New promo in sony Liv app regarding babita changing surname - Page 52

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Frankly speaking, no idea.... misleading content? Is that an option? Cause Twitter is the only way we can vent out our frustration, and they're snowflake about that as well

OMG that will be huge. I don't think Twitter will take any action against a PH lol.

And matters aren't that bad. There are far worse yet appreciated things out there in ITV.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

OMG that will be huge. I don't think Twitter will take any action against a PH lol.

And matters aren't that bad. There are far worse yet appreciated things out there in ITV.

I know but I'm just frustrated right now. I'll get over it in few hours. Don't get me started on the rest of the shows. Facepalm pe facepalm moments dikhate Hain. I watched an episode of divyadrashti to be honest. And that drove me back to PB. So...

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, yeah even if it's a husband like HS.

I also don't understand the concept because we don't have it in my family but I get that it might be cultural in other families. As long as women have the right to not change the name if they don't want to then I'm fine, otherwise it is indeed a patriarchal thing.

But how do we know that the women who are ok with changing their surnames have not been fed patriarchal views from childhood hence their thinking that it ok. If it is a common thing fed over the years as you are brought up, then again the choice is really not theirs. And yes surname changing is such a common thing everywhere people dont even think it screeches patriarchy

And the thinking that my husband loves me so i should change my name for him is crap. if your husband loves and cares for you then you should be loving and caring for him in return. surname change karke kaun sa pyar jataya jaata hai. Babita dosent understand HS on a basic level also right now and she wants to take up his name

Can anyone post the link as I am unable to view it.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Aap na, dil le lo 🤗

Dil khush kar diya aap ne to.

I agree, a real confrontation is needed with lots of dhamaaka, whether it's screaming and shouting or tons of rona dhona, or both. I don't care, but it should happen. We've been wanting it for ages but they haven't given us anything proper yet, just bits and pieces.

Minnie Babita Singh... Hmmm kab ayega woh din? Again, I would also want both Babita and Minnie to take HS' name of her own will, not because of any pressure.

A real confrontation is the need of the hour. Let her tell him, he is not her hero anymore and he lost her respect when he doubted her. Let him tell her how he felt when the CD played and how her words broke his heart, how much he needs her and how much he loves her .Tell her , he is keeping his promise of making her mother happy despite not getting any emotional support. I will start watching again when this happens.

As for taking name, it should be their choice ofcourse . But I will be really happy if it happens. It will give him the much needed feeling of security to know the two people he loves the most are his forever. Again this should happen only if Babitha and Mini want it.

I have a few complaints regarding Mini's idea of empowerment though. It looks more like controlling Babitha's life rather than empowering her. If she wants to lose her identity, let her. I want Babitha to do what she thinks is right and not what Mini thinks is right. Babitha can make mistakes here and lose everything but she will learn.

I also feel some of Mini's insecurities stem from not being able to control Babes life like before. I felt this during CD fiasco.I feel Mini's hurt for her grandparents was also because the fact that Babitha lashed out without Mini telling her to do so. I still remember her restlessness when Babitha didn't discuss about sending Ashok away. She should learn to let Babitha go and learn her lessons hard way.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I know but I'm just frustrated right now. I'll get over it in few hours. Don't get me started on the rest of the shows. Facepalm pe facepalm moments dikhate Hain. I watched an episode of divyadrashti to be honest. And that drove me back to PB. So...

DivyaDrishti hahahahahaaha🤣🤣

LMAO. I gave up on that long ago.

Yeah I totally understand 🤗

Koi nahi idhar der hai andher nahi ;)

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

OMG that will be huge. I don't think Twitter will take any action against a PH lol.

And matters aren't that bad. There are far worse yet appreciated things out there in ITV.

Yes, it will.

Phir to aadhe se zyaada ITV shows/PHs will come under fire.

Actually KK might even consider it a blessing in disguise as they will no longer have to listen to/read people's complaints after removing SM presence. 🤣

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I know but I'm just frustrated right now. I'll get over it in few hours. Don't get me started on the rest of the shows. Facepalm pe facepalm moments dikhate Hain. I watched an episode of divyadrashti to be honest. And that drove me back to PB. So...

