It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 12

Originally posted by: inlieu

I have to say I agree. They are totally clueless about his feelings, bechaara kuch expect nahin karta, demand bhi nahin karta unse. The one time he expected his daughter to join his family officially, he felt a slap in the face with the whole speech then the CD.

She said haath choot raha hai... what is he to make of it when he pieces everything together. Normally I would be angry with him for not being sensitive to Minnie but if I look at all the events, and especially her standing back deliberately, I don't think he could have done anything else. He just wanted to complete the rituals and go home without further scenes being created.

What ever Babita said was of course below the belt...

But we all know that she is impulsive bolti pehle hai phir sochti hai...

And one more than she knows that HS and Minni are not on good terms like earlier waise me bechaini to hogi na but as always her timing was totally wrong.. She can have this talk next morning as well but not at wedding night...

There is one more thing that babes has never experienced a normal talk with a husband, neither she knows what a husband expects from wife... She was always a mother even in her first marriage... It's obvious for her to have the first thought about her daughter...

So kabhi biwi bani hi nahi this is first time she is a wife and it will take time to balance her duties as wife and a mother...

Atleast we can give her chance yaar... Instead of just bashing her... Just like HS even Babita is a human and she is doing the things which she is used to...

She will get used to wify duties as well but it will take sometime.... I know she will hurt HS again by her words... Bit guys hum galti karke hi to seekhte hai... Wo kaisi bhi bole HS does matters for him just like how Minni for her...

Let us give the trio the time they need....

It's just my personal opinion...

Originally posted by: Shona1991

Bold- agree with that ..but wo b to hurt that kisine usk bre me q na Socha??

Minnie khurana's ko console karnw chali gayi but wat about hurt and ignorance which hs is feeling right now???

Obviously when it comes to Khuranas then 7 khoon maaf, but HS ek uff tak nahin kar sakta.

Punching bag ban ke reh gaya.

Originally posted by: shruti_luvs_msk

mini went to the khuranas only because she felt alone. she felt HS did not need her.

Had HS looked at her once, then she would never have left. she felt as if she is intruding. as if she is a hurdle. HS did not even look at her when she was doing the gath bandhan. he was staring ahead.

I know, right? Get accused of committing such a hideous act and then go and pacify the person who is wrongly accusing you. That too when one person is half the age of the other and probably is emotionally much, much more vulnerable than the hatta-katta inspector guy

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

They're both a problem but Minnie is taking the initiative to step back and let Babes live her life. It'll be tough, but she'll be able to create that independent identity with the support of her friends. Babes on the other hand, usse chod ne ka naam hi ni le ri. 😡 Har baat par Minnie, Minnie, Minnie. Mera toh dum ghutne laga tha. 😵

Ab Babita ko kaun samjaye ga ki she has a husband now to whom she needs to pay attention to. Minnie hi sab kuch ni ho sakti.

husband has just come into babita's life. but mini has been there for 17 years.

babita hs only had mini for her to survive for so many years. just because she is now married doesnt mean everything will change in 1 night. that will need time.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Her obsession is to a frightening level. I understand ki maa hi hai, pyaar karti hai and all that but to this EXTENT? Pati ka kya???

Honestly, agar Minnie hi sab kuch hai phir shaadi hi kyun ki isne?? There was no need to get HS involved. Yeh maa beti ek dusre mein hi khush rehte. 😡

It is very unhealthy and that's what Poonam and NB were referring to. Babita will suffer the most in all this because until she gets the right perspective she will never feel secure in either relationship and will constantly worry about losing one or the other.

Originally posted by: Shona1991

Ya I remember when babes hit him with danda...

Lala was on fire 🔥 that day....

We want that lala back sun rahe ho CVS???

Originally posted by: Shona1991

Through out the wedding they royally ignore hs...

Now it's high time hs ignore them....

I can't see him broken anymore....

Itna dukhi to imarti k Jane l wajahse na hua that jitna yo ma-beti ki wajahse ho Raha se.....

Uff! Tell me about it. I hated seeing his face like that today.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

What ever Babita said was of course below the belt...

But we all know that she is impulsive bolti pehle hai phir sochti hai...

And one more than she knows that HS and Minni are not on good terms like earlier waise me bechaini to hogi na but as always her timing was totally wrong.. She can have this talk next morning as well but not at wedding night...

There is one more thing that babes has never experienced a normal talk with a husband, neither she knows what a husband expects from wife... She was always a mother even in her first marriage... It's obvious for her to have the first thought about her daughter...

So kabhi biwi bani hi nahi this is first time she is a wife and it will take time to balance her duties as wife and a mother...

Atleast we can give her chance yaar... Instead of just bashing her... Just like HS even Babita is a human and she is doing the things which she is used to...

She will get used to wify duties as well but it will take sometime.... I know she will hurt HS again by her words... Bit guys hum galti karke hi to seekhte hai... Wo kaisi bhi bole HS does matters for him just like how Minni for her...

Let us give the trio the time they need....

It's just my personal opinion...

i absolutely love you for saying all this.

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know what? I hate to compare, but he will never fondly remember this wedding night the way he does the one with Imarti.

Nope!

Imarti had fought with him too, but she was fighting for their future. She was establishing that the status quo between them would be one of equals. No one is going to be inferior or superior, and that they're both going to have invest into this relationship.

From the precap, it seemed like Babes was dictating that this is how the relationship is going to go. If Minnie's happy, then I'm happy, if not then my rishta with you means nothing. Da fckk??? Someone has been placed on a higher pedestal (Minnie) and their relationship is being established on conditions.

Yes, Imarti didn't have a teenage daughter that she was bringing with her and that's why this shaadi is going to be more complicated, but it doesn't need to be presented in this manner. This is what Naeem Bi was trying to say about it being different and more complex.

It's his second shaadi and he had hoped he would've been surrounded by the women whom he loves immensely, but yaha toh boundaries aur conditions thopi jaa re hai iss pe.