A different perspective on today's episode: 18th September - Page 2

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree about your point that Minnie has fooled her father too. This is exactly what NB was referring to when she asked HS how much he really understood Minnie, to which his response was that she was brave, strong, etc. There's a whole side to her that he hasn't seen.

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

babita having the CD could just have been a miss. maybe babita and mini never realised it was there and babita only realised when the CD was played, that it was still among her things.

@Bold 1 - he did not pursue his questioning but sometimes even 1 question is enough to break things

@Bold 2 - he may be right to feel the way he is feeling, but to not even let mini speak? to physically stop her from going to her babes? babita maybe his wife, he may consider babita his wife without the ceremonies, but he has no right to stop a child from going to the mother. no one does. not even a biological father, not even God.

@Bold 3 - maybe because he never addressed how hurt he was, maybe he should have spoken to mini.

just personal opinions. no offense meant.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

babita having the CD could just have been a miss. maybe babita and mini never realised it was there and babita only realised when the CD was played, that it was still among her things.

@Bold 1 - he did not pursue his questioning but sometimes even 1 question is enough to break things

@Bold 2 - he may be right to feel the way he is feeling, but to not even let mini speak? to physically stop her from going to her babes? babita maybe his wife, he may consider babita his wife without the ceremonies, but he has no right to stop a child from going to the mother. no one does. not even a biological father, not even God.

@Bold 3 - maybe because he never addressed how hurt he was, maybe he should have spoken to mini.

just personal opinions. no offense meant.

None taken.

He raised his hand to stop both Babita and Minnie speaking because he wanted to get his point of view out. I don't think he was stopping Minnie from going to her mother, but if you see it that way then I understand.

Originally posted by: inlieu

None taken.

He raised his hand to stop both Babita and Minnie speaking because he wanted to get his point of view out. I don't think he was stopping Minnie from going to her mother, but if you see it that way then I understand.

i felt it the first time he raised his hand. both mini and babita's hands were raised/ going towards each other for a hug.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree about your point that Minnie has fooled her father too. This is exactly what NB was referring to when she asked HS how much he really understood Minnie, to which his response was that she was brave, strong, etc. There's a whole side to her that he hasn't seen.

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

He did accuse her of planting the CD .

otherwise what made him think she dint want him as Babitas husband or wanted the marriage to be stopped.

Originally posted by: naq5

He did accuse her of planting the CD .

otherwise what made him think she dint want him as Babitas husband or wanted the marriage to be stopped.

It was something else that triggered that thought. I can't put my finger on it. Will wait to see how this is played out.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree about your point that Minnie has fooled her father too. This is exactly what NB was referring to when she asked HS how much he really understood Minnie, to which his response was that she was brave, strong, etc. There's a whole side to her that he hasn't seen.

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

khatri needs to be caught & presented infront of everyone , personally i would want kammo to be the first one to boot him .

Originally posted by: inlieu

It was something else that triggered that thought. I can't put my finger on it. Will wait to see how this is played out.

I don't know if what I'm going to throw down is going to have any relevance but let's see.

• HS always had insecurities regarding his fatherly status in Minnie's life
• Moments before the wedding, Naeem Bi questions him as to how much he really knows Minnie
• Minnie makes the speech wherein she shares her fear that she's going to lose Babes
• HS is tacked onto that speech as an afterthought
• The CD plays and the statements that Minnie uses are a horrible match; it gives the impression that she hasn't gotten over Ashok
• Khatri makes the fatherly comparisons by calling HS a duplicate; or in other words, will never be the original / real deal; he'll always be a pale imitation (which we know is not true)
• all this is circling around, and he jumps to how Minnie initially didn't want him to be with Babes and then he just keeps thinking of more moments that were in the same vein

I don't know if there's anything there but that's all I can think of. 🤔

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't know if what I'm going to throw down is going to have any relevance but let's see.

• HS always had insecurities regarding his fatherly status in Minnie's life
• Moments before the wedding, Naeem Bi questions him as to how much he really knows Minnie
• Minnie makes the speech wherein she shares her fear that she's going to lose Babes
• HS is tacked onto that speech as an afterthought
• The CD plays and the statements that Minnie uses are a horrible match; it gives the impression that she hasn't gotten over Ashok
• Khatri makes the fatherly comparisons by calling HS a duplicate; or in other words, will never be the original / real deal; he'll always be a pale imitation (which we know is not true)
• all this is circling around, and he jumps to how Minnie initially didn't want him to be with Babes and then he just keeps thinking of more moments that were in the same vein

I don't know if there's anything there but that's all I can think of. 🤔

Agree with all your points. I still feel there's something else there but can't put my finger on it. I also do want to hear his perspective on why he didn't look for Minnie or wait for her before entering the haveli with Babita. We think we know but I want to hear it from him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree about your point that Minnie has fooled her father too. This is exactly what NB was referring to when she asked HS how much he really understood Minnie, to which his response was that she was brave, strong, etc. There's a whole side to her that he hasn't seen.

I don't think he accused her of planting that CD or that he genuinely did not trust her, because if that is the case then it is wrong. He asked her how it got there but did not pursue that line of questioning, so I am assuming his doubts were cleared. Let's see. But his feeling hurt was based on the realization (or so he thinks) that she doesn't want him, and I think he is right to feel that way based on the information he currently has. In future, when he finds out the truth - and I really hope this time Khatri is caught - then he needs to take a step back and assess why he was so quick to think Minnie was the one to do this, rather than ask Babita why she still held on to that CD.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree with all your points. I still feel there's something else there but can't put my finger on it. I also do want to hear his perspective on why he didn't look for Minnie or wait for her before entering the haveli with Babita. We think we know but I want to hear it from him.

I agree with the points raised, but even I feel as if something is missing. Some point that the CVs have not shown. Something else is missing.