Originally posted by: Jiarao
Thank you Jean.🤗
A real confrontation is the need of the hour. Let her tell him, he is not her hero anymore and he lost her respect when he doubted her. Let him tell her how he felt when the CD played and how her words broke his heart, how much he needs her and how much he loves her .Tell her , he is keeping his promise of making her mother happy despite not getting any emotional support. I will start watching again when this happens.
As for taking name, it should be their choice ofcourse . But I will be really happy if it happens. It will give him the much needed feeling of security to know the two people he loves the most are his forever. Again this should happen only if Babitha and Mini want it.
I have a few complaints regarding Mini's idea of empowerment though. It looks more like controlling Babitha's life rather than empowering her. If she wants to lose her identity, let her. I want Babitha to do what she thinks is right and not what Mini thinks is right. Babitha can make mistakes here and lose everything but she will learn.
I also feel some of Mini's insecurities stem from not being able to control Babes life like before. I felt this during CD fiasco.I feel Mini's hurt for her grandparents was also because the fact that Babitha lashed out without Mini telling her to do so. I still remember her restlessness when Babitha didn't discuss about sending Ashok away. She should learn to let Babitha go and learn her lessons hard way.
Yeh to kamaal hi ho jayega if they show this.
As for Minnie, I remember some time back that either Mickey or Preeti had called her a control freak. Yes, she is wise in many ways but her idea of emancipatio😳n is not always broad enough. She tends to think that not being tied by bonds will give Babita that, but that's not quite true. I understand where her fear comes from but I also think that in some ways her loss of trust in HS might have made her a bit insecure about Babita's future with him.
Do you remember NB's great example about Babita needing someone to hold on to the spool with a loose enough string as she soars like a kite, rather than being a kite without a string that floats aimlessly? I don't have the exact wording but this is the meaning of emancipation. If you break free completely you will be isolated. You need to have close bonds with people you love and want to be with but at the same time those bonds should be strong enough to let you wander without breaking them.
Also, do you remember what HS was teaching Minnie about Babita's decision whether she wants someone in her life or not? The fact that she didn't need a man for financial security and was independent enough to look after her daughter and herself, and that a life partner was for emotional support? Minnie hadn't quite understood that, but when she found out that Babita was also in love with HS, she wanted to do whatever she could to make her mother happy, whether she fully understood HS' words or not.
That's what I meant in another post that I'd like Minnie to learn something for a change. Nowadays even HS is not there to explain such things as he would have in the past. Perhaps NB or even Chachi?
By the way, it's a bit late to be asking this but what's your name?
Edited by inlieu - 6 years ago
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