Originally posted by: Onyourface
Agree with all your points . The epi was ok types for me too
Bold - that's for sure . Both of them are pretending to be the persons that they are not, showing to the world that they have moved on, and they don't care anymore , it's an act
My question, losing your individual self and putting up an act for the world....is that correct ? Trying to prove that you are strong when actually you are weak .. is that correct?
Losing your individuality whether you are in love or going through a break up , is that correct ? Isse kya message milta hai ...?
I thought since mishbir love phase gave us goals their break up phase will also give us goals ...you know how to deal with break up gracefully .... not liking one changing shades every hour and other one reminding herself again and again that she is 2 0 now ... aisi chize kuhu ko suit karti hai ...because she is so concerned about how people see her ...mishbir kabse duniya ko dikhane ke liye chize karne Lage, I thought wo wahi karte hain jo unhe sahi lagta hai ...ek sahi karna chahta tha ...aur dusri sahi karti thi ...infact in this whole scenario who is gracefully moving on ...giving lessons in the process
That is disappointing, the whole putting up an act for the world is disappointing, because dikhava nahi karte the mishbir unless it's a fake break up , n somewhere there is a huge plan to expose meenu !!
Rant over 😆😆
My jaan Gurujiii
🤗...
Let me say something here which I saw myself.
The toughest phase in your life can change your attitude towards many things...and that is a fact Guruji.
My friend had a low time in her life, but she never let it out....I did ask her one day and all she said is if I break all who are with me and genuinely love me will break, hence I have to be strong. she did show a strong face, in her sadness...but but but......AS and how the time went that strongness became the most SOLID part of her character and she actually became emotionally strong.
Point is some times you tend to put up a mask for the happiness of the people surrounding you, who genuinely love and care for you, and you will not want to drag them in your sorrow unless you trust them so so much that they will get you out of it. or give you a solution. and it is not at all wrong guruji.
What Abhir did to Mishti was absolutely pathetic. but the masked face which he has now isn't wrong, it has come as a package deal😆
Here whom can Abhir depend upon and show his real self???? Will anyone be able to give him a right direction. what good will his crying and showing his true emotions to Nanu, Kunal do????
And Mishti will not want to hurt her adopted family, her bade maa and bade papa with her pain....and she has already cried buckets within on night.
I think right now they are showing angst nicely without being over the top and I am saying this because I have seen horrid ways the shows can take for this. This is just the beginning.I am sure there will be good things coming up
Mishti and Abhir have not yet come out their pain and will never be able to come out of love and want for eachother. I just mentioned why they cannot show their real pain to the family and the world. they are trying to cope up with the biggest pain of their life just by themselves slowly and in this they are acting OTT, acting all indifferent to certain things, Acting all happy and loudly declaring that I AM HAPPY AND CHANGED FOR GOOD is normal. if you hear Sha ka latest IV he has said the same thing. after breakup certain things change, that person changes. Problem is there is no one for Mishti or Abhir with whom they can show their real self now.
Mishti does not want to go to her old self who let Abhir hurt her love and feelings and dreams. She will not let anyone easily now, and she has masked that change. to remind herself and others that she has moved and is trying to change or changed, she is loudly declaring again and again about mishit 2.0.
Abhir stopped writing poems / Shayari, he see's and feels mishit everywhere, has not come out of the shock he gave himself. and because the family members and Nanko should not know the depth of his pain he has put a lot of faces. why will he share the pain with the family for whom he has willingly taken the pain.
I know this may be a typical ITV rout as of now, but the breakup was not typical ITV with hug misunderstanding and OTT drama and all. Abhir was given a hard choice and he selected but his heart isn't forgiving him nor letting him forget his love.
Now when they will come face to face they will wear deeper masks to show each other **I DONT CARE**...and that is when they will be caught by their own heart.
I think this will pick up good in coming episodes😊
Edited by Cool_wonder - 5 years ago
...may be that is helping me here
... Trust me
CID
