BB3 - General and Finale Aftermath Discussions - Page 18

Originally posted by: mirun

Agree there will never be an end to this argument. I’m the only one who has been supporting Madhu in this forum . Hopefully truth comes out one day

Even I don’t condone her behaviour, but I stand by her claims of being bullied. We already saw with the “Tamil ponnu” issue how ready people in the house were to pile up on her and continue to harass her. Isn’t one person enough to tell someone they are wrong? Why should all jump in to shout at a single individual? I felt it was a collection of being targeted that led to her decisions. Last year Vaishnavi was bullied in a similar way, although she realised that and kept quiet with her opinions after a while. Vaishnavi has also worked in cooperate settings so had more self awareness. Madhu is a product of her upbringing, but instead of calmly talking to her like Cheran did, the rest all just shouted at her. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was egged on during the final incident.

Originally posted by: llptch

Even I don’t condone her behaviour, but I stand by her claims of being bullied. We already saw with the “Tamil ponnu” issue how ready people in the house were to pile up on her and continue to harass her. Isn’t one person enough to tell someone they are wrong? Why should all jump in to shout at a single individual? I felt it was a collection of being targeted that led to her decisions. Last year Vaishnavi was bullied in a similar way, although she realised that and kept quiet with her opinions after a while. Vaishnavi has also worked in cooperate settings so had more self awareness. Madhu is a product of her upbringing, but instead of calmly talking to her like Cheran did, the rest all just shouted at her. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was egged on during the final incident.

I agree with some of your points..

@bold part.. she is not the one who listens , despite Cheran spoke to her calmly as to why prolong the matter (he spoke with her privately in garden area , Airtel Zone).. it's after that she again started that 4 ponnu matter in the kitchen area.. that's why Cheran never opened his mouth there and kept cutting the veggies . . Sonnaa kettukkura aal kidaiyaadhu nu he minded his own business then and at later point he tried to make her understand..

Even Kasthuri tried to make Madhu understand that she is taking stand for the wrong ppl (4 girls.. adhula Sakshi left.. Los in boys gang already.. Abi and Sherin are now enjoying with them "We are the boys-u" song nu ).. As majority of housemates there, Madhu also brushed off Kasthuri's advice as she entered as wildcard and can't talk about it , moreover they didn't like her way of approach towards the problem.. basically didn't listen to her ..

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

So anybody planning to watch 'The Wall' show in the weekends ? I may give it a try and decide to watch further or not depending on how it goes..

If you ppl wish to have discussions on the same, let me open a thread for it under the category where game shows are discussed and will post the link here.. we may stay connected few more days through that.. just asking..

Originally posted by: mirun

Agree there will never be an end to this argument. I’m the only one who has been supporting Madhu in this forum . Hopefully truth comes out one day

Actually yenakku avanga mela konjam sympathu irruku for the self harming incident and when they fab 5 started singing we are the boysu, thats where I felt the bullying was done

I dont know whether Madhu was right in her view but when someone makes several cuts in her hand the first thing you would do is to help her.

When Vanitha said she did it for attention, well, I can only recollect what Oviya said when Julie was having pain and when Gayu felt it was drama - that first thing is to ensure they're fine, drama or not is secondary.

I somehow feel VTV has messed up badly in this issue and trying to do cover up. Oru finale videoliye liye Moses irrukara madhiri golmal panranga, appo andha vishyathilla yepdi avangala nambarathu

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

So anybody planning to watch 'The Wall' show in the weekends ? I may give it a try and decide to watch further or not depending on how it goes..

If you ppl wish to have discussions on the same, let me open a thread for it under the category where game shows are discussed and will post the link here.. we may stay connected few more days through that.. just asking..

South Asia 1st time show endu ellam boost pani irukangal..I'll give it a first few eposides a watch and I like priyanka hosting as well her and ma ka pa make a good hosting duo so will check it out. Do it ramya 👍🏼I'm game for it.

Originally posted by: mirun

True but somehow the way the picture was posted with older one looked like a strategic move from kavin’s side .

Kavin vera zoneku poitan.

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

I agree with some of your points..

@bold part.. she is not the one who listens , despite Cheran spoke to her calmly as to why prolong the matter (he spoke with her privately in garden area , Airtel Zone).. it's after that she again started that 4 ponnu matter in the kitchen area.. that's why Cheran never opened his mouth there and kept cutting the veggies . . Sonnaa kettukkura aal kidaiyaadhu nu he minded his own business then and at later point he tried to make her understand..

Even Kasthuri tried to make Madhu understand that she is taking stand for the wrong ppl (4 girls.. adhula Sakshi left.. Los in boys gang already.. Abi and Sherin are now enjoying with them "We are the boys-u" song nu ).. As majority of housemates there, Madhu also brushed off Kasthuri's advice as she entered as wildcard and can't talk about it , moreover they didn't like her way of approach towards the problem.. basically didn't listen to her ..

The second fight happened because of Kavin... when Cheran was trying to make compromise between tharsh n Madhu...Kavin enga ivanga rasi agitangana enna pannradhunu bayandhutu spoke some bad word to her it seems...so the fight started because of that ...but we all know abt kavins talking skills...he drifted the topic and brought the previous day fight and turned the tables on Madhu...

It seems they have edited that bad word part of Kavin ..

This was said by Madhu in her interview ..

But whatever it is ..Kavin played a major part in madhus incident...

Originally posted by: Qualia

Actually yenakku avanga mela konjam sympathu irruku for the self harming incident and when they fab 5 started singing we are the boysu, thats where I felt the bullying was done

I dont know whether Madhu was right in her view but when someone makes several cuts in her hand the first thing you would do is to help her.

When Vanitha said she did it for attention, well, I can only recollect what Oviya said when Julie was having pain and when Gayu felt it was drama - that first thing is to ensure they're fine, drama or not is secondary.

I somehow feel VTV has messed up badly in this issue and trying to do cover up. Oru finale videoliye liye Moses irrukara madhiri golmal panranga, appo andha vishyathilla yepdi avangala nambarathu

Well said. ..

Vanithas words that Madhu did that for attention seeking is pure arrogance...

Originally posted by: vanvar

The second fight happened because of Kavin... when Cheran was trying to make compromise between tharsh n Madhu...Kavin enga ivanga rasi agitangana enna pannradhunu bayandhutu spoke some bad word to her it seems...so the fight started because of that ...but we all know abt kavins talking skills...he drifted the topic and brought the previous day fight and turned the tables on Madhu...

It seems they have edited that bad word part of Kavin ..

This was said by Madhu in her interview ..

But whatever it is ..Kavin played a major part in madhus incident...

Kavin AND sandy played a major part in elimination..bp and wp...to an extent to whom will even go to finals. So glad thangam still made it to finals despite these 2 politics.

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

So anybody planning to watch 'The Wall' show in the weekends ? I may give it a try and decide to watch further or not depending on how it goes..

If you ppl wish to have discussions on the same, let me open a thread for it under the category where game shows are discussed and will post the link here.. we may stay connected few more days through that.. just asking..

The only game show which was interesting for me was connexion,adhuku aprom oru game show kuda pakla urupadiya vtv la