It's all about trust: ajao saray - Page 11

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ditto!

HS also prioritizes Minnie but that doesn't mean he ignores everyone else. Babita doesn't know the whole story, but this is the room of her late MIL, one who she knows died in tragic circumstances. If she can feel for Minnie as a mother, can she not even think of the plight of the young HS when he lost his mother?

That is insensitive to another level altogether.

She is flailing because her crutch, Minnie, is no longer there.

Ugh, Babita is disappointing and pissing me off to a whole other level. I'm so disappointed in her. Where the eff did all that emotional maturity go in her?? I thought this would have been one thing that she would understand the most about HS, but nope! Minnie ke samne toh saari duniya kuch bhi ni. Bhaad mein jaye sab log, bas beti hi rahe iske paas.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

How does this make Babita's reaction justified? This is HS' MOTHER, another woman whom he loves dearly but never spoke about. What's so wrong if he wanted to share some memories of her with Babes?

For Babes to dismiss his feelings and wants in that moment and give more importance to Minnie was wrong. It's essentially her stating that only Minnie and she matter in this relationship; tum aur tumhari zarooratein jaye bhad mein.

I'm just SO MAD at Babes right now.

@Bold 1 - there is nothing wrong. the precap gave some context not all, so i wont say anything on this.

@Bold 2 - i dont agree with this. babita has always been very sensitive towards HS feelings, even for imarti.

i dont know why, but everyone is so negative about a mother thinking about her child first. babita loves HS but they still have to journey towards each other to find true love.

but babes and mini already share a true love bond. they have been there for each other for 17 years. THey are literally 2 bodies 1 soul.

and babita dismissed HS feelings, what about her feelings? just because HS is hurt doesnt mean babita will swtich off her feelings. she is the only whose ugly past reared its head. 17 years worth of memories crashing around her, and then the man who she felt could love her and her daughter, could accept that they are together, crushed her hopes so badly?

i think the CVs did not show it, but babita would have been hurt worse. to hear the man you love mistrust the most important part of your life, your daughter has got to hurt worse than what HS felt.

HS felt so bad when he knows mini only for a few months, though he has done a lot for her in these months, but how bad would babita have felt to hear such things for her daughter?

HS wanted to share some feelings, but why did babita burst out - wont comment on this till i see the episode.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I hate to say this, but in a way I agree.

He would have probably ignored Babita too if he weren't marrying her. They both hurt him a lot. He was so numb that he didn't even react when Babita was searching for Minnie out loud. Why would he look for Minnie when he thinks she doesn't want him in their lives? He doesn't even feel he can bear to look her in the eye because he would keep searching for something that he thought was there but isn't. I am afraid that he's already started internalizing everything after this dhakka.

Also, Minnie decided to step back and not be at the scene - the self-pity nonsense due to which she shot herself in the foot. She deliberately chose to act the martyr when she started picking up the rice grains in order to be one of the people her mother leaves behind. She did not do anything for HS of her own volition either. Yes, she was hurt by his words but it was his big day too, she did not think to just stand there and at least try to be normal with him the way she was doing with NB. She had it in her to go see the Khuranas who did a lot of bad things but not a single word for her HS? The reason for her mother and her happiness? Her absence did not assure either of her parents and it probably made HS feel that she did not really want to be around when they were getting married.

The fact that the episode started with the wedding rituals made me think that there was no further conversation since the previous one. Minnie had all those flashbacks of him since day one, and out of all the things that happened she chose to stay with the last thing he said to her. It really showed me that she is nowhere close to loving him the way he loves her.

The look on his face as he applied the sindoor, he barely managed a half-smile that didn't even feel genuine. I think he lost all his confidence and enthusiasm and based on what I saw in the pre-cap he's going to be hurt further. Also, for some reason, Babita's words made it look like she was insinuating that HS did not care about her daughter. It was fine for her to slap Minnie based on Ashok's words or to say whatever she wanted to her regarding the jewelry but if HS so much as expresses his hurt, he suddenly becomes an uncaring parent/spouse? Maybe the precap is misleading but I was royally ticked off. I hope he either gives them both the silent treatment or just asks Babita why she married him if Minnie is all she cares about.

He finally married the woman he loves and technically can become Minnie's father but he did not even look happy or involved during the ceremony, not even when they were entering the house. His body was there but his soul was not. I understand that Babita was worried about Minnie but she's not a kid who would get lost in the crowd. She did not even look at the man she was marrying or smile back at him. What on earth?

I know it's now ITV tradition for couples not to get intimate so quickly but this is taking it to another level. Yet again the stairs ka fasla has come up, and this time both Babita and Minnie are standing on the other side, as HS will continue to look up at something that is unattainable.

