My House, My Rules - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 20

Originally posted by: shazam1

Btw, did anybody think the scene where Minnie hugged preet and held Mickey’s hand reminded of kuch kuch Hota hai Rani SRK kajol scene.

Yupp. That was foreshadowing in my opinion. Mini will develop feelings for Mickey at some point.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Why??? Maybe she genuinely wants to do it with HS because its their first navratri... she has done it with Mini every year per Beeji, so what is so wrong if she chooses to do it this year with HS instead 🤔

I love that she herself chose HS for once but now we will be back to bechari Minnie and Dadu Biji crying washing track- I guess I needed a break from that

I think that Mini needs a reality check on life and She has to learn that Life has boundaries what we all have to stay in and are actions and behaviour is what will define her Future and she has to learn that we still live in a Conservative Society where blatant disregard for our behaviour and reckless roaming around with Mickey will have consequences for not only her but the relatives as well.

Even today it seems that she has still not learned about boundaries in friendships with Mickey, but was telling Babes about Soulmate Love with Mickey being pure, than why on earth has she hidden things about Mickey from her and not being honest with her and now its like a broken record of Mickey says this and Mickey says that and I think that she still has not paid any attention to what Babes was saying about her being Mita.

Unfortunately it does like that Mini is going the way of a deceit and will cheat Preeti and will only understand what her Babes was trying to tell her about Mickey but the damage will be done by than.

The Khuranas instead of telling Babita should explain to Mini about how our respect is in our own hands and Society does matter, if they don't want a repeat if Ashok behaviour here and understand what Babita is trying to tell Mini that a Mini has to maintain her respect and not to be stupid to prove a point to Mini.

Its what every parent tells there children about respect and how to talk to your parents.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Update:

• The episode begins with Mickey asking if Minnie can survive to which she says yes
• Mickey tells her that now she has grown up because she has learnt that she has to survive through all her problems. Minnie tells him that she has made the deal to survive, not be happy but as long as they're always with her, she can be happy.
• MMP ask for a lift from a truck who gives it to them and there's a song sequence
• MP try to cheer up Minnie by throwing hay on her but she's still quite disturbed. She tries to be happy though.
• At the police station, HS asks Lala if he took the girl's statement. Lala asks HS if he found out where Minnie is but he said no. Lala asks if HS knew that she's with Mickey then why didn't he just return to the station. HS tells him how Babes hasn't yet considered him to be Minnie's father. Lala is surprised since he has been more than a father to Minnie. HS tells him Babes doesn't think that way and that if she carries on pressuring him this way to force a fatherly relationship on Minnie, then things will become really awkward for him.
  
