust.... Same was with Abhir.....

2. The only reason why mishti trusted Meenu is because see had seen the horrendous face of Mehul, n knew Meenu was trying to protect Abhir from this demon. But that time she dint realise she was trading one demon with the other.....

3. Abhir trusted her completely blindly.. Agree....

But the way he broke up, sitting every door she was trying to open what could Mishti do?.... She trusted him hence went back even when he tore the wedding card.. When he told her in fount of all that YOU LIED YOU BETRAYED......

4. Mishti was angry on him in few occasions but never insulted him in front of his family, or her family... Never looked deep into his eyes and said JUST GET OUT OF MY LIFE I DON'T LOVE YOU... Dint physically manhandle him just to make sure he goes.. Yes she was a little rude in couple of occasions.. But not like how Abhir did....

5. She trusts him, but the way he broke up she was way too shattered...... She did come and say I know you love me.. You dint mean what you said.. but than when he held her tight and looked into her eyes n proclaimed I DON'T LOVE YOU. YOUR NOBODY....
.What ever it is any self respecting girl would have got crushed with the way he behaved......

She's a girl who was shunned by her own parents..... Adopted by another family but unfortunately there to many times she was made to feel n outsider............

Yes what mishti is doing is not what we expected....... But even after she left for London she knew Abhir dint even try to enquire how she was.... Did he...... Then how can she be sure what's going on... How will her blind love matter when Abhir killed the love cold bloodedly ..... She just needed an assurance that he still loves her n she got to know it through her way today

Abhir also wished she gets a better man than him.... Really...... So now when she's kinda showing him She's moved on he's getting effected........

She never disrespected or humiliated Abhir the way he did...... Neither she stopped loving him....

When he can put all kinds shades n mask for so called Nanko why can't she put a smiling face to get him back......

She did tell nanu that when she saw Abhir after a long time.. He dint show much expressions n hence her heart broke thinking he really forgot her... Dint love her anymore

Yaar after whatever he did.. He dint even call her not did she get any hint of him even enquiring about her..... She was in pain n in that when her bade Papa asked her to go to London.. She did... dint Abhir listen to his mom n select naanko... Than I don't think mishti did anything wrong by listning to bade Papa....

Over all if mishti is wrong in not understanding.. Abhir is even more wrong in giving up on things so easily n just sulking

Atleast Mishti kuch tho try karrahi hai

For me both Abhir n Mishti are fool's to just keep saying family family always... Bass

Totally agree with all the things that you have said. I am actually able to get both Mishti and Abir and what they are doing.

My only peeve is using dialogues like Mishti 2.0 and Teapot repeatedly

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Are are.. Meri light.. Tu cool hoja......

See from where I see

1. Mishti learnt the hard way to trust.... Same was with Abhir.....

2. The only reason why mishti trusted Meenu is because see had seen the horrendous face of Mehul, n knew Meenu was trying to protect Abhir from this demon. But that time she dint realise she was trading one demon with the other.....

3. Abhir trusted her completely blindly.. Agree....

But the way he broke up, sitting every door she was trying to open what could Mishti do?.... She trusted him hence went back even when he tore the wedding card.. When he told her in fount of all tha YOU LIED YOU BETRAYED......

4. Mishti was angry on him in few occasions but never insulted him in front of his family, or her family... Never looked deep into his eyes and said JUST GET OUT OF MY LIFE I DON'T LOVE YOU... Don't physically manhandle him just to make sure he goes.. Yes she was a little rude in couple of occasions.. But not like how Abhir did....

5. She trusts him, but the way he broke up she was way too shattered...... She did come and say I know you love me.. You dint mean what you said.. That when he held her tight and looked into her eyes n proclaimed I DON'T LOVE YOU. YOUR NOBODY....
.What ever it is any self respecting girl would have got crushed with the way he behaved......

She's a girl who was shunned by her own parents..... Adopted by another family but unfortunately there to many time she was made to feel n outsider............

Yes what mishti is doing is not what we expected....... But even after she left for London she knew Abhir dint ever try to enquire how she was.... Did he...... Then how can she be sure what's going on... How will her blind love matter when Abhir killed the love cold bloodedly ..... She just needed and assurance that he still loves her n she got to know it through her way today

Abhir also wished she gets a better man than him.... Really...... So now when she's kinda showing him She's moved on he's getting effected........

She never disrespected or humiliated Abhir the way he did...... Neither she stopped loving him....

When he can put all kinds shades n mask for so called Nanko why can't she put a smiling face......

