New seg - Babita has migraine,HS takes care - Page 4

Originally posted by: inlieu

Exactly, I don't want to see those shells. And why start up the thread of showing HS re-open his mother's room, try to talk to her and then shut everything up, as though for good? Was it to show us that some facets of his life will remain closed off from Babita? That won't work in the long term if she can't share his pain as his spouse. So much for Babita growing and stepping up to be there for him. With Minnie gone, he really will be lonely. I just can't believe they won't explore his childhood trauma after going so far with that. He will be hurting all the time, in which case his attention to Babita and the baby will never be 100%.

As NB said, Minnie connects that both and if her bond with even one of them breaks or weakens, all three will be affected. I have a feeling that even though HS would be overjoyed about the baby, which is only natural, Minnie will still be his first love. Unless they turn him into some kind of cold, evil stepdad, in which case this might as well be a completely different show.

I am just finding all this so hard to digest. I am also now worried that NB will not win the court case. Oh God!

THIS. The biggest thing bothering me these days....why attach so much meaning to the re-opening of that room and not even show a LITTLE follow up in terms of Babita asking atleast something about the room yaar.....heck she friggin lives in it now but there is no thought about the various things in the room? 😕

Unless the writing totally switched gears from that scene to the shaadi, I don't know what to think.....till that point, they were steadily building things up to show that aspect opening up....meaning being attached to every memory coming forward.....I would have been ok if it all got deliberately locked and shut away again given how Babita exploded the night of the wedding....but the pictures are on the friggin wall in EVERY scene....HOW do you ignore this angle then? It's in our faces in every scene but the characters never talk about them😕

If this aspect is always to remain closed off from Babita, why even have the picture on the wall? Just lock 'em away in a trunk somewhere. Babita is literally living in a room that is a living shrine to the memory of HS ki mom but there is zero cognizance from Babita of this😕....still, they are supposedly SUCH a "loving" couple....lol sure.

LOL I don't think they will turn HS into that kind of stepdad ever....yeah he will be giddy over the new baby most likely and won't deliberately try to neglect Mini...but point is, he is already struggling to balance b/w mother-daughter.....with a new kid, he will only fall back further....precisely because he hasn't put in the time to actually tackle his relationship with Mini right now.....it will only keep sliding further on the backburner.....doesn't mean they don't love each other....but the relationship itself is not being explored properly now.

NB ki baat will be proven right again cuz Mini herself will step back and leave.....only then HB may realize the fundamental fault lines in this marriage, and subsequently their relationships. This marriage can never be successful without first addressing those fault lines......all the random romance and baby won't fix those.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

But did they discuss, think about consequences, think about Mini’s reaction, did they visit the doctors to get opinions on complications of late pregnancy? Etc etc. Yese hi in couple tries she becomes pregnant at 35? Makes no sense 🙄

I get that since they are in their mid 30’s, if they wanna have a baby they should have it sooner than later. But, at least inke relationship mein thoda toh growth hona chahiye before baby comes in the picture. HS opening up to Babita about his mother and his childhood trauma would have been the best way for them to discuss their future and baby planning 😕

Perhaps, like the consummation, they want to normalize this and not show it as a big event in their lives?

Time will tell.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

THIS. The biggest thing bothering me these days....why attach so much meaning to the re-opening of that room and not even show a LITTLE follow up in terms of Babita asking atleast something about the room yaar.....heck she friggin lives in it now but there is no thought about the various things in the room? 😕

Unless the writing totally switched gears from that scene to the shaadi, I don't know what to think.....till that point, they were steadily building things up to show that aspect opening up....meaning being attached to every memory coming forward.....I would have been ok if it all got deliberately locked and shut away again given how Babita exploded the night of the wedding....but the pictures are on the friggin wall in EVERY scene....HOW do you ignore this angle then? It's in our faces in every scene but the characters never talk about them😕

If this aspect is always to remain closed off from Babita, why even have the picture on the wall? Just lock 'em away in a trunk somewhere. Babita is literally living in a room that is a living shrine to the memory of HS ki mom but there is zero cognizance from Babita of this😕....still, they are supposedly SUCH a "loving" couple....lol sure.

LOL I don't think they will turn HS into that kind of stepdad ever....yeah he will be giddy over the new baby most likely and won't deliberately try to neglect Mini...but point is, he is already struggling to balance b/w mother-daughter.....with a new kid, he will only fall back further....precisely because he hasn't put in the time to actually tackle his relationship with Mini right now.....it will only keep sliding further on the backburner.....doesn't mean they don't love each other....but the relationship itself is not being explored properly now.

NB ki baat will be proven right again cuz Mini herself will step back and leave.....only then HB may realize the fundamental fault lines in this marriage, and subsequently their relationships. This marriage can never be successful without first addressing those fault lines......all the random romance and baby won't fix those.

I also think that on some deep level, Minnie too wanted this wedding to happen soon so that she could offload Babita on to him, as though her project were done. Now that it is, she sees that it hasn't automatically solved her mother's underlying issues.

