Kuch Na Kaho - Aa Jao Saarey - Update Page 1 - Page 89

Originally posted by: Jiarao

It's cruel for people like HS . Kuch nahi milta aise logon ko sivaay dukh ke.

Yes for people like HS and for Babita’s of the world. HS apparently doesn’t deserve to live his life happily with his 2nd wife and the new found family, new chances and new hope. Babita tohh doesn’t deserve any happiness. She deserves to disappear from the face of this earth is KK’s narrative because she’s so fcking horrible.

Oh but they couldn’t have shown Babita’s growth and emancipation. These characters are written by the writers. I see no reason for RS to ruin and destroy Babita’s character to this extent.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

It breaks my heart Jean. Lekin main bhi chahti hoon usse mukti mil jaaye. Chala jaaye woh apni Imarti ke paas.

The one person who truly loved him...

NB is gonna be devastated, as is Lala. Oh, I just can't imagine what state they will be in without him.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I understand Life is not a fcuking Laddoo, but Life is not this cruel either.

That's why I'd been wondering if they'd suddenly become influenced by GoT.

Originally posted by: inlieu

The punishment should be proportional to the mistake one makes, but HS has been punished over and over by life. I know the CD thing was really bad but if you look at the big picture and remember ALL the things he did, does he not deserve forgiveness and a proper second chance to rectify thing or at least be given the time to learn?

Adoptive parents? Often they get no recognition, everything they do or say is second-guessed and they always feel insecure about their ability to do enough for their children. Salute to such parents.

1. Woh CD mandap tak kaise pahuncha? Considering Mini was in charge of whole wedding and she was the one to take CD downstairs who else HS should have asked.

2. Aapko chori manne hurt kar sakti hai.

We all know Mini won't think twice before hurting HS for her mother. He isn't completely wrong here.

3. Aaj se main tera baap nahi

I don't know why he said this because he wasn't her father ever. But I noted one thing he didn't say aaj se tu meri beti nahi.

If you look at it like this, HS hasn't done any crime which can't be forgiven. Lekin yahan toh maafi mangne ke bawajood woh gunehgaar hai.😔

Originally posted by: Jiarao

It's cruel for people like HS . Kuch nahi milta aise logon ko sivaay dukh ke.

Yes, and you know what? I have met such people in real life, in my family and outside too. They just give and give and give out of the goodness of their hearts with no expectation, and get nothing in return except heartache.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, and you know what? I have met such people in real life, in my family and outside too. They just give and give and give out of the goodness of their hearts with no expectation, and get nothing in return except heartache.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

If I am remembering correctly then HS spoke only 3 sentences during CD incident.

1. Woh CD mandap tak kaise pahuncha? Considering Mini was in charge of whole wedding and she was the one to take CD downstairs who else HS should have asked.

2. Aapko chori manne hurt kar sakti hai.

We all know Mini won't think twice before hurting HS for her mother. He isn't completely wrong here.

3. Aaj se main tera baap nahi

I don't know why he said this because he wasn't her father ever. But I noted one thing he didn't say aaj se tu meri beti nahi.

If you look at it like this, HS hasn't done any crime which can't be forgiven. Lekin yahan toh maafi mangne ke bawajood woh gunehgaar hai.😔

2. OMG, this line was so true. Always has been and even recently she told him that she only ever loved her Babes - he was the outsider.

3. He never said aaj se main tera baap nahin!

He just said that he had been a fool to think that he could ever become her father the way he had dreamed of whereas Minnie had not wanted him in that role - the CD made him feel that Minnie was missing Ashok at that moment. He understood finally that Minnie had never wanted him as a father as part of this marriage and in general. It really broke him. I was so hoping for him to burst out with all this in front of Minnie so she could understand how hurt he was but as usual, he never really talked about this with anyone.

To be fair to Mini, I don’t think Mini ever wanted HS to be her father. Not before marriage and certainly not after CD incident.

These feelings were in HS’s heart but not in Mini’s. After hospital incident Mini goes and apologizes because she knew that she was wrong. She saw how HS cared for her in the hospital, she was guilty of how she behaved with him. So, she apologized.

Every time HS called her his daughter, she didn’t show that she objected that but she also didn’t call him her father directly. It wasn’t “mere father”, it was always “Beti mante ho na, father ho na”. Mini only loves and cares about her Babes has been established time and again.

She however managed to fool (not necessarily intentionally) both Babita and HS into believing that she wanted a father in HS. She never came clean about her feelings and let them just think that, especially Babita.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

To be fair to Mini, I don’t think Mini ever wanted HS to be her father. Not before marriage and certainly not after CD incident.

These feelings were in HS’s heart but not in Mini’s. After hospital incident Mini goes and apologizes because she knew that she was wrong. She saw how HS cared for her in the hospital, she was guilty of how she behaved with him. So, she apologized.

Every time HS called her his daughter, she didn’t show that she objected that but she also didn’t call him her father directly. It wasn’t “mere father”, it was always “Beti mante ho na, father ho na”. Mini only loves and cares about her Babes has been established time and again.

She however managed to fool (not necessarily intentionally) both Babita and HS into believing that she wanted a father in HS. She never came clean about her feelings and let them just think that, especially Babita.

There's nothing wrong with her not wanting him to be her father. I just think it was a blow for HS to realize that it had been a one-sided wish. His whole world turned upside down then, as though all he had previously experienced was revealed to be a mirage.

The fact that she kept referring to herself as his daughter would make anyone think she wanted the same thing too, as well as moments such as the whole omelette scene. Again, all this goes back to expectations that people have of one another without talking things through.

I do think though that she knew he considered her as his daughter and did want to be her father, but she never realized that it would blow up in their faces. That explains why she had no answer for him in the confrontation about the CD.

Parents find it extremely difficult when their children hate them or don't care about them, but for those in the situation that HS has found himself in, they can't do anything about the fact that the child loves them but perhaps not as a parent. He has learned to accept it but that doesn't mean he will ever be 100% ok with it. That's the thing about parental love - you can't switch it on and off. You can fall out of love with/stop loving a spouse but never your child, which makes his situation all the more tragic.

The irony is that if you put aside the obsession with labels, he's the closest thing to a father that she will ever get. Baap se badh kar, par baap jaisa nahin. She still has some sort of mental block about the role of a father and I think that if ever HS and she were to become father-daughter, it would only be possible once she gets some closure regarding Ashok. Otherwise, she will always have this tees in her heart that she doesn't want to acknowledge.

Originally posted by: inlieu

2. OMG, this line was so true. Always has been and even recently she told him that she only ever loved her Babes - he was the outsider.

3. He never said aaj se main tera baap nahin!

He just said that he had been a fool to think that he could ever become her father the way he had dreamed of whereas Minnie had not wanted him in that role - the CD made him feel that Minnie was missing Ashok at that moment. He understood finally that Minnie had never wanted him as a father as part of this marriage and in general. It really broke him. I was so hoping for him to burst out with all this in front of Minnie so she could understand how hurt he was but as usual, he never really talked about this with anyone.

Koi nahi.....shayad sirf main aur aap aur kuch log yahan. Baaki kisiko kuch padi nahi hai uski.