She did tell nanu that when she saw Abhir after a long time.. He dint show any much expressions n hence her heart broke thinking he really forgot her... Dint love her

Yaar after whatever he did.. He dint even call her not did she get any hint of him even enquiring about her..... She eat in pain n in that when her bade Papa asked her to go to London.. She did... dint Abhir listen to his mom n select naanko... Than I don't think mishti did anything wrong by listning to bade Papa....

Over all of mishti is wrong in not understanding.. Abhir is even more wrong in giving up on things so easily n just sulking

Atleast Mishti kuch tho try karrahi hai

For me both Abhir n Mishti are fool's to just keep saying family family always... Bass

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Are are.. Meri light.. Tu cool hoja......

See from where I see

1. Mishti learnt the hard way to trust.... Same was with Abhir.....

2. The only reason why mishti trusted Meenu is because see had seen the horrendous face of Mehul, n knew Meenu was trying to protect Abhir from this demon. But that time she dint realise she was trading one demon with the other.....

3. Abhir trusted her completely blindly.. Agree....

But the way he broke up, sitting every door she was trying to open what could Mishti do?.... She trusted him hence went back even when he tore the wedding card.. When he told her in fount of all tha YOU LIED YOU BETRAYED......

4. Mishti was angry on him in few occasions but never insulted him in front of his family, or her family... Never looked deep into his eyes and said JUST GET OUT OF MY LIFE I DON'T LOVE YOU... Don't physically manhandle him just to make sure he goes.. Yes she was a little rude in couple of occasions.. But not like how Abhir did....

5. She trusts him, but the way he broke up she was way too shattered...... She did come and say I know you love me.. You dint mean what you said.. That when he held her tight and looked into her eyes n proclaimed I DON'T LOVE YOU. YOUR NOBODY....
.What ever it is any self respecting girl would have got crushed with the way he behaved......

She's a girl who was shunned by her own parents..... Adopted by another family but unfortunately there to many time she was made to feel n outsider............

Yes what mishti is doing is not what we expected....... But even after she left for London she knew Abhir dint ever try to enquire how she was.... Did he...... Then how can she be sure what's going on... How will her blind love matter when Abhir killed the love cold bloodedly ..... She just needed and assurance that he still loves her n she got to know it through her way today

Abhir also wished she gets a better man than him.... Really...... So now when she's kinda showing him She's moved on he's getting effected........

She never disrespected or humiliated Abhir the way he did...... Neither she stopped loving him....

When he can put all kinds shades n mask for so called Nanko why can't she put a smiling face......

She did tell nanu that when she saw Abhir after a long time.. He dint show any much expressions n hence her heart broke thinking he really forgot her... Dint love her

Yaar after whatever he did.. He dint even call her not did she get any hint of him even enquiring about her..... She eat in pain n in that when her bade Papa asked her to go to London.. She did... dint Abhir listen to his mom n select naanko... Than I don't think mishti did anything wrong by listning to bade Papa....

Over all of mishti is wrong in not understanding.. Abhir is even more wrong in giving up on things so easily n just sulking

Atleast Mishti kuch tho try karrahi hai

For me both Abhir n Mishti are fool's to just keep saying family family always... Bass

My post in LU thread!!!

Abir was put on a spot and he reacted impulsively...to protect his brother...that much I can understand

But after that I am not able to relate to him....because it is not the same Abir we have seen from the beginning.....

He is giving up on mishti

He is giving up on himself

He is doing nothing for the past 2 mnths ...Cmon the Abir we know would have worked something out...would have fought.....

Exactly, he understood Mishti before but now he is believing she moved on!!! Likewise, Mishti is also confirming her doubts on whether he loves her or not!!

I dnt blame him nor Mishti for having doubt on their feelings for each other....because you will have a good perception of the other person's feelings when everything is going smooth, but since they are both in pain their doubt on each other's feelings is natural.

Look at the situation......

Abir himself told Mishti he doesnt love her.....so she wanted to confirm whether he is telling the truth. She needed that to assure herself that she is not fighting for a lost cause.

From Abir's pov....he broke up with her very brutally.....told her he didn't love her, accused of her many things, said he didn't trust her, he wanted her to move on......so its natural for him to assume she moved on especially when the guy himself in question has told him she is his gf.

We are being harsh on both of them regarding their understanding factor......they are human beings with flaws....I am sure they will find a way.......unless both of them give up!!

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Abir was put on a spot and he reacted impulsively...to protect his brother...that much I can understand

But after that I am not able to relate to him....because it is not the same Abir we have seen from the beginning.....

