Suman & Sona talk about Sex Education - Kudos to Sandip Sinkand.. - Page 6

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I don't watch this show, but caught this scene on Hotstar.

Omgg same thoughts. I didn't know Sona was 28. I can't believe they are showing her as a pious virginal woman who will end up loosing her virginity to her husband. Come onnn . She is in the entertainment industry, has had boyfriends, and has never had sex?? This is so unrealistic.

Sex education and all I understand. Its very important for parents to talk to their kids on sex education, but it shouldn't be when they are in their late 20s. Parents should be talking to their kids on sex education when they are teens so that they are aware of consequences, contraceptives, STDs etc. Such a stereotypical scene this was. I can't believe in 2019, they are hesitating to show a woman in her late 20s who's not a virgin. This is exactly whats wrong with Indian TV show... I mean how could a FL not be a virgin? So stereotypical 🤪

Exactly parents should talk to a gal about sex education when they r 14 ..should slap Sona mom for not educating her daughter about sex and sending her to work in tv industry

Here stupid tv show showing Sona mom talking as though she did good ..

If I were her daughter I would have told her ..j never told me when I needed that ..now I don't need what u say .

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

they did'nt show that she had boy friends.she said that she n karan were friends,so they decided to get married.Karan said that she did'nt allow him to touch her.maybe bcz sh did'nt love him or trust him.bcz in the fb scenes they showed him cringy n sona not trusting him properly

Lol u marry friends ...please don't butcher friendships for god sake

U never decide to marry friends all of a sudden one fine morning

Those marriage feelings will be there atleast if he is u r BF for a while

Arranged marriage is a diff thing ..and here it's not at all related to arranged marriage ..

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well I think the issue is not about sonakshi knowing anything about it or not , the thing is , before marriage, it's a good thing that a mother opened up about this thing to her daughter...that was a good message sent..that parents discuss these things ..they must.. at the right age and the right time..

Before marriage not needed .unlesd until u f getting married at 16.when they r in teens sex education needed

If u r saying gal at 25 ..mom giving her sex education is good ..I want to slap those mom's bcis really those gals needed sex education at 14 and their moms skipped it

Avoiding pregnancy STD condoms infections gynics ..should be told at 14 ..not at 20 or 25

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

It is not about sonakshi getting educated.. It's about a mother opening to her kid about such matters which most parents don't do.. It was an initiative to initiate the conversation between a parents and children about sex because no one other than them can give the right information first..

Secondly it is a GIRLS' WISH if she wishes to stay virgin before marriage.. Let it be any kind of close relationship... It is her damn wish and IT IS NOT UNHEALTHY OR UNREALISTIC.. there people for whom emotions and connectivity to soul matters and it is ok if she doesn't want to do anything before marriage.. I mean why can't someone respect a girls wish.. Now that's called consent.. Stopping when when your girl says no for that matter be it a boy or girl.. Ur partners' consent should be the top priority..

U know deepika and ranveer never stayed in a live in relationship... It was confessed by her itself.. What deepika rightly said nd I agree with her cent per cent is if you do everything before marriage what would be left to explore between each other after marriage . .

Why can't you take time to know your partner emotionally so well.. And understanding them and developing an unbreakable trust and belief

Does having a physical relationship only measures the depth of a relationship.??!!. Then I strongly will go against it.. Love, trust, respect should be the first in every relationship and that is depth of any relationship..

Lol do u think really Deepika never had sex ...she was with play boy Vijay malkya son ..and u know how they are ..after that Ranbir Kapoor ..u think she never did any thing with Ranbir 😀

Now I can't believe really people believe the trash she spoke 😆

And ranveer ..deepika hubby who confessed he started having active sex life at 14 ..will be celibate all of a sudden for so many years 😀

Salman told he is a virgin ..yes Salman is a virgin ..now I believe 😆

Right now I believe I should not have entered into the debate itself . Because when the other person is constantly on the grounds to not understand your perspective then it literally makes no sense to me as well.. I never said ur way of looking at it is wrong or right... I am not imposing my opinion on you.. You are free to think whatever you want to.. So am I.. What I meant was you just can't go on with whatever you think.. There are people with different opinions and perspectives.. Learn to respect them also..

