A Wish Too Late? - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 26

Originally posted by: inlieu

And the following line when he said something like, aur main thehra mard.

LOL! He was so direct and honest there. 🤣

HS is not one to mince words. Banda direct baat karta hai

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, when HS was scolding Khatri "tu maa chhedta hai?" he definitely didn't imagine Veer Balika's mother to be so young. 😉

🤣 I want that Hs back.

Today when Mini was lying to Dadu Biji that Hanuman uncle ne itna hasaya ki hamare to pet mein dard hone lag gaya.

I was like.. kaha hai woh wala funny, charming, mehfil ki jaan Hanuman.

Like Mini told him — Hanuman uncle aap na boring ho gaye ho.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Do you remember the first time he told her she was beautiful, as he was standing on the stairs, when he was warning her against imposters online? Hilarious scene. I loved their dynamics there! Kahan gaye woh din.

Agar aapko lagta hai ki mujhe bura lagega.. toh aap aisi baat mujhse keh hi kyu rahe ho.

Yo bhi sahi hai. Aapke naaraz hone ka risk kyun le. *turns around to go*

Ab risk le hi liya hai toh aazma ke bhi dekh lijiye.

Awww I recently re-watched ep 125 to 135. Golden PB.

Originally posted by: inlieu

And the following line when he said something like, aur main thehra mard.

LOL! He was so direct and honest there. 🤣

🤣 Sidhi baat no bakwaas.

Naa. Mana mat karna.. aapki toh aankhen padh leta hoon ji mein.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thanks Gur 🤗.

I noticed this too but am so afraid to analyze it. Once upon a time, I knew exactly what those subtleties were about but now I feel like whatever I say, I will feel like a fool. To start off:

1. The photo connecting HS and Minnie to each other is missing, and she's standing alone in that gap.

2. She is na ghar ki na ghaat ki, somewhere in limbo.

3. She no longer feels Imarti's essence or has her legacy or whatever? Not in HS' life or in general?

That scene made me feel so many things but I don't feel confident in describing it as I once used to. To think I used to write such detailed analysis per episode of this show. Wow!

What was your interpretation?

You're most welcome! 🤗

Aww, please don't be scared. I still love reading your thoughts regardless of what the show does. It's always very insightful for me and I love to see what I failed to pick up on. 😳

I'm going to break it down in two parts - Imarti & Babes.

Imarti

1. HS & Imarti: HS has said multiple times that Imarti resides in him. He has also taken up her way of life as a way of honoring her post her death. It's admirable and it most likely influences his "No Woman Shall Cry" philosophy as well. However, because he has gotten so caught up in doing right by one woman, he's failing to see how his actions are hurting another. We already know that he's heavily reminded of his mother whenever he sees Babita. Whether it's the eyes, or her motherly nature, he's reminded of the first woman he ever came to love. We're also well aware of the stressful relationship he had with her. There is so much that went unsaid, so many things that he wished to do but never got to. Babita in some ways, is his second chance in rectifying his past mistakes. Whether it was his failure to stand up for his mother towards her abuser, or failing to save Imarti from any and all dangers; he's treating Babita as his one chance to prove something to himself. Perhaps that he's not a helpless coward? That he too is capable of protecting his loved one regardless of the obstacles that are posed against him? Not entirely sure to what extent, but he is in some ways using Babita to heal himself in whatever way he can.

In the midst of all that, he's neglecting Minnie big time. Whether he sees himself in her or he simply connected to her due to their shared tumultuous relationship with their respective parents, he is repeating history here to a certain extent. In his case, one parent was abusive and such, he never could get close to them in a way that he would have liked to. He was always shut off to them in some form; whether it was his mother trying to protect him from his violent dad, or his dad's violent tendencies pushing him away, the fact of the matter is that he never got to completely be with a parent. The same thing is happening with Minnie. She never got to be with a father and hence doesn't know what it's like to be around one. Though she had a mother, it was Minnie who felt like she had to play the role and teach Babes how to not only stand on her own two feet, but also how to fly. Now that her Babes had gotten married, she had in some ways hoped that she could finally be who she was always meant to be - Babita's daughter. There were instances where this could have happened but whether it was through HS' interference or Babes' own conservative thinking, Minnie ended up feeling farther away from both parents. Initially she had one, but now in some ways, she feels like she has none. She may have turned eighteen, but the yearn to just be a child must be strong within her.

2. Imarti & Minnie: It's often said that Imarti's essence resides within Minnie. Even HS has gone as far as saying that if Imarti and he ever had a child, then it would be Minnie. Heck, the love and connection that Minnie herself has felt with Imarti was so strong that she conjured up her spirit during the Uptan ceremony and danced with her. It ended with a highly beautiful moment where Imarti kissed Minnie's forehead as if she was passing on the torch to her. Giving her blessings with how pleased she is of Minnie and how she wishes nothing but peace and prosperity on her and the people residing in the Haveli.

You had compared Imarti's looking at the Haveli for one last time with Minnie looking around and taking everything in with a brand new set of eyes when she was given her Grah Pravesh. This Haveli has meant something incredibly meaningful to both the women: one was devastated to leave as she knew it would be her last day if she did, while the other wanted nothing more than to be welcomed into it and have a permanent place there. Now, they exist in a strange limbo where though they reside in the Haveli (one in an abstract form and the other more concrete), they don't exactly have a solid foot in the place. They simply exist like an after thought.

