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Originally posted by: shazam1

If he thought I should say this in few months the I wouldn’t be able to relate to that HS. The way he acted today is more in character- and he has been saying Minnie is rude for months now so this threat is not a shocker. Minnie has been warned before too by HS for that. This time he upped the threat. I find it amazing how much emphasis is being given to that one line when what Babita and Minnie said to each other is way way worse. If that can shatter their 17 years of relationship then what are the chances of that if HS has waited a few more months Minnie would have been okay??

Exactly. He said nothing new. Back then, it was him disciplining Minnie a couple of times. He does not tolerate that kind of behavior, especially to one's mother.

I don't think Minnie is in the right state of mind to understand the significance behind the mother aspect. Maybe one day she will realize. I would have preferred if he talked to her and explained things to her in a way he knows she can understand and maybe also explain to her how he feels about not valuing one's mother, kind of like he said to NB the other day.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Precap: It seems Babita is finally prioritizing HS in her life. How many people will have a problem with this now? Isn't this what we wanted her to do? Lagta hai for Babita, its always damned if she does, damned if she doesn't 😆

I am glad if she's doing that. It's about time. Let her live her life and enjoy being with him and having her husband care for her. She is willing to work on it and open her mind to accepting her desires. That's a step in the right direction.

She doesn't have to be a perfect daughter-in-law or mother at this point. Let her focus on one thing at a time but at least do it right, hopefully.

Originally posted by: naq5

i dont think he was normal with mini today. HS was only proving a point to babita. thats the main issue

Yelling at her for misbehaving? He's done that before too.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

If he is a step dad then he will always be that only in few month it won't change and if he is a dad he will be a dad always.. And that bond will. Not fade as it's from heart...

Yes Babita said to behave like a dad and he behaved like a dad... And normally also dads behave the same if their kid goes. Somewhere without informing the family... But Babita never said to say all that... That were his words and his way of dealing his rebel child...

I agree with you, but I guess people have different interpretations of the scene.

I liked a PB episode after a long time because for once I saw HS being strict with both of them.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Babita can get the blame of Hanuman's outburst.. that was him and him alone.. I don't think Babita I a million years could have thought he would bring in Ashok.. he was right to scold.. it was natural to say is Ghar mein rehna hai you part.. but the hell broke lose when he mentioned Ashok

He did not mention Ashok to compare with himself. He mentioned Ashok to remind Minnie that her mother was in a bad situation and had to be a single parent out on the streets. We may or may not agree with Babita's ways of 'looking after' Minnie since they left the Khurana house, but the fact is that it did fall on Babita to worry about her daughter since Ashok didn't seem to care.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

She is becoming a wife and a mother at the same time for the first time. She's bound to falter and make mistakes. But thats the crux of it na. She needs to find a balance to maintain both relationships. Also, Mini is not a toddler or a small kid that requires constant attention. She's a teenager, she can handle her basic everyday routine and doesn't need Babita to tend to her... so why is it wrong for Babita to pay a little bit more attention to her new husband and her marital life. I don't see anything wrong with it, but of course writers will skew it to show that Babita is being negligent towards Mini 🤔

I think that Babita also needs to learn not to be overly affected by Minnie's every single word or action. She has the right to her own happiness without feeling guilty and needs to let go of Minnie, give her space.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Babita at the end of the episode looked like she was just done with everything that was happening... she just looked tired of all the syappe 😆.

So, feather romance is tomorrow then? 😆

She looked as tired as we felt.

Originally posted by: shazam1

Btw, did anybody think the scene where Minnie hugged preet and held Mickey’s hand reminded of kuch kuch Hota hai Rani SRK kajol scene.

That's exactly what it reminded me of. The parallels were unbelievable. Let's see how long they remain 'just friends'. LOL!

Originally posted by: shazam1

I love that she herself chose HS for once but now we will be back to bechari Minnie and Dadu Biji crying washing track- I guess I needed a break from that

Ye Irfan abhi tak gaya nahin?

From Sandhya ji's instagram post I'm assuming they will sort him out and send him away, so the Khuranas can return to NB's place.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Update:

• The episode begins with Mickey asking if Minnie can survive to which she says yes
• Mickey tells her that now she has grown up because she has learnt that she has to survive through all her problems. Minnie tells him that she has made the deal to survive, not be happy but as long as they're always with her, she can be happy.
• MMP ask for a lift from a truck who gives it to them and there's a song sequence
• MP try to cheer up Minnie by throwing hay on her but she's still quite disturbed. She tries to be happy though.
• At the police station, HS asks Lala if he took the girl's statement. Lala asks HS if he found out where Minnie is but he said no. Lala asks if HS knew that she's with Mickey then why didn't he just return to the station. HS tells him how Babes hasn't yet considered him to be Minnie's father. Lala is surprised since he has been more than a father to Minnie. HS tells him Babes doesn't think that way and that if she carries on pressuring him this way to force a fatherly relationship on Minnie, then things will become really awkward for him.
  