Next to reply to @varuni .. I never said pleasuring your own self Is bad.. It's healthy.. All I said was sex is pious and pure and in every relationship let the partners decide on what grounds thier relationship should stand strong.. Nd what makes them stay together... Is it just on the physical grounds or emotions do account in that..

Coming to the show what they are trying to show and what not.... At the end of the day it is fictional and howmuchever they to try to keep it real it will not be.. U r talking of I believing what dp said.. Well then you are believing what sikcand said.. And keeping expectations from the show.. Sikcand and actors have and are trying their level best to bring whatever new possible.. If u r getting bored u r free to stop watching it.. ( trusting on actors and actresses on their saying is not wrong.. Just because you don't think so.. Doesn't mean it's wrong or foolish..let them also know how people trust them.. That's why they are called influencers)

TV creators and producers have to keep in mind about all age groups and potray their scenes.. It is not about just teens and married couples watching.. It's about different age groups watching it.. When no other show takes them of sex they Atleast initiated some kind conversation.. Maybe that could have done in a better but for a show that airs prime time, it was a small step to change ..

We are not the producer nor the actors.. We are just audiences and onlookers.. We don't know what their actual life is and what struggles they face to bring out even the topic of it.. When we are not in that field how can we comment on how something has to be...

For us talking of sex and all maybe common but in case if our grandparents and elderly people it is not, for them a 29year old virgin is possible .... For them losing viginity meant after marriage and for them husband was everything.. U cannot change age old believes just by showcasing it in the TV..

Ps: this is it I am not going to post any further on this page...

In movies n serials its like that.In dil to pagal hai Madhuri agreed to marry her best friend Akshay Kumar.But he was never her boy friend n they never behaved like that.there r many such friends in tv serials

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Lol u marry friends ...please don't butcher friendships for god sake

U never decide to marry friends all of a sudden one fine morning

Those marriage feelings will be there atleast if he is u r BF for a while

Arranged marriage is a diff thing ..and here it's not at all related to arranged marriage ..

Its not that its wrong.But all virgins who marry late may not have done masturbation.Its their wish.If they want they can or if they don't want let it be like that

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

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Why so judgemental about sex .how is it wrong if one is sexually active and even though they r virgins at that age is it wrong to pleasure themselves by masturbation ..

Doesnt gal know her pleasure points by 29 ..really she needs sex education .?? Lol .and she never pleasured herself by 29

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

Its not that its wrong.But all virgins who marry late may not have done masturbation.Its their wish.If they want they can or if they don't want let it be like that

If u don't have sexual feelings till ,29 then u r frigid ..and abnormal and need to consult a psychiatrist. But she is not shown frigid

Or u r in to spiritual journey ..then it's not abnormal

Problem is not it's wrong or right to kiss or to have sex...prob is it ..is it natural or abnormal

.tv shows r showing abnormal cases that's the problem ..in guise of reality

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

In movies n serials its like that.In dil to pagal hai Madhuri agreed to marry her best friend Akshay Kumar.But he was never her boy friend n they never behaved like that.there r many such friends in tv serials

That's the prob we r talking here .tv and nineties movies .r showing abnormal behaviour as normal behaviour and stereotyping it that's the prob

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

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Why so judgemental about sex .how is it wrong if one is sexually active and even though they r virgins at that age is it wrong to pleasure themselves by masturbation ..

Doesnt gal know her pleasure points by 29 ..really she needs sex education .?? Lol .and she never pleasured herself by 29

Exactly. Even if she's not married and a virgin, why would she not know about sex, sexual intercourse, sexual pleasure etc in her late 20s? Highly unrealistic. You find out about these things when you are in your early teens lol. Also, I am sorry but its highly unrealistic for her to be a virgin at this age .

Exactly on sexually pleasuring yourself.. so freaking unrealistic. Come on they wanna tell us she's never masturbated? 🤪