The one solace I have is NB's facial expression telling me she knew exactly what was going on and hopefully will continue to dig further. Minnie needs help, fast, before her savior complex destroys her young mind because it looks like Babita will continue to nurture it in her own indirect way.

Mini keeps saying to Babes that

Log to kahenge.. ignore kar. Dil pe Mat le.

But the moment Kammo said something, she took it to heart. She never practices what she preaches.

HS got her matching lahenga. Told her he wants his Daughter and Wife to do grah prevesh. At every step, HS and babes kept assuring her that she is not 3rd person to them. She is not being left behind. They are making her feel wanted by their words and actions.

Yet, she takes Kammo’s words. Some neighbors words over her own parents?

I am sorry I don’t sympathize with her here. She is wallowing in her self-pity. Neither Babita nor HS has insinuated that she is not part of them.

If you keep preaching for 200 episodes to ignore “log kya kahenge” and then you go and take logo ke words to heart, then problem lies in you.

You can’t see grand gesture of your Hanuman Uncle to make you part of this family as much as your Babes, and then you go and not even include him in your speech while you have words to spare for lovely? I don’t have much to say.

You can go and console Khuranas but not spare a sight to Hanuman?

Mini grabbing rice grain in her Pallu is her own self pity. She is feeling unwanted is her own created web which has no solid bases for me.

Like you said while grabbing rice she self Martyred herself.

If anyone who is being made to feel like unwanted 3rd wheel at every step of this wedding is HS.

His hurt is acceptable. Is understandable.

I am someone who has been disconnected from mini since Imarti track and it continues!

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Just LOOK at this face! There was a little glimmer of hope in his eyes and smile. But NO, chakna chur kar do iss ko. 😭😡

You know what? I hate to compare, but he will never fondly remember this wedding night the way he does the one with Imarti.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ditto!

HS also prioritizes Minnie but that doesn't mean he ignores everyone else. Babita doesn't know the whole story, but this is the room of her late MIL, one who she knows died in tragic circumstances. If she can feel for Minnie as a mother, can she not even think of the plight of the young HS when he lost his mother?

That is insensitive to another level altogether.

She is flailing because her crutch, Minnie, is no longer there.

Actually now I'm done with babes and Minnie....

Mana show he unk naam pe bana he but HS ki charecter ne to bAhot sari trp di he na??

Why it's always about Minnie and babes kabhi akele hs nahi ho skta??

Why babes he was so excited to share with you and you shut him up??

WTH NB plz come and hs ko mayk le Jao apne rehne do makan Malkin aur uski beti ne apni haveli main....

Originally posted by: inlieu

Isn't that supposed to be what FLs do? These CVs and their obsession with role reversal! 😆

On a serious note, bas bhi karo CVs. Aniruddh has glycerin, we don't. Our tear sacs are being emptied out.

First we were seeing him cry and saying " Shaadi karao...Shaadi karao" now after HS post marriage crying we will be like "divorce karao...."🤪

Originally posted by: Shona1991

Bold- agree with that ..but wo b to hurt that kisine usk bre me q na Socha??

Minnie khurana's ko console karnw chali gayi but wat about hurt and ignorance which hs is feeling right now???

mini went to the khuranas only because she felt alone. she felt HS did not need her.

Had HS looked at her once, then she would never have left. she felt as if she is intruding. as if she is a hurdle. HS did not even look at her when she was doing the gath bandhan. he was staring ahead.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Ab to mujhe lala se hi ummed hai. I want him to jhaado both mother daughter like he had done in earlier episodes.

Ya I remember when babes hit him with danda...

Lala was on fire 🔥 that day....

We want that lala back sun rahe ho CVS???

Originally posted by: inlieu

Isn't that supposed to be what FLs do? These CVs and their obsession with role reversal! 😆

On a serious note, bas bhi karo CVs. Aniruddh has glycerin, we don't. Our tear sacs are being emptied out.

I don't think Aniruddh always uses glycerin. He feels every emotion of the character and hence the perfection. He had told during Imarti track it was difficult for him to come out of it. It's the kind of artist he is.

As per the show I don't think HS sufferings will end soon. From what I gathered from CVS tweets it should make Minnie see her babes in new light.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Sure she can think of her Babes first but not think about HS at all?

not saying that. but in all the functions she has included HS. she arranged everything for him.

she did not mention him in his speech - not right, i agree.

but if we actually think from another POV, mini is getting her mother married to someone who will become her father. i still say it is natural for her to think of her babes first