Bajaj as Husband - Page 9

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Bajaj genuinely wants to win over the Sharmas. The way he was feeling at home when the Sharma siblings started their banter. At his deepest core, he wants a family that stays together,fights together and stand together. He wants to protect his with all he's got while seeking the Sharmas as the extension of it. He obviously wants to create a good impression on mom-in-law,so will never act out infront of them. Their opinion of him matters to him the most.

Ya sure...after nearly stealing another would be wife' pregnant with a child to complete the house by providing a more than one sided deal..he wants to be on a mission to recruit some more..I have already mentioned yesterday where does this "NEED for FAMILY" stop, it is slippery slope and everything gets brushed aside due to brutal past..This is ridiculous way to extend a family and there is no condoning because it comes with criminal ways to acquire or protect this family!

Imagine the base of such a relationship when Sharmas come to know how their daughter was put in such a condition even if P accepted it..Remember the slap that P' father give to Naveen Babu or Veena to A during Komo Jail track..That is how parents reach to for their daughter even if P accepted for A' life and there is no denying P was brought to knee to accept it!

Originally posted by: euphoric

Lekin jhooth ki buniyad par banaye gaye rishte

Sach ki ek mamooli se chot se toot jaate hain

toota tha ek rishta, mohabbat ka,
jhud gaya ek naya , sudhe ka
rishte rishte ki baath hai,
tootne ki khagaar par hain toh
tootha koi bhi,
saudhe ka ya ho ya phir mohabbat ka

Originally posted by: opsora2090

i dont read the whole pera , i just ans u on basis of first line...

woman today...

do u really think prerna is today's woman? her character has no connection with this century's woman. one of the most weakest woman character she has... no own identity , no personality .. no strength at all. ekta has butchered very badly her character from day 1 for satisfying ML . so if u compare her situation with today's woman life journey then i have nothing to take on.. cos for me this prerna is not from today's era

Hey thats ok if you don't feel like reading further it's completely your choice but post was comperision between husband and wife as pre and bajaj thats why my reply. Agree pre might not be strong as todays woman and with faults but still she is woman with some faults doesn't define someone is ideal for her thats like saying i gave you the freedom now in am ideal for you.basically you take shots and praise your ownself that you did this mahan job.

Woman even today doesn't say thousands of words to go against wrong for many reasons but true partner and husband understand s that misery's till some point to help her out by putting her happiness first. Funny thing is even if people think pre is bad or whatever they still want her as wife and be faithful and do wife duties where husband is free to use her trust for his own selfishness. If he really was an ideal husband he would admit that he used his trust. People are blaming other character for taking advantage of her trust well here husband is doing same.

I just want whoever it is want pre to accept as Prerna sharama first before idenitifiyig as wife or mother thats all and all the same goes for other gender. Even there are many woman todays who are willing to sacrifices their own happiness for their loved ones and in my eye that person deserves all the praise and love even with flaws. Just for there mere act of putting someone else above your self.

Sorry post going of topic. I will edit it if its offending anyone.

Originally posted by: euphoric

Ideal husbands dont buy wives and their loyalties. They earn them.

Ideal husbands dont spin a web of lies as trust is the foundation for any ideal relationship. And then ups and downs can be taken care of.

Ideal husband in their insecurity dont exhibit a tendency to kill in cold blood. They know the heart of their partner and keep faith in their relationship.

Ideal husband wouldnt want to trap their wives into a loveless marriage knowing her heartbeats for another man. He would set her free.

Ideal husbands don't wear masks. They lay their hearts bare.

Bajaj in his own independent light is anything but ideal. And i dont think the character was ever written to be ideal either.

There is no comparison between The Mr Bajaj and Husband Rishab Bajaj.

Mr bajaj is probably cruel for outsider world, not for his wife

your characteristics always does not define your behavior towards some one always

jaruri nei hai , bahahr walon ke sat jo behave hai , ghar walon ke sath ekhi chis koi apply kare...

whatever you have mentioned everything is his actions towards his enemies , not for his family.

and i have clearly said in first line... no matter what how much bad he is for his enemy .. and anurag is his enemy . prerna ke bajajse woh hamesha chup hote hai , othreiwse mr basu abtak nei hote iyaha ... and about know the heart .. it is too early .. this is only 3 months , heart ko samjhna thode jaldi hai ..log idhar bachpan se ek dusre ko janke bhi anjana hote hai , aur idhar toh 3 maine...

aur rahi bat wife buy karneki , that is a deal .. dono party ismai benefit hui hai ... dono ke choice ke mutabek.. iyea bar bar prerna show mai bol dia , so i dont think usmai behes karne ki jarurat hai apne khudke imagination ke sath .

and kzk pe ek bhi character ideal basis pe nei likha hai .. but we could pick some of their qualities for appreciation like here i have picked .