@bold, sab ka yehi haal hai behen. And KK knows it too that the audience will not like anything else after watching this show.

Originally posted by: naq5

But how do we know that the women who are ok with changing their surnames have not been fed patriarchal views from childhood hence their thinking that it ok. If it is a common thing fed over the years as you are brought up, then again the choice is really not theirs. And yes surname changing is such a common thing everywhere people dont even think it screeches patriarchy

And the thinking that my husband loves me so i should change my name for him is crap. if your husband loves and cares for you then you should be loving and caring for him in return. surname change karke kaun sa pyar jataya jaata hai. Babita dosent understand HS on a basic level also right now and she wants to take up his name

That's what I mean, that changing a surname should not be expected of a woman. It must be her choice.

As for Babita, she's doing what she can to hold on to HS and not let him go. Maybe this is her way of feeling more comfortable. I don't know, let's see how it plays out.

In my family we never change surnames. I never saw or heard of this growing up until I started interacting with other people and found out there was such a thing.

I respect people's decisions but personally it's an alien concept to me. Even the men in my family would think you're weird if you changed your name after marriage, and some of them will be like - "Don't dump these western ideas on us. Women should be known by the names their parents gave them and not by their husband's name, etc." 😃

Then again people could argue that women in my family don't have the freedom to change their surnames, etc. even though there's no rule against it among us. LOL. The point is that even the women who marry into my family sometimes are a bit surprised to see this because some of them do come from families where surname change is common or expected.

We talk about Babita learning to give Minnie space, but Minnie needs to give her mother some space too so that both of them can have their forward spirals.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Thank you Jean.🤗

A real confrontation is the need of the hour. Let her tell him, he is not her hero anymore and he lost her respect when he doubted her. Let him tell her how he felt when the CD played and how her words broke his heart, how much he needs her and how much he loves her .Tell her , he is keeping his promise of making her mother happy despite not getting any emotional support. I will start watching again when this happens.

As for taking name, it should be their choice ofcourse . But I will be really happy if it happens. It will give him the much needed feeling of security to know the two people he loves the most are his forever. Again this should happen only if Babitha and Mini want it.

I have a few complaints regarding Mini's idea of empowerment though. It looks more like controlling Babitha's life rather than empowering her. If she wants to lose her identity, let her. I want Babitha to do what she thinks is right and not what Mini thinks is right. Babitha can make mistakes here and lose everything but she will learn.

I also feel some of Mini's insecurities stem from not being able to control Babes life like before. I felt this during CD fiasco.I feel Mini's hurt for her grandparents was also because the fact that Babitha lashed out without Mini telling her to do so. I still remember her restlessness when Babitha didn't discuss about sending Ashok away. She should learn to let Babitha go and learn her lessons hard way.

Yeh to kamaal hi ho jayega if they show this.

As for Minnie, I remember some time back that either Mickey or Preeti had called her a control freak. Yes, she is wise in many ways but her idea of emancipatio😳n is not always broad enough. She tends to think that not being tied by bonds will give Babita that, but that's not quite true. I understand where her fear comes from but I also think that in some ways her loss of trust in HS might have made her a bit insecure about Babita's future with him.

Do you remember NB's great example about Babita needing someone to hold on to the spool with a loose enough string as she soars like a kite, rather than being a kite without a string that floats aimlessly? I don't have the exact wording but this is the meaning of emancipation. If you break free completely you will be isolated. You need to have close bonds with people you love and want to be with but at the same time those bonds should be strong enough to let you wander without breaking them.

Also, do you remember what HS was teaching Minnie about Babita's decision whether she wants someone in her life or not? The fact that she didn't need a man for financial security and was independent enough to look after her daughter and herself, and that a life partner was for emotional support? Minnie hadn't quite understood that, but when she found out that Babita was also in love with HS, she wanted to do whatever she could to make her mother happy, whether she fully understood HS' words or not.

That's what I meant in another post that I'd like Minnie to learn something for a change. Nowadays even HS is not there to explain such things as he would have in the past. Perhaps NB or even Chachi?

By the way, it's a bit late to be asking this but what's your name?