He is giving up on mishti

He is giving up on himself

He is doing nothing for the past 2 mnths ...Cmon the Abir we know would have worked something out...would have fought.....

Exactly, he understood Mishti before but now he is believing she moved on!!! Likewise, Mishti is also confirming her doubts on whether he loves her or not!!

I dnt blame him nor Mishti for having doubt on their feelings for each other....because you will have a good perception of the other person's feelings when everything is going smooth, but since they are both in pain their doubt on each other's feelings is natural.

Look at the situation......

Abir himself told Mishti he doesnt love her.....so she wanted to confirm whether he is telling the truth. She needed that to assure herself that she is not fighting for a lost cause.

From Abir's pov....he broke up with her very brutally.....told her he didn't love her, accused of her many things, said he didn't trust her, he wanted her to move on......so its natural for him to assume she moved on especially when the guy himself in question has told him she is his gf.

We are being harsh on both of them regarding their understanding factor......they are human beings with flaws....I am sure they will find a way.......unless both of them give up!!

thanks mini for this.... 🤗 now i'm much cooler and understand both of them yaar...

she is more practical and need proof to believe everything even she didnt get over her bhoj thing until abir made her realize it but still somewhere she still has that problem.. so her trust issue is her flaw... and abir he is more emotional person n as he let her go he believes whatever is shown atleast for himself to believe she moved on but still somewhere it hurts him.. he needs a push always so its his flaw... both of them are trying to be human with flaws.... ufff thanks mini now i'm much ok with both behaving the way they are... 🤗

remember their first kaarwa chauth ?? today she ignored this causing Abir huge heart break ....

how happy MIshti is to realise Abir still loved her

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Are are.. Meri light.. Tu cool hoja......

See from where I see

1. Mishti learnt the hard way to trust.... Same was with Abhir.....

2. The only reason why mishti trusted Meenu is because see had seen the horrendous face of Mehul, n knew Meenu was trying to protect Abhir from this demon. But that time she dint realise she was trading one demon with the other.....

3. Abhir trusted her completely blindly.. Agree....

But the way he broke up, sitting every door she was trying to open what could Mishti do?.... She trusted him hence went back even when he tore the wedding card.. When he told her in fount of all tha YOU LIED YOU BETRAYED......

4. Mishti was angry on him in few occasions but never insulted him in front of his family, or her family... Never looked deep into his eyes and said JUST GET OUT OF MY LIFE I DON'T LOVE YOU... Don't physically manhandle him just to make sure he goes.. Yes she was a little rude in couple of occasions.. But not like how Abhir did....

5. She trusts him, but the way he broke up she was way too shattered...... She did come and say I know you love me.. You dint mean what you said.. That when he held her tight and looked into her eyes n proclaimed I DON'T LOVE YOU. YOUR NOBODY....
.What ever it is any self respecting girl would have got crushed with the way he behaved......

She's a girl who was shunned by her own parents..... Adopted by another family but unfortunately there to many time she was made to feel n outsider............

Yes what mishti is doing is not what we expected....... But even after she left for London she knew Abhir dint ever try to enquire how she was.... Did he...... Then how can she be sure what's going on... How will her blind love matter when Abhir killed the love cold bloodedly ..... She just needed and assurance that he still loves her n she got to know it through her way today

Abhir also wished she gets a better man than him.... Really...... So now when she's kinda showing him She's moved on he's getting effected........

She never disrespected or humiliated Abhir the way he did...... Neither she stopped loving him....

When he can put all kinds shades n mask for so called Nanko why can't she put a smiling face......

She did tell nanu that when she saw Abhir after a long time.. He dint show any much expressions n hence her heart broke thinking he really forgot her... Dint love her

Yaar after whatever he did.. He dint even call her not did she get any hint of him even enquiring about her..... She eat in pain n in that when her bade Papa asked her to go to London.. She did... dint Abhir listen to his mom n select naanko... Than I don't think mishti did anything wrong by listning to bade Papa....

Over all of mishti is wrong in not understanding.. Abhir is even more wrong in giving up on things so easily n just sulking

Atleast Mishti kuch tho try karrahi hai

For me both Abhir n Mishti are fool's to just keep saying family family always... Bass

now i see more of everything Anu... see both have their own flaw... whatever it is we can try to understand them that they are behaving like human with mishti's insecurity always and abir needing a push to buck up and start working... we cant expect both to be same mishti is a fighter not giving up on abir easily and abir trusts mish blindly understands her... now she is back to her fighter mode n he needs to try n understand the situation n find a solution to all this...

