Shukla's Diatribe On Arti - He's a Control Freak

Shukla Has no respect for women, men, friends or anyone. He talks with so disrespect. I don't say he was saying everything wrong to Aarti, but his language, tone, expression & body language everything is so disrespectful that only a doormat can take it.

He is a control freak, destroys one's self respect & takes his/control by stressing on not to use brain & curving independence & finally veiled attack of abandoning if she doesn't listen to him makes him a dangerous friend or companion for anyone. Noted some of his diatribe from yesterday's episode.

1st Time:

Shukla: Yehi problem hain tum logo ki main pehle bata detahoon aur tum aapna demaag chalate ho. Aur tereko kisne bola Asim ko bolne ke liye ....... toh fir kisne bola tumhe aapna demaag chalane? Haan? Haan? Independent ho na tum to yeh independent hain ? He he .......... jab tumhe bola tha woh duniya ko bata ne ke liye nehi bola tha ke tum Asim ko de rahiho aur tinhara smart thinking dikhao .......

2nd Time:

Shukla: Tumhe desperation nehi dikhra hain ... ..

Aarti: Sana said ke Jane de

Shukla: Sana's not with you. Sana's another identity & you are another; Shadow main rehtihain tu. Abhi shadow nehi dikra, ...... abhi shadow main rehna hain ihape? Acha acha to teko kyun jarurat hain kisiki? ..... abhi chup baitho chance Milega toh kuch hoga ...

Shukla thinks he is the winner. But the problem is he is not understanding the BB game. I would be shocked if he wins!!!

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Shukla thinks he is the winner. But the problem is he is not understanding the BB game. I would be shocked if he wins!!!

Hahaha 😆 yes he gives an impression that he knows everything and winning is just a matter of formality 😆

Shukla's overconfidence will drop him down maybe not in game in real life for sure. Salute to Arti for being a doormat. What a shame !! He was talking to her that time as if like he is her master !! Yuck ! He do not have a penny of respect for any woman. Bloody misogynist !! Dikhava karta hai vo sirf that he respects women. Usko bas apni bachhi dikhti hai har jagah and he pretends to respect only those who supports him !! Nonsense !!

Shukla is a fine example of narcissistic personality. And his equation with Aarti serves as a brilliant example of gas lighting. One of the many weapons a Narcissistic personality uses.

First extend support and help to the supposedly weak, make them feel important and happy with that support extended, and then sorta manipulate them by subtly or passive aggressively suggesting withdrawal of support and friendship or abandonment if they choose to use their head or go against their whims or wishes.

Predators of people with low self confidence.

Originally posted by: WhosTheFool

Shukla is a fine example of narcissistic personality. And his equation with Aarti serves as a brilliant example of gas lighting. One of the many weapons a Narcissistic personality uses.

First extend support and help to the supposedly weak, make them feel important and happy with that support extended, and then sorta manipulate them by subtly or passive aggressively suggesting withdrawal of support and friendship or abandonment if they choose to use their head or go against their whims or wishes.

Predators of people with low self confidence.

This is exactly how cults are formed too. Shukla is influential and he is very calculative too. It seems innate to him which is why he seems so clueless when he's questioned.

I'm starting to actually feel sorry for her. With her ugly blue mascara.

Originally posted by: BebaakBegum

This is exactly how cults are formed too. Shukla is influential and he is very calculative too. It seems innate to him which is why he seems so clueless when he's questioned.

Yup. In his head he doesn't see the errors of his actions. I doubt yeh kabhi sudhrega, yaa itni aasani se sudhrega. Very difficult to change one's core personality.

Originally posted by: Pixie98

Shukla's overconfidence will drop him down maybe not in game in real life for sure. Salute to Arti for being a doormat. What a shame !! He was talking to her that time as if like he is her master !! Yuck ! He do not have a penny of respect for any woman. Bloody misogynist !! Dikhava karta hai vo sirf that he respects women. Usko bas apni bachhi dikhti hai har jagah and he pretends to respect only those who supports him !! Nonsense !!

With Arti he doesn't even do that. It's a open disrespect towards her, bcoz she has committed 100% to be with him, even without being asked. That prompted this doormat treatment.

Imagine what he's capable of doing to his wife. Luckily none wanted to marry him so far