Why a Warris? Why Boy vs Girl?

Why a Warris?

Dadis Warris Wish & Demand😡

• Today I felt irritated with Dadis wish regarding Warris!
• It wasn’t the time or place, especially after Antara chapter & her Darkness Warning hovering over Jindal Bhavan & Family, the tension between Akshan.
• There was no need to pressurize Guddan or even AJ especially when they need time and space to understand how they want their relationship to work.
• A person could clearly see that Guddan wasn’t her bubbly self, she had sadness in them and she wast determine.
• By Dadis wish it seems she is interested in seeing a Male Heir of Akshan rather then Female Heiress .
• I am so glad Guddan is going away from Selfish Dadi & didnt by into her Demand & she left.

Does a Girl or Boy Heir Matter?

• In todays time everyone if elders are adapting to technology IPHONE, Watapp/FaceTime, Woman Empowerment, Woman in Sports or Male Orientated Jobs etc.
• Why does Saas despite her self being a woman: a daughter, sister, niece, Wife & Mother prefer Boy Warris over Girl Warris?
• When will the mindset of our society change, that it doesn’t matter whether a Warris is Ladki or Ladka they can equally be capable of handling the responsibilities of their parents. Especially a Beti can equally manage the House Responsibilities of both her Mayaka & Sasural
• After the leap, when all the issues, problems are solved n sorted out between Akshan and they are reunited & ready to become a parent I want them to discuss the Issue of Warris having a Girl or Boy Child!
• I am thankful that CVs has shown Supportive, Understanding Father through the character of Bhushan Gupta who is proud to have both of his daughters Guddan & Revti in his life & they are his Pride, Honor & Respect. 🙏

What about Elder Grandsons?

• Today I felt bad for Kishore, Vardaan and Rahul Jindal
• Even though they are Dadis elder grandson her Elder Son Kids & AJ’s adopted Sons she doesn’t consider them her Warris. That was uncalled for and wrong.
• For the past 15 years Dadi knew that AJ was pining for his First Deceased WIfe Antara Jindal, AJ had no interest in Marriage!
• But why didn’t Dadi ask Durga, Lakshmi, Saru, especially Durga to give her Warris?
• Whether its grandson or great-grandson or great-granddaughter Khoon is Khoon & Heir is Heir.

Why a Warris?

• Mother in laws like Dadi can really break a beautiful relationship between their Son & Bahu by pressurizing them for a Warris.
• Both Akshat Jindal & Guddan Akshat Jindal have been barely been with each-other for 1 year in their relationship & marriage, they barely had time to communicate properly with each other and knowing what their spouse wants for themselves or in their relationship.
• Whether its Love or Arrange, or 50-50 marriage first year of marriage for every couple First Year should be about learning about each-other, adjusting & adapting to living with each other, new house environment (rules, traditions, family members etc), accepting each other’s habits, likes & dislikes, nature & personality.
• From 1st year anniversary, 2nd year should be focused on what does a couple want, which direction do they want to take their relationship! Do they want kids, where in Career they want to be in, where do they want to live different place, with parents or in another country etc.

Elders Should Respect Younger Couple Decision

• Even though we love & Respect our Parents, Saas & Saasur, the decision to bring a Child into the world should be Mutual Decision taken by a Couple whether they are Newlyweds or Married Couple for 3+years.
• Bringing a child into a world is huge responsibility A child should be symbol of Love between any couple but not represent Majboori or be a Bhool that tying down one or both parents in Unwanted Marriage.
• A child should be raised in a environment where the parents are happy and willing to do their share of duty
• We thing child is baby, infants or toddlers or in elementary school they are small n they don’t understand their parents, but children can sense and detect the emotions generating from both their parents.

