Originally posted by: SP2684
I honestly never saw anything wrong with the “gadhi” or “gadha” being thrown around - whether it’s Paras saying to it Aarti/Sana or Shukla saying it to Asim, etc. - I’ve mostly seen it used to denote “fool” - and I don’t think Paras/Shukla meant otherwise - i.e. to body shame. They say that someone looks like a gadhi/gadha - that’s a different thing.
To me - intent and context matters - Paras playfully teasing Mahira about her lips - which she knows and understands is not meant to be malicious, is different to someone using it to mock and bully. But if he joins the bullying today - he’s just as wrong as the others.
I’ve said Mahira was wrong to call Sana a bhains - but does that mean I think she deserves to get bullied and mocked thus? No.