• Babes is still trying to call Minnie who by then comes home. Babes questions Minnie as to where she has been all this time, why is she still hanging out with Mickey, how will that impact her reputation and how will she get married.
• Minnie, who is exhausted by this point, tells her not to worry as she will find someone for herself just like Meeta did. Babes asks her if she's not ashamed to speak to her that way. Minnie tells her that she's just repeating Babes' words back to her.
• Minnie tells Babes how hurt she is by her words but it won't make much of a difference to her since she'll talk considering how her ego was hurt. It doesn't matter to her how the other person will feel. She also mentions how she's expected to understand Babes' feelings while she isn't able to understand her. Babes asks her if she really thinks she doesn't understand her and Minnie asks, if that's even a question.
• Minnie tells Babes that she's tired. Not everyone is lucky as her and that she's just dealing with things now. She leaves for upstairs while Babes calls after her asking for an explanation to what she just said.
• Minnie writes in her diary about how she learnt a huge lesson in friendships and relationships. She remembers all the harsh words that Babes told her. She rips out a paper from her diary and starts again.
• She writes how we, our emotional state, and our personalities are nothing but our memories and experiences. We are nothing but a sum total of our memories. We don't really let go of our past as it always leaves behind an impression.
• She reflects on how the Babes from her childhood is different than the one she sees now. She doesn't know if Babes changed, or her own perspective has but whatever it is, it's hurting her a lot. She no longer sees a closeness in Babes as she used to in the past. Even in the past when they used to fight, there used to be a closeness but now it's not there.
• She wonders if the distance is increasing between them because she's on a totally different page. It's alright that they have a difference in opinions and arguments, but what she's really hurt by is the fact that Babes looks upon her as a stranger. Still, she needs to deal with it and survive so that the relationship lasts. But if she's not able to then...
• The Khuranas come to Minnie with jalebis to cheer her up and ask her how she's feeling after the fight. She tells them she's fine and that everything is fine between her and Babes. These small fights happen between maa-beti. Dadu picks up her diary, but Minnie puts it away saying it's her secret diary, only for her eyes.
• HS comes telling her he needs to speak to her privately
• He starts scolding her on her rude behavior with Babes. Minnie has understood that Babes has conveniently left out the part where she was also rude with Minnie.
• HS tells her that the Haveli is his and Babes. They have kept her there as a daughter, by giving her a lot of love and respect and tolerate all her attitude but that doesn't mean she can misbehave with them.
• He also mentions how Ashok had kicked them out of the house and Babita had single handedly raised her. Is this how Minnie repays her? By being rude to her?
• He has told her many times before that the house needs discipline. Babes has been worried sick, calling her and he hasn't been able to focus on work either. From now on, if she ever argues with Babita on anything then there's no room for her in the Haveli.
• Babita freaks out and asks him what the hell is he saying. She had told him to scold her but this is too much. HS argues with her that she told him to scold her, and that's exactly what he's doing. He's explaining things to her as a father and they should treat it as his final verdict since he's the chief of the house.
• He questions Minnie if she has understood anything that he has said to her. Minnie tells her that she has understood everything now. He tells her it doesn't look like it from her face and her attitude. He asks her to clarify what she has understood. Minnie tells him that if she didn't listen to Babes or his words then they'll kick her out of the house. He asks her if there are any doubts and she replies, there are none. She also thanks them for making everything clear.
• She was about to leave, but she comes back apologizing that she was about to go to her room without asking his permission. Can she go or is there anything left? HS dismisses her saying that was it. Babita is not happy.
• Minnie goes back to her room and mulls over what he said to her. The Khuranas are upset seeing Minnie. Minnie puts on a smile and tells them not to worry. He just said anything in his angry, there's no need for them to get upset since these things happen. He didn't mean anything he said but she knows she's just giving them false reassurances.
• Babita questions HS as to what did he just do. HS gets pissed off. He tells her that he was just scolding her like she told him to. Babita tells him not that much to which he irritably asks her, if he should measure scolding statements by grams. And it's not like he knows how much he should scold. It's not like he's a father, he's just trying to be one. He did what he felt was right and that if he tries to do what she says then she has a problem with that too. He walks away angry.
• Precap: Babita tells HS that they put some seeds in dirt so that they bloom into a plant. Beeji whispers to Minnie how every year, Babes and she do this together during Navratri and she should go to her. Babes tells HS how it's their first Navratri after their marriage and that she wants to plant these seeds with him. Minnie's disheartened.

Thank you so much for the update and that too on page 1 as promised.

❤️

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Today he was not a husband... He is a father whose love for his daughter is always questioned and he always need to prove it.... Bcoz when he wants to handle things in his own way he becomes an outsider... But if he had done out of his way also he is again labelled as stepdad....👏

Thank you. Finally someone else who understands it the way I did.

Mini is so much into that teenage zone. one argument with parent(s) and sare problems duniya me mere kandhe pe. Koi mujhe pyar nai karta. Ghar apna nahi lagta.

I totally understand her thought process. Typical teenage. Recent incidents aggravated the hurt. While she is right somewhere, lot of these issues are in the head.

