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Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

If I remember correctly then HS has himself admitted on making Imarti do his useless Bapu ki seva just because she loved him. Even NB confronted him about that and even Nanu told this.

Idhar maamla sirf ek din ka tha toh I can understand. HS ka lashing out was thoda correct bhi aur thoda wrong bhi 😆

The argument was that Imarti ke sidha karo Hanuman.

So I said what did she do? Did the seva for him.

Kya ukhaad liya usne?

It’s not about headstrong or not. Sometimes you do things for your partner out of Love. Babita could also be doing things for HS out of love.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

What choice did they have? He once told Naeem Bi that he couldn't kick him out. However he was, he was still his father. And if Imarti didn't do his seva, then I doubt his bapu would have rested a day without creating some sort of kalesh in the house. Then of course, there's the matter of log and their baatein.

In regards to his bapu, everything just came down to duty rather than will.

So I am not denying that.

I read that Imarti can sudharo Hanuman so I said even she did seva of his bapu for Hanuman’s sake. Babita also tried doing everything for Chachi about Hanuman’s love.

Sometime you do stuff for your partner’s love. But it shouldn’t become habit and your partner should know you did it just to see them happy and nothing else. You don’t enjoy this and this is just one off.

Babita has long way to go to understand that.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

The argument was that Imarti ke sidha karo Hanuman.

So I said what did she do? Did the seva for him.

Kya ukhaad liya usne?

It’s not about headstrong or not. Sometimes you do things for your partner out of Love. Babita could also be doing things for HS out of love.

But thats exactly what she's doing. Abb isse dumb kehlo ya fir loosing her identity kehlo, dependent kehlo... she is doing this for HS and only HS and because she loves him.

Of course, I agree that she shouldn't be loosing herself and her identity in the name of pyaar and pati.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yes. I read everyday that Hanuman zaher pi raha hai: babita emotionally abuses HAnuman.

LOL. Lo bhai aaj Babita ne zaher piya. Ibb batao ke kare fir?

Dono zeher pi ke zehreele hojaenge aur kuch der baad aakal ayegi and will be back to normal 😆

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

But thats exactly what she's doing. Abb isse dumb kehlo ya fir loosing her identity kehlo, dependent kehlo... she is doing this for HS and only HS and because she loves him.

Of course, I agree that she shouldn't be loosing herself and her identity in the name of pyaar and pati.

But that’s the journey. Use yehi to samajna hai. And she will by the end of it.

Ibb pura track toh ek episode mein khatam nahi ho sakta na.

Ok... Secondly they r the leads so they had to get married.... Fair enough🤣

Originally posted by: naq5

yes but giving that leeway to allow others to hurt you is wrong. if you are too dependent on a person he /she will take you for granted

not comparing HS babita situation here but the first thing that men do is crippling a womans financial independence. after that it is very easy to keep them toed into what they want and say. If a woman has financial independence then she will not tolerate anything and have a mind of her own. Men want to control that

Yes but HS is not that person. He doesn’t want to cripple Babita financially.

Earlier she was kirayedarni and he liked her from afar. Her working woman status didn’t affect him. He doesn’t have prior experience of wife as working woman either. Imarti was housewife.

So Hanuman doesn’t understand the seriousness and small things about having a working woman wife. But that’s the thing he has to learn and both have to grow together.

Marriage is a work in progress. It’s not a one day job. Eventually they will find a balance. Right now they are struggling but this is the part and parcel of being married.

Originally posted by: tantal

HS told babita that he pretended to be close to Minnie to impress Babita. I am thinking that he pretended to be this magnanimous, forward-thinking, progressive man too to impress her.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Aree people say na Babita doesn't deserve HS and blah blah blah.. ussi context mein baat karrahe hain log.

Mere hisaab se toh they actually deserve each other. I have always said this they deserve each other like no other.. Khudh hi log HS ko channe ke jhaad mein chadate hain 😆

Maybe somebody complained KK that Babita is not deserving partner for HS so instead of some development in Babita's character our clever Kk decided to ruin HS character to make Babita deserving partner for him😆

Originally posted by: Resham

Ok... Secondly they r the leads so they had to get married.... Fair enough🤣

I know. Kitna bhi khoon Jalao. They are IT for each other. 🤣