Sometimes, it happens with both boys and girls that we won’t have the desired time to grieve for our breakups... to grieve with the family, who is understanding and supporting is different from, to grieve in loneliness in your room day after day, when the room becomes your grieving place and you are returning to your grieving place, and you forget that you are returning to your room and not the grieving place.
When you breakdown alone with no one to lend you their shoulders, then you become bitter, and immune to what is happening around you. You will end up showing a masked face full of happiness to whatever happens around and in front of you. You start to be distant from everything, all you remember is the responsibilities you ought to fulfill. Abir is mature enough to handle himself from such a stage. Mishti was his solace, is and always will be. not sure if CVs would have thought this much for their character, but hoping that they will shape the character in a better way after leap.
When they meet again after this, Abir will be at the same place, where they had parted, the only difference is that he lost all his rights on her. That will stop him from approaching her. But Mishti has no baggage- she can if she wants, not if she doesn’t.
That reminds me of his dialogue “Aaj bahut dinon ke baad chain ki neend soya, tumhare saath.” This parallel will definitely appear.
The day Abir decides to fight back for their relationship with his priorities in right place, honest as usual, Mishti and Bade papa will definitely support him. No way they would have made Bade papa say that “whatever happens, bade papa is sufficient for both Abir and Mishti”
BP’s priority now is Mishti. And he is dealing with it now. So, I don’t blame him. He had seen Mishti cheated and heartbroken at early life, he doesn’t want Mishti to go through the same phase again...