I frankly think it's unfair for HS to be the one who has to solve the problems between mother and daughter. He has seen them since day one, but he can't fix them all. They both need to do something but if Babita becomes pregnant, she won't be able to focus solely on Minnie even if she wants to.

HS is going to struggle to find the balance and then his own guilt will eat him alive. I think he would think of his loneliness as a child and be concerned that Minnie doesn't face the same thing. But who knows if his thought process will be shown? I just hope NB sahi salaamat rahe, otherwise HS will be completely alone. Lala will surely have married GK by then, off screen. 😔

As for HS and his mother - that scene was so deliberate when he looks at her things, the way he was crying, etc. All that was part of the new wave of writing on the show, as I'm calling it now, but it was full of meaning.

I still have this really tiny ray of hope that all this will somehow be fixed. Maybe I just need to be more patient. 😆

I was immediately thrown back to Imarti's scene! Itll be great if HS overreacts or is worried as hell cause it's such a strange coincidence.

Is it just me or Babita was pressing her head in a way similar to Imarti? Damn that one track is etched into my head totally.😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Perhaps, like the consummation, they want to normalize this and not show it as a big event in their lives?

Time will tell.

If a baby isn't a big deal, that too when Minnie is almost 18, then what on the earth would qualify as a big event?

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I was immediately thrown back to Imarti's scene! Itll be great if HS overreacts or is worried as hell cause it's such a strange coincidence.

Is it just me or Babita was pressing her head in a way similar to Imarti? Damn that one track is etched into my head totally.😆

Totally gave me Imarti’s flashback. Babita even looked like Imarti when she was pressing her head.

Wonder if it is to bring up Imarti’s conversation again in their lives. It’s hella confusing lol. Every news/article is saying Babita is pregnant. Don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

If a baby isn't a big deal, that too when Minnie is almost 18, then what on the earth would qualify as a big event?

Yeah I agree. Hanita having a baby would be a big event in all three of their lives. It will change their life and their dynamics to certain extent. This should be a major track but later down the line.

As per paridhi interview ,the scene is all about babita wanted to be good wife inviting n making food for HS friends but she couldn do Bec of migraine ..She is trying to be best wife as paridhi said .I don't think it's related to pregnancy or anything ..We are over assuming here ..Focus of the scene didj seem to be headache otherwise HS would have panicked but they were only talking about what food they will serve to his colligues ..I think ND hope aisa hi ho.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I also think that on some deep level, Minnie too wanted this wedding to happen soon so that she could offload Babita on to him, as though her project were done. Now that it is, she sees that it hasn't automatically solved her mother's underlying issues.

I frankly think it's unfair for HS to be the one who has to solve the problems between mother and daughter. He has seen them since day one, but he can't fix them all. They both need to do something but if Babita becomes pregnant, she won't be able to focus solely on Minnie even if she wants to.

HS is going to struggle to find the balance and then his own guilt will eat him alive. I think he would think of his loneliness as a child and be concerned that Minnie doesn't face the same thing. But who knows if his thought process will be shown? I just hope NB sahi salaamat rahe, otherwise HS will be completely alone. Lala will surely have married GK by then, off screen. 😔

As for HS and his mother - that scene was so deliberate when he looks at her things, the way he was crying, etc. All that was part of the new wave of writing on the show, as I'm calling it now, but it was full of meaning.

I still have this really tiny ray of hope that all this will somehow be fixed. Maybe I just need to be more patient. 😆

LOL@ Mini offloading her project onto HS😆....but you have a point....yes, she definitely made the presumption that all will be fixed simply by handing Babita off to HS....and it's unfair to expect him alone to solve all their problems.....they need to do it as a UNIT together.

But that requires leadership....someone has to step up in this family unit to keep them all in line....HS tries but he overall still lacks the assertiveness to really lead them.....Babita ko toh interest hi nahin hai in being the one to keep the family together.....Mini tries to be supermini but is ultimately just a kid....she can't lead the whole family on her own.

A pregnancy will just mess up the whole balance even further, no doubt.

HS ke issues toh writers ko interest hi nahin hai dikhaane mein....they just hint at them in random scenes or offhand dialogues, bas. Otherwise that should have been the core backdrop of this phase.....HS ka past baggage in terms of losing his mother and never really having a father....how that aligns with this new family unit he's trying to build......but koi communication hi nahin hai ab....everyone is in their own heads.

LOL@ your tiny ray of hope.....my point is that I don't want the "fix" to be a token fix...as it was last Friday with the reunion scene.....after which, there was no build up on the issue or follow up.....the lack of a flow renders such "fixes" moot.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I was immediately thrown back to Imarti's scene! Itll be great if HS overreacts or is worried as hell cause it's such a strange coincidence.

Is it just me or Babita was pressing her head in a way similar to Imarti? Damn that one track is etched into my head totally.😆

In another time, I would have thought that this was their way of helping HS get over some of his guilt about not being able to save Imarti. This time he will take care of Babita and take her to the doc, etc. do whatever it takes.

Yeah, Imarti is still... ❤️