Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum Written Updates And Daily Discussions Thread # 8 - Page 40

Originally posted by: armaanasya

I saw yesterday's episode today , which i had skipped, first part in the hall, what lame comical dialogue exchanges are those between sona and sundari🤣

Parvati doesn't "act", she should have said that's fictional me, this is real me, but dialogue is odd🤪

And sundari saying I'm impressed she retorted to my taunts without addressing me😳 first who admits they were taunting?! it's like saying i was rude and I'm impressed she nsulted me with her rude replies. So absurd.

And sona kitna zuban ada rahi thi, to a new house guest?? This is so unreal. Kya bakwas dikha rahe hain.

I also found this weird. Who admits that they were taunting someone? So was it like a test she was giving the new bahu? What nonsense. Why should she have to prove herself like this?

And sona's preachy dialogues..so unreal...how did she come all prepared with what to say? Did she already know that sundari is a sharp-tongued woman? She was meeting her for the first time, has anyone in TV ever heard of small talk or do we all in real life straightaway launch into long dialogues?

Originally posted by: Nimaaa

Ok so i m skipping tomorrow’s episode and i will be here to see what is Rohit’s reaction and based on tht i will decide whether continue watching this track or not

But Yes Rohit was not himself today even YK felt bad by Rohit’s comment to Sona but Rohit himself didn’t realize what he actually said; he was actually upset from Sona and wanted her to initiate the conversation and say sorry (that was so Rohit Sippy of initial episodes where he was taking Sona for granted)

I think if Rohit misbehaves with Sona (which i have no doubt that he will) Sona will be heartbroken and will have hard time forgiving him. Because in Fashion Fiasco she knew that Rohit and her relationship is not so deep but now this girl is counting on their relationship so much and is doing sooooo much for Rohit and to keep his family happy; Rohit not trusting her will create a deep hole in their relationship

Sona is used to this kind of impulsive misbehaving and she doesnt mind them; she had the same experience with Suman where she would badmouth her profession and taunt her for being an actress of television so she took Rohit’s comment the same way as she used to take her mama’s.

The only thing i hate about Sona these days is that she is giving her opinion unnecessarily and in the matters where her opinion is not needed

She could have just stopped talking about this matter once Rohit shut her mouth in the hospital why did she again jumped in Sippy board meeting

I myself am thinking as to whether to continue watching it or not. In the initial days it was okay for Rohit to behave like this because Sona and he were strangers. But today they are married, and Rohit by his own admission is a family guy and Sona is part of his family now.

On the flip side, I remember my initial married days where I was extremely hesitant to voice my opinion in my husband's family matters. It didn't matter that I had kept visiting his family for quite a while before and was on cordial relations with all his family members, I still kept my distance till they got to know me better, understand me better and accept my opinion in its true sense. I still sometimes don't interfere unless I am specifically asked my opinion and then I don't talk about the topic. So yes, in that spirit I think Sona is OTT and her character needs to tame down, like she used to with Suman where she spoke only when required.

Finally Pari. I can't stand that b****. I mean I understand she wanted to take revenge with Pooja but who uses her sister's name to do that? Who does this kind of sh** when you know your sister is newly married and its going to take time for her new family to understand and accept her? Matlab nayi nayi shaadi hui hai aur abhi se unke dimaag mein talaak ke khayal daal do? I think Sitara heads should think about the kind of crappy tracks they are commissioning, jinka reality se koson door koi matlab nahi hai. After IPK this is the first show I watched because I felt this would be something different. Sadly Sandiip Sickand, the team, the channel are all desperate to prove me wrong!! :(

Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

It was not funny. Period. Raman did that and I always hated it, Rohit doing that and I will hate him. Why why again traits of a monster male lead. If Rohit goes on to behave like Raman in future then I am done. I don’t want to watch the same thing packed in a new wrapper.

Hota hai. Gusse mein aadmi kabhi kabhi kuch bhi keh jaata hai. But then he should have realized and tried to apologize to her when he came back to the room. That was unreal. And Sona was behaving like she was absolutely not affected by what Rohit said. If my husband would have said something, I would have disappeared from the house until he realized his mistake and apologized to me.

I think it's ok for Rohit to ask Sona to stay out of the Pooja issue. He should have said it more politely, of course. But if you look at it from Sippy pt of view, It's not even Rohit's personal issue, it is YKs and Nishi's and Pooja's. They may not want it to be discussed with someone who has just entered the family. If Rohit talks about it further with her she can listen but she shouldn't insist or argue that Pooja should be told the truth because that's really not her place unless someone asks her specifically (like DS today did ). After taking her opinion if they all still decide not to tell Pooja that's their right. But butting into the family discussion on day 2 of marriage is not the way to go.