Appreciation

• My appreciation and respect goes out to all the married couple who have mutually
• decided not to have kids in their marriage, because the decision is tough.
• Some society people, Mohelle ki Auntys, Elders don’t understand that even though a couple loves each other, they don’t want to bring a child into a world because they are satisfied with the companionship & Saath of their Better Half.

mother-in-law are always after waris

here dadi is not wrong but timing was really bad

motherinlaw think daughter in law as baby making machine thats it nothing else matters .

that doesnt end there some want boy kid..

they even think without kids there is no life ...(personal experience got enough taunts from mil to street aunties i had no answers but my hubby gave a befitting answers by saying we are free birds no torture from kids😆 )

this has been the thing for ages ..

after marriage baby thing occurs in every household ..

yes piku ur topic is bang on why kishore,vardhan ,rahul are not even taken seriously no wonder durga felt left out when guddan entered .

but luckily aj doesnt think baby is the only way to complete the family he was not comfortable he knows guddan was not ready he somehow started understanding guddan .

but her walking out came as a storm because he thought like always she will be ok with it and be chulbuli but he even feared he might lose her ..

coming to dadi has always been selfish somewhere or the other its always my lalla and his waris

do u remember she took lightly when bhushaniji insult lightly but when kaushaliya yelled at bahu's blamed aj of being careless dadi started of defending aj and bahu's saying vessels when collided make sounds blah blah..

dadi always been like that

even antara track hurtful words she spoke for guddan slapping her being a women and so called mom of guddan never once understood why guddan is blaming antara..

warris enlightened her whether its guddan or antara doesnt matter ..

dadi always pushy one ..no big deal all saas same story ..

real life i really appreciate sushmita sen who opted to be mother of 2 without even marrying

raveena who got married had kids on her own yet had 2 girls adopted whom she settled well and married them off..

blood related /adopted it should be individual decision

• We thing child is baby, infants or toddlers or in elementary school they are small n they don’t understand their parents, but children can sense and detect the emotions generating from both their parents.----this line bang on tender age is key to future if parents are not getting along it affects kids mentally.....psychologically if u see what we saw in tender age somewhere it really affects in somewhere or the other and kids don't forget that easily.....few kids take as good example not to be like that few become psychic mentally disturbed kids they go violently u can see mass killing etc...

Ya exactly Dadi is so despo for a waaris

Did she forget about how a year back, Akshat wasn't even moving on in life for 15 years?! That time all she wanted was a wife for Akshat so that he moves on...

Now that he has a wife, she wants a heir of the family. She wasn't even thinking about it, till that pregnancy confusion occured, that's when she realizes it's possible too that's why she is so despo for one.

But this is not the right time to talk about it, especially when so much happened and Guddan was accused of a child killer and a lot of misunderstandings occured.

As about boy or girl, what matters to her more is that the baby should be of Akshat's blood, I think she isn't really particular about the gender if she is, then I really have nothing to say as I didn't expect that from her especially when she has three grandsons.

If in the future of the show, Akshan do have a child, I have a feeling it will be a baby girl cause even during the pregnancy confusion track, the kinners blessed guddan that she will have a daughter very soon which is very much possible.

I think dadi always wanted her lalla to get married is only for waaris I.e. a boy..and what the timing means the before day all hungama finished and immediately both her son and daughter-in-law should be in this process only🤦‍♀️

In my family only one of my distant relative dint inform anyone that she had a grand daughter ..we asked why she answered its a girl what is there to celebrate.really when a woman herself is giving such statement then what we can expect from others

Actually this taboo of ghar ka waaris is a boy and he is the one who carries khandan ka naam aagey and blah blah is predominantly seen in India.. but I was surprised when a Chinese person ( a friend) in my country asked me the same question looking at my two gals..that what about your tree..it will stop with your gals🤣

This thinking should be changed nowadays many are accepting boy and girl as equal and equal opportunities are given but still a lot to be change.boy or girl what they give to the society depends on the environment they are raised.

The first step towards this change should be taken by a women herself..A woman should stop consider herself physically weak..should stop asking for special places in buses and trains..why we should ask..there itself we are giving a chance to point a finger on us and many more are there.

If we want a change then we should be the change and it should start from our house by treating our kids equally.