Minnie's Father, From Ashok to HS - Page 13

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I feel in the process of proving something to himself, it will evolve HS for the better....calm some storms inside him.....that is what would make him a better person.

As for Babita....it's not just about her feeling assured that HS can handle THEIR daughter....I feel seeing HS as a father will actually genuinely connect Babita to him on a deeper emotional level....which can set the basis for her finally learning to look beyond her own issues and try to connect to his pain as well.

This marriage is not a springboard for Babita to only take care of herself and her dreams.....uske liye she didn't need to get married.....she could have lived her life on her own terms. In a marriage, there is partnership....it demands that she think of HS's wishes, hopes, dreams too alongside her own.....which she currently really isn't being able to.

I hope this does happen to Babita, otherwise she will miss out on this journey of being a co-parent too with HS. Maybe this is indeed going to open her eyes up to where he's coming from.

So much potential.

Let's see what tadka this Chachi brings.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I hope this does happen to Babita, otherwise she will miss out on this journey of being a co-parent too with HS. Maybe this is indeed going to open her eyes up to where he's coming from.

So much potential.

Let's see what tadka this Chachi brings.

If Chachi gives us some development on the HS-Mini front, I'll even tolerate some of the saas-bahu drama😆

Aww I forgot this parallel existed.....lol arey yeh bhi HS Mini ko pehle bol chuka hai......"This is just between me and Veer Balika....Mothers not allowed"😆

Yeah he said it just to behlaao her back then but baat toh sach hi hai.....and what a parallel now for Mini to repeat kinda the same thing back to him...."Strictly between you and me, bas".

This was a very sweet scene overall waise in HS-Babita trying to co-parent but Mini being the smart kid that she is could see through their attempt to behlaao her.

I wish they could all find their way back to this dynamic....kitna sweet tha.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Aww I forgot this parallel existed.....lol arey yeh bhi HS Mini ko pehle bol chuka hai......"This is just between me and Veer Balika....Mothers not allowed"😆

Yeah he said it just to behlaao her back then but baat toh sach hi hai.....and what a parallel now for Mini to repeat kinda the same thing back to him...."Strictly between you and me, bas".

This was a very sweet scene overall waise in HS-Babita trying to co-parent but Mini being the smart kid that she is could see through their attempt to behlaao her.

I wish they could all find their way back to this dynamic....kitna sweet tha.

Yeah but there has been a loss of innocence for Minnie and in some ways for HS too.

The between you and me dialogue came first from HS in the hospital scene, right?

I agree this time round mothers should not be allowed.

In fact, all three of them should have independent equations with each other and then a separate dynamic as a family.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah but there has been a loss of innocence for Minnie and in some ways for HS too.

The between you and me dialogue came first from HS in the hospital scene, right?

I agree this time round mothers should not be allowed.

In fact, all three of them should have independent equations with each other and then a separate dynamic as a family.

That's what they used to have during the "live in" phase before shaadi😆.....this is exactly why I fell in love with PB.....I used to gush and rave about how nicely those independent equations had been developed while still developing the overall family dynamic.....phir shaadi ho gayi and sab poof😆

Anyways, let's see if the writers can get them back to that zone.

I agree with you otherwise about a loss of innocence in a sense for both HS and Mini.....now they are both more wary for various reasons.....but when they first approached each other, there was no baggage with each other....so that innocence was there....now they do have baggage with each other so that factors in.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That's what they used to have during the "live in" phase before shaadi😆.....this is exactly why I fell in love with PB.....I used to gush and rave about how nicely those independent equations had been developed while still developing the overall family dynamic.....phir shaadi ho gayi and sab poof😆

Anyways, let's see if the writers can get them back to that zone.

I agree with you otherwise about a loss of innocence in a sense for both HS and Mini.....now they are both more wary for various reasons.....but when they first approached each other, there was no baggage with each other....so that innocence was there....now they do have baggage with each other so that factors in.

As much as I hate seeing them in this state, I think having some obstacles in their way will make their journey that much more interesting to watch and their reaching their destination even more rewarding.

Originally posted by: inlieu

As much as I hate seeing them in this state, I think having some obstacles in their way will make their journey that much more interesting to watch and their reaching their destination even more rewarding.

Yes, it's hard to see them in their current state but we get a rewarding journey overall, toh yeh bhi seh lenge.....lol

I wonder if in hindsight, these epis won't feel as torturous to revisit if we get a good culmination in terms of the father-daughter arc😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, it's hard to see them in their current state but we get a rewarding journey overall, toh yeh bhi seh lenge.....lol

I wonder if in hindsight, these epis won't feel as torturous to revisit if we get a good culmination in terms of the father-daughter arc😆

Every little bit adds up.

I just hope it won't end in tragedy.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Every little bit adds up.

I just hope it won't end in tragedy.

Already itni tragedy chal rahi hai....aur kitni daalenge? Please let there be light at the end of the tunnel *touchwood*

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Already itni tragedy chal rahi hai....aur kitni daalenge? Please let there be light at the end of the tunnel *touchwood*

Yes please. My biggest fear is that it ends up like Amar Prem.