Women should take it slow when they are trying to make their place in the new family. Straightaway interfering in their matters is only going to irritate them. And this doesn't affect her in anyway so its best to stay out of it.

I've realised from personal experience that it's best to stay out of matters in your husband's family where you are not an affected party.

Originally posted by: shrattila

Hota hai. Gusse mein aadmi kabhi kabhi kuch bhi keh jaata hai. But then he should have realized and tried to apologize to her when he came back to the room. That was unreal. And Sona was behaving like she was absolutely not affected by what Rohit said. If my husband would have said something, I would have disappeared from the house until he realized his mistake and apologized to me.

My life is an example..men are *****,selfish and self centred. You can only find 10 % such guys who are honestbin their relationship.

Originally posted by: kar08

I think it's ok for Rohit to ask Sona to stay out of the Pooja issue. He should have said it more politely, of course. But if you look at it from Sippy pt of view, It's not even Rohit's personal issue, it is YKs and Nishi's and Pooja's. They may not want it to be discussed with someone who has just entered the family. If Rohit talks about it further with her she can listen but she shouldn't insist or argue that Pooja should be told the truth because that's really not her place unless someone asks her specifically (like DS today did ). After taking her opinion if they all still decide not to tell Pooja that's their right. But butting into the family discussion on day 2 of marriage is not the way to go.

Women should take it slow when they are trying to make their place in the new family. Straightaway interfering in their matters is only going to irritate them. And this doesn't affect her in anyway so its best to stay out of it.

I've realised from personal experience that it's best to stay out of matters in your husband's family where you are not an affected party.

Pati Kuch nahi bolta hey infact mein kabhi inlaws family matter mein naak nahi gussathi hoon... I dont like to watch dramas like this when its already happening in my life. This serials was good once.

Its making me remind my bad life ..its painful when they treat us like strangers.

Hola ppl... I am back..

I am not married nor have I ever seen(dated) a guy so I can't really tell much.. But the way Rohit spoke to sona was uncalled for.. And then later in the board meeting of sippy, Rohit tells she is family.. I mean itna confusion.. Kyun.. Did he realise what he said to her in hospital?? Coz I didn't see him anywhere realising what he said.. Ulta he comes and throws tantrums at her... The entire reason I couldn't enjoy the blanket pulling or nada lagao thing..and started to find logic of not having extra one... They are not sitting and talking and sorting out things which I find irritating... Yaar baat karo and solve the matter... Jab mooh diya bolne ko toh speak up and solve the matter between two of you.. Baat karna is not shouting.. Can these two not talk like grown ups and resolve come to a decision..

Ofc agar itna logic dekhate toh itv kaise kehlaata!!🤣

Really hope this show gets back soon on it's "reality" track. Particularly Sona's character is getting butchered ! Why is Sona bothered about Naren-Rohit relationship, Pooja knowing that she's adopted ? How come Netra ji didn't schedule her long shoot the next day ? Sona seems to have enough time giving interview at home, preparing meals and dropping into family conversations given her hectic schedule - but is not able to make it on time for her engagement, wedding and dinner with a guest ? Most of us get left out of even important conversations when work gets hectic ...

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

there are few husband who will wanted do that to make wife dissappear from their life foreever.

My life is an example..men are *****,selfish and self centred. You can only find 10 % such guys who are honestbin their relationship.

I agree, lekin ITV mein kuch accha bhi tho dikhao, sensible, mature. Even my 4 year old behaves better than Rohit and Sona did today!! 😔

Originally posted by: shrattila

Hota hai. Gusse mein aadmi kabhi kabhi kuch bhi keh jaata hai. But then he should have realized and tried to apologize to her when he came back to the room. That was unreal. And Sona was behaving like she was absolutely not affected by what Rohit said. If my husband would have said something, I would have disappeared from the house until he realized his mistake and apologized to me.

Well may be it happens. I am not married or in a relationship to vouch for it. It just sounds rude to me, he could have said it more politely. Sona should have behaved properly and showed him the mirror. Anyways I will let it pass. With the increase in trp I can see more drama will be fed to us for the weeks and months. 😲 I am happy the trp has gone up but at the same time I am worried âge Kya hoga ab