Expecting Too Much - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 14

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Mainn toh hamesha kehti hoon they deserve each other more than anything. She has ego, he has ego, he does her ji huzuri, she wants to appease him. Dono same hai. 😃

true😆 now even i feel they deserve each other

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

the first time Hanuman’s under the radar and comes out deserving part.

I bet nobody bets an eyelid when Babita is called undeserving of Hanuman and that she emotionally abuses HS and Mini. Now that kinda extreme I read every other day in the forum. woh sab chalta hai. Bhai HS ko kuch Mat kehna. 😆

Though I agree with you. They both deserve each other. Thru your post I was ranting about the extremes I read and eye roll.

Lol. Exactly.

Main toh keh keh ke thak gayi that they both deserve each other. They both deserve love and to be with each other after years of loneliness. Dono pyar bhi karte hain ek dusre ko.. ainvai such extreme reactions on how Babita doesn't deserve HS, or she doesn't care about him and all.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

the first time Hanuman’s under the radar and comes out deserving part.

I bet nobody bets an eyelid when Babita is called undeserving of Hanuman and that she emotionally abuses HS and Mini. Now that kinda extreme I read every other day in the forum. woh sab chalta hai. Bhai HS ko kuch Mat kehna. 😆

Though I agree with you. They both deserve each other. Thru your post I was ranting about the extremes I read and eye roll.

Babita ko selfish, self centered, immature, undeserving, unworthy, dumb, selfish maa jise apni beti ki fikr nhi hai, some said Minnie deserves a better mother😃, egoistic to wo hai hi aur chahe jo kehna hai keh lo par bhaiya HS ko kuchh mat kehna. 😃

Wo kuch galat bhi kare to bhi log usme positive dhundh hi lenge.

Babita bashing to har dusre din ki kahani hai. Jab Babita kuchh kare to its about depth of the character😆. She has been always like this aur Jab HS kuchh kare to its writers fault. Waah bhai waah ..kisi character se pyar ho to aisa 👏

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Babita ko toh roj undeserving bola jata hai.. tab kaha rehte ho aap log. 😆

Hum to bhai tab bhi yahi the aur bola tha ki deserving thing shouldn't come here...

I am not a HS lover... I love all of them and also bash all of them just like NB ke gaali.... 😆

Originally posted by: tantal

This X 10000

Babita gets raked over the coals for every action or inaction. HS has a halo which is not allowed to be tarnished. The point is.. people constantly ask what did HS see in Babita to marry her. Well.. it is coming out that HS may not have the real knight in shining armor after all. He has like 4-5 out of the seven deadly sins. Both babita and HS are flawed, imperfect people. HS didn't do babita favor by marrying her and neither did Babita. IF anything, it is a marriage of equals.. two people with huge emotional baggage and plenty of character flaws.

Yes. I read everyday that Hanuman zaher pi raha hai: babita emotionally abuses HAnuman.

LOL. Lo bhai aaj Babita ne zaher piya. Ibb batao ke kare fir?

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yes. I read everyday that Hanuman zaher pi raha hai: babita emotionally abuses HAnuman.

LOL. Lo bhai aaj Babita ne zaher piya. Ibb batao ke kare fir?

Sab ke sab shiv ji ban gaye hai.... 😆

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Imarti ke bare mein what do we know?

2 days was spent on her. We know things about her — those were described by Hanuman only.

Itni sahi thi Imarti yet Hanuman made her do seva of his drunken bapu.

Kya ukhaad liya Imarti ne?

What choice did they have? He once told Naeem Bi that he couldn't kick him out. However he was, he was still his father. And if Imarti didn't do his seva, then I doubt his bapu would have rested a day without creating some sort of kalesh in the house. Then of course, there's the matter of log and their baatein.

In regards to his bapu, everything just came down to duty rather than will.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Imarti ke bare mein what do we know?

2 days was spent on her. We know things about her — those were described by Hanuman only.

Itni sahi thi Imarti yet Hanuman made her do seva of his drunken bapu.

Kya ukhaad liya Imarti ne?

If I remember correctly then HS has himself admitted on making Imarti do his useless Bapu ki seva just because she loved him. Even NB confronted him about that and even Nanu told this.

Idhar maamla sirf ek din ka tha toh I can understand. HS ka lashing out was thoda correct bhi aur thoda wrong bhi 😆

Originally posted by: naq5

yes but giving that leeway to allow others to hurt you is wrong. if you are too dependent on a person he /she will take you for granted

not comparing HS babita situation here but the first thing that men do is crippling a womans financial independence. after that it is very easy to keep them toed into what they want and say. If a woman has financial independence then she will not tolerate anything and have a mind of her own. Men want to control that

I have always believed that. Financial stability is a huge factor.

Originally posted by: tantal

This X 10000

Babita gets raked over the coals for every action or inaction. HS has a halo which is not allowed to be tarnished. The point is.. people constantly ask what did HS see in Babita to marry her. Well.. it is coming out that HS may not have the real knight in shining armor after all. He has like 4-5 out of the seven deadly sins. Both babita and HS are flawed, imperfect people. HS didn't do babita favor by marrying her and neither did Babita. IF anything, it is a marriage of equals.. two people with huge emotional baggage and plenty of character flaws.

Exactly!!!

This why did he get married to her funda I don't understand. Clearly there was a lot of attraction that later turned into love from both sides. It wasn't a one sided love from just HS's side.

No one did favor on each other by marrying. You are right.. they both come with huge emotional baggage. Actually, both can understand each other more than anyone else would have been able to.