Babes

1. Babes & Minnie: It's not a secret that things are tense between Minnie and Babes at the moment. When she had written in her diary about us being a sum total of our memories, it was partially true. Yes, a large part of us is composed of her past and the actions we make in the present are contingent upon what has happened to us before. We make informed decisions based off of what we already know. However, we are also made up of hopes and dreams for a brighter future. If things are going bad today, then we can wish for a greater day. If she and Babes aren't on speaking terms, then that silence will have to break one day.

Minnie had also said that she sees Babes differently now. Whether it's her own POV or if it's Babes herself, she doesn't know. I think it's a bit of both. Babes is changing as she's relishing being a wife - a role that she never really got to play around with as extensively as she wished to. However, Minnie is also growing and has in fact grown a lot in the past one year. She's not going to be the same child anymore who saw things with rose tinted glasses. She's going to see the harsh realities of the world and learn how to deal with some extremely difficult people and their differing point of views. She will have to learn that not everyone thinks like her, not even her Babes. Though it was out for survival, she had begun to micromanage every little aspect of her Babes' life so that she doesn't get hurt as viciously as she did via Ashok. It was admirable at first but then it ran the risk of being toxic and unhealthy. What Minnie needs at the moment is to give herself and Babes some space and figure out what kind of relationship she wants with her going forward. Minnie can't revert back to a child since intellectually, emotionally and physically, she has grown way past that. What they can have is a more amicable relationship. One where they truly share each other's pains and comforts without holding back. If feelings get hurt, then they get hurt, but there also needs to be reassurance that there is immense love at the end of the day. There needs to be an indication that despite the differences between us, we are still in this together. I have not forgotten you and never will.

2. Babes & HS: The two separate photographs represent two different pasts coming together: HS' and Babes'.

For HS, it's easy for him to bring Imarti along since she's not alive. She lives on in his heart and in his philosophies. Moreover, both Babita and Minnie have welcomed her into their lives with open arms and have given her a tremendous amount of respect. Minnie however, is a living person. She's flesh and blood who has her own aspirations in life and is prone to get hurt when things don't necessarily go her way. HS has accepted Babita with open arms, but he hasn't really accepted Minnie. If he truly had, then he wouldn't feel so resistant to open up to her like he did once before. He wouldn't let his insecurities of losing her completely get in the way of showering her with the love and affection as he once used to.

Babita is Minnie's mother and hence shouldn't be placed in this position but there are a lot of things about Minnie that she isn't accepting either. Whether it's her being best friends with Mickey or Minnie's increased time with the Khuranas', Babita is placing a lot of restrictions on Minnie now which she necessarily didn't do before. Even if she would have still had these issues with Minnie, her approach to her has been completely wrong. She is failing to see a lot of aspects to Minnie such as the fact that she's an adult now and should be treated as such. If Babita can't tolerate being humiliated or degraded in public, then it's not right for her to do the same to Minnie either. Her Minnie is changing and is going to keep changing and this is something that Babita will have to learn how to accept.

HS

Needless to say, the most important equation missing from this scenario is her and HS'. Where do they both stand in all of this?

It was because of Minnie that the locked chest was finally opened. It was because of that open chest, that the photo of Imarti & HS could finally be hung up on the wall. It was also because of Minnie's arrest that they ever got to meet HS and get the offer of staying at his Haveli. It was because of her that HS & Babita's relationship ever got to exist in the first place.

Minnie has played an extremely vital role in HS' life and while it's not always necessary to have tangible proofs, the fact remains that HS & Minnie need one. Whether it's a verbal conversation, or something more concrete like the passing on of keys, trust, faith and love needs to be actualized for them again. Until they have this, that space in the wall has the potential of forming cracks as wide as the canyons.

Originally posted by: shazam1

HS is not one to mince words. Banda direct baat karta hai

The best was—

Kya chahiye aapko..

Aapne pata hai..

Direct. To the point! And his wife knows so, she closed the door beforehand.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Do you remember the first time he told her she was beautiful, as he was standing on the stairs, when he was warning her against imposters online? Hilarious scene. I loved their dynamics there! Kahan gaye woh din.

It was 😆...I can't forget the way he unplugged the modem connection, so casually lol

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Agar aapko lagta hai ki mujhe bura lagega.. toh aap aisi baat mujhse keh hi kyu rahe ho.

Yo bhi sahi hai. Aapke naaraz hone ka risk kyun le. *turns around to go*

Ab risk le hi liya hai toh aazma ke bhi dekh lijiye.

Awww I recently re-watched ep 125 to 135. Golden PB.

Funniest was when he was saying someone online might tell her she was beautiful which wasn't true. Then the look on his face when he realized what he said and told her, no she was beautiphul, bohot hi khoobsoorat. LOL!

Aniruddh was damn good in that scene.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

🤣 I want that Hs back.

Today when Mini was lying to Dadu Biji that Hanuman uncle ne itna hasaya ki hamare to pet mein dard hone lag gaya.

I was like.. kaha hai woh wala funny, charming, mehfil ki jaan Hanuman.

Like Mini told him — Hanuman uncle aap na boring ho gaye ho.

I felt the same. Where was that HS? We missed him as much as Minnie did.

Shaadi ban gayi umar qaid ki sazah

This will forever be the theme song I dedicate to HS:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcucgNV7Cmc

Originally posted by: _Reka_

The face of Babita & NB though, when Minnie was cracking a joke about it 🤣🤣🤣 so teenies might get away with it? besides, as far as I can tell, lots of men find it more scary than disgusting, especially if they are empathetic and imagine the same thing happening to their own private parts.

When did she do this? (:o)

Yeahh, just the idea of blood gushing out of someone nonstop is enough to horrify anyone. 😆