Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Was anyone else thrown off to learn how nice and loving Ashok actually was to Babita in their marriage? I honestly did not see that coming. 😳
That kind of made sense to me... that might be the one reason why babita has such a low self esteem..
If ashok had been a douche from the time she got married, then she would have made peace with it.. if he misbehaved with her, that would have been one big blow and over... then only the initial days would have been really difficult for her but One way or the other, she would have gotten up and start to live again for her daughter..
But what actually happened was like slow and silent killing..she fell in love with this guy, they had a kid whom she loved to death..she loved his family coz of the nice person he was to her.. everything's going all okay in her life and then one day, she gets to know he had an affair from quite some time.. her whole life became a lie in one day..and she didn't even know what went wrong.. That hurts the most..not knowing ki meri kya galti thi..why did this happen to me??... and now she can't even say that its him because once she has known him and he was not this guy.. so that makes her put a question mark on herself.. in first case, she might have realized some day that it's him..he is a bad guy but here, the confusion, it envelops you in your weakest moments and ruins you..