Anu mishti trusting meenu is not a one time thing if you noticed from start she has always trusted meenu during mishkun time about job, then haldi time she trusted meenu to let shaadi happen after haldi fiasco, now this... mistake and flaw is ok but not repeating the same..

Abir treated nanko as child from beginning not now, he doesnt reprimand him properly whenever he insults mishti or behaves rudely... one time is fine but again n again trying to cover up for him is not done...

mishti being rude n abir being extremely harsh cant be compared Anu as mishti is like that she is always a on face type but abir being harsh is out of character... thats the difference...

mishti cant read like abir reads her even now he failed to do so... and abir cant fight like mishti does until he gets a push which mishti is doing now...

my question how many days will all this flaw go on..

1. what more does abir need to do that he didnt do in 180+ epi for mishti to trust him blindly...

2. What more does abir need to come out of his nanko jhaap and treat him like a grown up...

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

remember their first kaarwa chauth ?? today she ignored this causing Abir huge heart break ....

wow yes my first thought after seeing abir getting both... the old vibes.. ❤️ haa she ignored purposely to trigger abir but then she felt bad too when he walked away from there...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

thanks mini for this.... 🤗 now i'm much cooler and understand both of them yaar...

she is more practical and need proof to believe everything even she didnt get over her bhoj thing until abir made her realize it but still somewhere she still has that problem.. so her trust issue is her flaw... and abir he is more emotional person n as he let her go he believes whatever is shown atleast for himself to believe she moved on but still somewhere it hurts him.. he needs a push always so its his flaw... both of them are trying to be human with flaws.... ufff thanks mini now i'm much ok with both behaving the way they are... 🤗

You are the light of the forum.....🤗 Bad mood doesn't suit you !!!

The problem is we have kept them on a pedestal....I agree they are good together .....but individually they need to work on themselves a lot !!!!

The difference in their personalities had always balanced them...hence we were not able to see their flaws clearly....now it cannot be ignored!!😊

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Are are.. Meri light.. Tu cool hoja......

See from where I see

1. Mishti learnt the hard way to trust.... Same was with Abhir.....

2. The only reason why mishti trusted Meenu is because see had seen the horrendous face of Mehul, n knew Meenu was trying to protect Abhir from this demon. But that time she dint realise she was trading one demon with the other.....

3. Abhir trusted her completely blindly.. Agree....

But the way he broke up, sitting every door she was trying to open what could Mishti do?.... She trusted him hence went back even when he tore the wedding card.. When he told her in fount of all tha YOU LIED YOU BETRAYED......

4. Mishti was angry on him in few occasions but never insulted him in front of his family, or her family... Never looked deep into his eyes and said JUST GET OUT OF MY LIFE I DON'T LOVE YOU... Don't physically manhandle him just to make sure he goes.. Yes she was a little rude in couple of occasions.. But not like how Abhir did....

5. She trusts him, but the way he broke up she was way too shattered...... She did come and say I know you love me.. You dint mean what you said.. That when he held her tight and looked into her eyes n proclaimed I DON'T LOVE YOU. YOUR NOBODY....
.What ever it is any self respecting girl would have got crushed with the way he behaved......

She's a girl who was shunned by her own parents..... Adopted by another family but unfortunately there to many time she was made to feel n outsider............

Yes what mishti is doing is not what we expected....... But even after she left for London she knew Abhir dint ever try to enquire how she was.... Did he...... Then how can she be sure what's going on... How will her blind love matter when Abhir killed the love cold bloodedly ..... She just needed and assurance that he still loves her n she got to know it through her way today

Abhir also wished she gets a better man than him.... Really...... So now when she's kinda showing him She's moved on he's getting effected........

She never disrespected or humiliated Abhir the way he did...... Neither she stopped loving him....

When he can put all kinds shades n mask for so called Nanko why can't she put a smiling face......

She did tell nanu that when she saw Abhir after a long time.. He dint show any much expressions n hence her heart broke thinking he really forgot her... Dint love her

Yaar after whatever he did.. He dint even call her not did she get any hint of him even enquiring about her..... She eat in pain n in that when her bade Papa asked her to go to London.. She did... dint Abhir listen to his mom n select naanko... Than I don't think mishti did anything wrong by listning to bade Papa....

Over all of mishti is wrong in not understanding.. Abhir is even more wrong in giving up on things so easily n just sulking

Atleast Mishti kuch tho try karrahi hai

For me both Abhir n Mishti are fool's to just keep saying family family always... Bass

Cool 👏🥳 Completely agree with all the points that you have written..