That Hug with Preet and hand -holding to Micky — total Kuch kuch hota hai vibe.
Preet aur Micky ki engagement bhi ho gai. Lol. The flower ring that Micky gave Preet, broke. Indicating what?
These 3 have lot of confusion going on in their head. At least MiMi. Preet ko idea bhi nahi hai.
Rano aunty Preet ki shadi kara do toh siyapa Hi khatam. At least Mini hurt nahi hogi. And MiMi can be confused or love each other or whatever soulmate thingy without a worry in the world.

Originally posted by: najma123

He is a stepdad! He should have explained to Babita what Mini means to him. Should have told her he needed time, and then said, he couldn't be a father. And should have asked, is it not enough that he loves her so much, do relationships need a label? He IS more mature than her.

Explain? To Babita?

Ugh his over-protectiveness of her is his biggest flaw at this point, as I keep saying, and it will be the cause of his downfall if he doesn't stop it.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Thank you. Finally someone else who understands it the way I did.

At the end of the day, it''s all because of babita who is totally screwed up and complexed as hell!

She is the source of all the strife. She is messed up and she is messing up HS, Minnie, and everyone who has the misfortune of being around her.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I wont be surprised if makers show Mini leaving Hanita and going to stay with Ashok and Mita in London for sometime. I say let her. Even she has the right to stay and connect with her "biological" father if she wants to, and get to know him. Maybe she can then finally sort out her feelings regarding father or father figure in her life. She has no idea what it is to have a father. She should get the opportunity to learn now so she can make her own judgements.

I second that. And maybe she concludes she doesn't want HS in her life after all. Fine. Just be clear about it. Spare him, please.

I think the whole issue over here is adjusting in to new role or relationship. They need time and patience. Even though they were living together before, now their relationship has changed so as the responsibility and expectation.

As a teenage girl, Minnie’s tantrums and attitude are justified. We all were teenagers one or some of us are still teenagers. In that age, kids become rebellion. They think their parents don’t understand them. It’s a normal development stage.

On the other hand parents thinks their kids don’t listen to them.. they feared for their children’s life and reputation. We the young generation don’t give a damn about world while parents don’t think that way. It doesn’t make one person right and other wrong. It’s just different opinions.

Even in normal life, this type of situation happens where parents says something and you feel offended. You cry and forget everything in few days.

What is different here is hanumansingh is not mini’s real father. So even if he scolds her, it makes her and everyone makes think he is wrong.

I am not saying whatever he says to mini is right. He should also understand that as he’s not her real father he should carefully uses his words. Sometimes these words kill the relationship. As a head of family and mini’s guardian, it’s his right to tell her and correct her but he should find a way where no one gets hurt. Telling her that he was doing favors to her to let her stay in house is wrong.

In this situation actually babita has to be the bridge, that connects mini and hanuman Singh. Here she acts like child. From the beginning she acts as a child. I understand as a mother she has right to scold mini. But what she said to her, compare her to meeta is wrong. That happens, sometimes parents say something in anger, but they realize after sometime that they say something wrong, But here she doesn’t think, she has done mistakes, comparing mini to meeta. Parents have right to get angry on their kids but they also have to make sure they don’t humiliate their kids infront of outsiders.

What I don’t like here is mini fought for her real dad, dadu, BG, the entire world for her babes. She didn’t care for what would people say, while babita is only thinking what would other says about her. Here she is more worried about her own image than mini. And mini also should at least leave a text message for her babes that she’s okay and would be back in little bit. I know she’s angry but she should have done that. And HS should be careful using words. He is not doing a favor on mini to let her stay in house, in fact he uses mini in order to impress babita. His father didn’t throw mini out of his house, it was mini who left the house with babita for babita’s self respect. It was mini who helped babita to open patiala babes kitchen, it was mini who fought against the world and lovely bua to marry babita to HS, she didn’t think about what would other say. At that time everyone thinks how brave she was, very mature decision ect. Now suddenly she became immature teenager. I agree that parents sometimes thinks about other people but she has to think the brave decisions mini has taken for her. She is her mini’s real mother, so has more expectations from her too.

These are my opinion. Nothing personal and it’s okay if you’re not agree with me.