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

saudha tha woh ek, jismein
humein kuch chaahiye tha,
aur tumhein kuch chaahiye
ismein sach aur jhoot ka kaisa buniyaad

toota tha ek rishta, mohabbat ka,
jhud gaya ek naya , sudhe ka
rishte rishte ki baath hai,
tootne ki khagaar par hain toh
tootha koi bhi,
saudhe ka ya ho ya phir mohabbat ka

👏👏

LMAO ....🤣.....This Guy is Fake ...

He shows Mannerisms and fake Gentleman-ness in front to be in good books .... and at the back takes his frustration and kill ppl ....

He is trying to cage Prerna in marriage restrictions ....

Let’s see how far his this Mask saves him ...

Honestly I’m worried for Prerna .... .

Originally posted by: RollingStones

LMAO ....🤣.....This Guy is Fake ...

He shows Mannerisms and fake Gentleman-ness in front to be in good books .... and at the back takes his frustration and kill ppl ....

He is trying to cage Prerna in marriage restrictions ....

Let’s see how far his this Mask saves him ...

Aisa mat bolo RS, he is giving her wings to fly😉

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Well said Sonia and along with this I'll add that sach ki chot se pehle sach bahar aane ka darr har pal us rishte ko khokla karta hai.

Here also Bajaj is trying his best not to let truth come out in the open. That's why all this planning and plotting to gain her trust like that. Agar dum hai to sach bolke apne rishte ki buniyaad ko mazboot banao jhoot ke dum pe nahi.

Exactly. Dam tha toh sharma ke ghar gaye the tab pehle veena ko apologize karte jiski beti ki life ko tumne deal bana diya. Phir haath maangne ki baat karte.

You do realize that as an 'adult' woman you don't need anyone and I repeat anyone including your husband's permission to do anything - it was stupid of prerna to even look at Bajaj when Anurag asked her for some tea - and Bajaj can have no say in what prerna does or doesn't do ..being married doesn't give one the right to control the other!

also i wouldn't talk about his heart - it was all his plan to gain prerna's sympathy and respect - the guy fake arrested himself ..paid the police, waited for prerna to find out the truth ..but did he tell her the truth that he actually wanted basu dead? .. he doesn't have the balls to tell her that he heard anurag's plan and twisted it to his advantage and wanted to kill him and is regretting that he is alive!! .. just acting all chicken and civil with prerna in no way makes his heart golden! what is the point in lying about your true intentions and winning over someone? ..it isn't even you then!

Originally posted by: opsora2090

No matter what how much Mr Bajaj bad for his enemy like Basus, But he is a pure Husband goal. he always gives full freedom to Prerna whatever she wants to do. today again he did exact the same. yes no husband never ever will allow to his wife for being so much caring for her ex . Bajaj bought Prerna's loyalty , so in that terms, he always could put his own decision on prerna and he has full right. but he always respects prerna's wish . yes they married in bad state, prerna as per term said bajaj will have no right on her body and soul. but it is not about soul. prerna confessed during jail track , Mr bajaj never made bounding her to go to anurag . and today again he proved that .

Anurag requested Prerna to make tea. prerna subtly asked permission to bajaj and bajaj freely allowed to go her . yah he used sassy language , guest should be treated well 😆

but things come out from here , Bajaj never ever cut her wings, he always let her fly. yes people will bring that deal marriage part. but in the end basically that marriage was also prerna's choice no matter what on which situation

and i believe , one day if prerna wants divorce or wants to go to Anurag willingly then , Bajaj obviously will let her go by respecting her freedom.

so in a word , Bajaj has golden heart. situtaion, clashes of life probably made him grey shaded, but from heart he is best . and also he is a hubby goal .

kash kabhi prerna Bajaj ke worth samjh hota..........

Originally posted by: euphoric

Exactly. Dam tha toh sharma ke ghar gaye the tab pehle veena ko apologize karte jiski beti ki life ko tumne deal bana diya. Phir haath maangne ki baat karte.

it is prerna's choice to hide the real reason to her family , toh kis bat ka apology for that ?

agar prerna nei chahte hai iyea deal sabke samne aye toh bajaj keya karega?