• Babes is still trying to call Minnie who by then comes home. Babes questions Minnie as to where she has been all this time, why is she still hanging out with Mickey, how will that impact her reputation and how will she get married.
• Minnie, who is exhausted by this point, tells her not to worry as she will find someone for herself just like Meeta did. Babes asks her if she's not ashamed to speak to her that way. Minnie tells her that she's just repeating Babes' words back to her.
• Minnie tells Babes how hurt she is by her words but it won't make much of a difference to her since she'll talk considering how her ego was hurt. It doesn't matter to her how the other person will feel. She also mentions how she's expected to understand Babes' feelings while she isn't able to understand her. Babes asks her if she really thinks she doesn't understand her and Minnie asks, if that's even a question.
• Minnie tells Babes that she's tired. Not everyone is lucky as her and that she's just dealing with things now. She leaves for upstairs while Babes calls after her asking for an explanation to what she just said.
• Minnie writes in her diary about how she learnt a huge lesson in friendships and relationships. She remembers all the harsh words that Babes told her. She rips out a paper from her diary and starts again.
• She writes how we, our emotional state, and our personalities are nothing but our memories and experiences. We are nothing but a sum total of our memories. We don't really let go of our past as it always leaves behind an impression.
• She reflects on how the Babes from her childhood is different than the one she sees now. She doesn't know if Babes changed, or her own perspective has but whatever it is, it's hurting her a lot. She no longer sees a closeness in Babes as she used to in the past. Even in the past when they used to fight, there used to be a closeness but now it's not there.
• She wonders if the distance is increasing between them because she's on a totally different page. It's alright that they have a difference in opinions and arguments, but what she's really hurt by is the fact that Babes looks upon her as a stranger. Still, she needs to deal with it and survive so that the relationship lasts. But if she's not able to then...
• The Khuranas come to Minnie with jalebis to cheer her up and ask her how she's feeling after the fight. She tells them she's fine and that everything is fine between her and Babes. These small fights happen between maa-beti. Dadu picks up her diary, but Minnie puts it away saying it's her secret diary, only for her eyes.
• HS comes telling her he needs to speak to her privately
• He starts scolding her on her rude behavior with Babes. Minnie has understood that Babes has conveniently left out the part where she was also rude with Minnie.
• HS tells her that the Haveli is his and Babes. They have kept her there as a daughter, by giving her a lot of love and respect and tolerate all her attitude but that doesn't mean she can misbehave with them.
• He also mentions how Ashok had kicked them out of the house and Babita had single handedly raised her. Is this how Minnie repays her? By being rude to her?
• He has told her many times before that the house needs discipline. Babes has been worried sick, calling her and he hasn't been able to focus on work either. From now on, if she ever argues with Babita on anything then there's no room for her in the Haveli.
• Babita freaks out and asks him what the hell is he saying. She had told him to scold her but this is too much. HS argues with her that she told him to scold her, and that's exactly what he's doing. He's explaining things to her as a father and they should treat it as his final verdict since he's the chief of the house.
• He questions Minnie if she has understood anything that he has said to her. Minnie tells her that she has understood everything now. He tells her it doesn't look like it from her face and her attitude. He asks her to clarify what she has understood. Minnie tells him that if she didn't listen to Babes or his words then they'll kick her out of the house. He asks her if there are any doubts and she replies, there are none. She also thanks them for making everything clear.
• She was about to leave, but she comes back apologizing that she was about to go to her room without asking his permission. Can she go or is there anything left? HS dismisses her saying that was it. Babita is not happy.
• Minnie goes back to her room and mulls over what he said to her. The Khuranas are upset seeing Minnie. Minnie puts on a smile and tells them not to worry. He just said anything in his angry, there's no need for them to get upset since these things happen. He didn't mean anything he said but she knows she's just giving them false reassurances.
• Babita questions HS as to what did he just do. HS gets pissed off. He tells her that he was just scolding her like she told him to. Babita tells him not that much to which he irritably asks her, if he should measure scolding statements by grams. And it's not like he knows how much he should scold. It's not like he's a father, he's just trying to be one. He did what he felt was right and that if he tries to do what she says then she has a problem with that too. He walks away angry.
• Precap: Babita tells HS that they put some seeds in dirt so that they bloom into a plant. Beeji whispers to Minnie how every year, Babes and she do this together during Navratri and she should go to her. Babes tells HS how it's their first Navratri after their marriage and that she wants to plant these seeds with him. Minnie's disheartened.

Just watched the episode, well not the entire episode but HS part. What a performance by Aniruddh . 👏Other parts I read your update.

I understood Mini's hurt and loneliness. But from her yesterday's dialogue and today's diary writing I got a feeling that a part of her loneliness stems from not being able to control her mother's life in anyway.I might be wrong here but I got this feeling. I felt bad for her though but not to the extent of sympathizing with her.

The less I say better about Babitha. She needs help. Also in both episodes the expressions on her face were completely flat. She looked more like a cartoon to me.

I might be biased here but my heart went out to HS. His main problem is , he doesn't know how to make a show off of his feelings. If he had known that Babitha and Mini would have been happily living in a bubble. Hope he learns with time.