Proof of Family - Page 5

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL you're not getting my point. I said that even after using the father-daughter label for each other, HS-Mini's relationship was beyond that.

But Babita is fixated on labels and her own perceptions of a father-daughter relationship.....her saying today that Mini will be heartbroken was just too ironic considering she never spoke to Mini directly about this topic.....just made presumptions....no matter what HS-Mini were calling each other, wasn't it Babita's responsibility as a mom to atleast have ONE convo with Mini regarding this? But she never did.....and today she wants to pretend she only cares about how Mini will be heartbroken if HS isn't able to be her father? lol that is what shows how childish and naive she still is.

It's also funny how she was more concerned about HS breaking Minnie's heart and not how she broke hers.

As for the labels, how does she even know what kind of father Minnie wants or needs? Ashok was never around to provide any standards for her and it's not like Minnie is a small bacchi who will be pleased with some toys or chocolates. She's nearly an adult who has her own dreams and life aspirations. She'll need someone who can be a friend, and a mentor to her. And this is precisely why HS fits the bill so perfectly.

There is no naivety Babita expecting a father daughter relationship between Mini and Hanuman.. she did not have a conversation because she did not feel the need to.. Hanuman and Mini behaved like father daughter through amd through.. Mini went against her to support Hanuman.. then Hanuman called himself Mini's father and Mini had no objection.. mini and Hanuman were heartbroken at losing each other when Babita had decided to move out

All this made it clear that Babita did not really have to worry about father daughter relationship between Hanuman and Mini

And this is nOt the first time Babita has wanted Hanuman to assert his right on Mini.. even before proposal, when Mini found out about Hanuman's feelings, Babita had sent Hanuman to get her from Naeen bi's house and she had promised she would not intervene

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's also funny how she was more concerned about HS breaking Minnie's heart and not how she broke hers.

As for the labels, how does she even know what kind of father Minnie wants or needs? Ashok was never around to provide any standards for her and it's not like Minnie is a small bacchi who will be pleased with some toys or chocolates. She's nearly an adult who has her own dreams and life aspirations. She'll need someone who can be a friend, and a mentor to her. And this is precisely why HS fits the bill so perfectly.

Babita knows Hanuman fits the bill actually..

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's also funny how she was more concerned about HS breaking Minnie's heart and not how she broke hers.

As for the labels, how does she even know what kind of father Minnie wants or needs? Ashok was never around to provide any standards for her and it's not like Minnie is a small bacchi who will be pleased with some toys or chocolates. She's nearly an adult who has her own dreams and life aspirations. She'll need someone who can be a friend, and a mentor to her. And this is precisely why HS fits the bill so perfectly.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's also funny how she was more concerned about HS breaking Minnie's heart and not how she broke hers.

As for the labels, how does she even know what kind of father Minnie wants or needs? Ashok was never around to provide any standards for her and it's not like Minnie is a small bacchi who will be pleased with some toys or chocolates. She's nearly an adult who has her own dreams and life aspirations. She'll need someone who can be a friend, and a mentor to her. And this is precisely why HS fits the bill so perfectly.

Point.

Since the writers are enjoying raising the CD issue only in bits and pieces and revisiting the fiasco from the wedding day, why not also again raise the point of how BABITA never went to talk to Mini about that issue even after seeing how upset Mini was? She passed that off only to HS expecting him to fix this....kyun bhai? TUMHARI beti nahin thi tab?

Suddenly Babita ko conveniently Mini ka heartbreak feel ho raha hai? 😆

And exactly.....has Babita ever even remotely reflected on what Mini needs as a father? And if she was marrying HS supposedly for Mini (as she claimed), why did she not talk to Mini about whether she was fully ready for a new father too? That too at this stage when she's almost an adult herself?

Ashok isn't the only father she's seen.....Babita had her own father....so it's not like the concept of a father is totally alien to her.....but chalo maan lete hain since the writers try to convince us daily she doesn't have even an iota of a brain.......even then, for an otherwise hyper anxious mother to not even have ONE conversation with her daughter about introducing a new father in her life defies belief.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

dono maa beti khud nahi jaanti inko hs se kya chahiye. Inke sath rehke inka ott drama dekhke bechara hs bhi confuse ho gaya hai and has forgotten ke usne in dono ko kya kya promise kiya tha😆 ya phir TRP ke chakkar main writers khud bhool gaye hain ke unhone hs se kya kya promise karwaya tha

PH ka agla tweet will be - "Promises are meant to be broken.....#Lifeisnotaladdoo"😛

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Babita knows Hanuman fits the bill actually..

If she did, then she would be more confident in him and wouldn't constantly be questioning his love for Minnie. I understand her fears, but come on. It's HS. As he said, they've been living together for nearly a year now. How is she still questioning him and asking him to prove his love?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If she did, then she would be more confident in him and wouldn't constantly be questioning his love for Minnie. I understand her fears, but come on. It's HS. As he said, they've been living together for nearly a year now. How is she still questioning him and asking him to prove his love?

She was confident actually till the CD fiasco.. that coupled with Kammo's taunts and Hanuman's behavior post it all is what made her question.. she never did before..

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If she did, then she would be more confident in him and wouldn't constantly be questioning his love for Minnie. I understand her fears, but come on. It's HS. As he said, they've been living together for nearly a year now. How is she still questioning him and asking him to prove his love?

If she can give conditions and ultimatums to the daughter she spent 17 years with, then HS kis khet ki mooli hai?😆....she questioned Mini in the blink of an eye too for supposedly not seeing her mother's pain.

This is how Babita rolls....basic personality traits.