Sympathies with Kuhu - Page 6

I was reading all your msgs regarding sympathies with kuhu...

But let me say something, i do felt poor kuhu she is not realising but at the same time I have the opinion like she has written her own fate.

Just in case Mishti, BP or BM came to know about the deal n if they try to convince kuhu, u guys think she, Varsha n the clan will agree... They will again say Mishti has some problem with kuhu n she don't want marriage to happen... I felt it is Mishti's that insecurity has led her to do all that drastic things..n if BP n BM say something Varsha n her clan will somehow make it in their favour..

Im actually feeling that kuhu needs this reality check n CVS has done it correctly as I have seen so many girls without thinking anything making big big decisions... Especially in the case of love, blindly they will believe their loved ones and will not be ready to listen even their parents...I have seen so many cases where parents has to say yes to the relationship coz of the pressure from the kids though they don't like it...so in kuhu's case I don't think she will be ready to listen to anyone...

N if Mishti came to know the deal she will definitely try to break the marriage n she will have listen for this for her entire life...I'm happy that it din happen that way... Once again mishti's dilemma I can't see...

Coming back to kuhu, she is actually very very innocent n not thinking anything with brain...if she has used her brain atleast a pinch during the entire email Fiasco, she must have came to know what Kunal is making her do...how much ever she hates mishti, she very well know that her entire family will be tensed if the news came out... She was just blindly thinking about Kunal n his love..her Bidaai time also she was unhappy with Mishti bcoz Kunal was getting irritated...but I'm happy that they both hug it out...

Actually I'm feeling bad for Parul n Abir. They have done all these thinking Kunal loves kuhu.. when they will come to know the truth it will be really sad..

I was reading all your msgs regarding sympathies with kuhu...

But let me say something, i do felt poor kuhu she is not realising but at the same time I have the opinion like she has written her own fate.

Just in case Mishti, BP or BM came to know about the deal n if they try to convince kuhu, u guys think she, Varsha n the clan will agree... They will again say Mishti has some problem with kuhu n she don't want marriage to happen... I felt it is Mishti's that insecurity has led her to do all that drastic things..n if BP n BM say something Varsha n her clan will somehow make it in their favour..

Im actually feeling that kuhu needs this reality check n CVS has done it correctly as I have seen so many girls without thinking anything making big big decisions... Especially in the case of love, blindly they will believe their loved ones and will not be ready to listen even their parents...I have seen so many cases where parents has to say yes to the relationship coz of the pressure from the kids though they don't like it...so in kuhu's case I don't think she will be ready to listen to anyone...

N if Mishti came to know the deal she will definitely try to break the marriage n she will have listen for this for her entire life...I'm happy that it din happen that way... Once again mishti's dilemma I can't see...

Coming back to kuhu, she is actually very very innocent n not thinking anything with brain...if she has used her brain atleast a pinch during the entire email Fiasco, she must have came to know what Kunal is making her do...how much ever she hates mishti, she very well know that her entire family will be tensed if the news came out... She was just blindly thinking about Kunal n his love..her Bidaai time also she was unhappy with Mishti bcoz Kunal was getting irritated...but I'm happy that they both hug it out...

Actually I'm feeling bad for Parul n Abir. They have done all these thinking Kunal loves kuhu.. when they will come to know the truth it will be really sad..

I think CVS r giving correct msg to everyone out there like BE IN LOVE BUT DON'T BE BLIND

The family were skeptical about Kunal but they got blindsided by abir and family exuberance.. except meenu and her munna rest of the fam has been very very warm ...

I feel Abir and mishti have been callous they could see the cracks in KuKu but they overlooked it .. Shaurya , Varsha kept on asking mishti is this guy is not right for u how can he be good for kuhu .. but mishti to be a great sis overlooked his selfishness..

KuKu relationship will take a breaking point .. kuhu will try to do something drastic then Parul will hit Kunal and call him out for being a bad husband and a bad Son .. then Kunal will get shocked .. he will feel cheated by Big Ben .. then kuhu and his relationship will mend

I think once his birth truth comes out in the open, the he will regret doing wrong with Kuhu. I also want him to learn the truth about Swetha and how Big Ben used her to manipulate him. Shayad tab Big Ben Ko AKal aaJaye.

Originally posted by: Seethal00

I was reading all your msgs regarding sympathies with kuhu...

But let me say something, i do felt poor kuhu she is not realising but at the same time I have the opinion like she has written her own fate.

Just in case Mishti, BP or BM came to know about the deal n if they try to convince kuhu, u guys think she, Varsha n the clan will agree... They will again say Mishti has some problem with kuhu n she don't want marriage to happen... I felt it is Mishti's that insecurity has led her to do all that drastic things..n if BP n BM say something Varsha n her clan will somehow make it in their favour..

Im actually feeling that kuhu needs this reality check n CVS has done it correctly as I have seen so many girls without thinking anything making big big decisions... Especially in the case of love, blindly they will believe their loved ones and will not be ready to listen even their parents...I have seen so many cases where parents has to say yes to the relationship coz of the pressure from the kids though they don't like it...so in kuhu's case I don't think she will be ready to listen to anyone...

N if Mishti came to know the deal she will definitely try to break the marriage n she will have listen for this for her entire life...I'm happy that it din happen that way... Once again mishti's dilemma I can't see...

Coming back to kuhu, she is actually very very innocent n not thinking anything with brain...if she has used her brain atleast a pinch during the entire email Fiasco, she must have came to know what Kunal is making her do...how much ever she hates mishti, she very well know that her entire family will be tensed if the news came out... She was just blindly thinking about Kunal n his love..her Bidaai time also she was unhappy with Mishti bcoz Kunal was getting irritated...but I'm happy that they both hug it out...

Actually I'm feeling bad for Parul n Abir. They have done all these thinking Kunal loves kuhu.. when they will come to know the truth it will be really sad..

Seetha, my question to you is shouldn’t punishment be commensurate to the crime? Is blind trust deserving of a punishment like an abusive marriage? If your answer is yes, then I cannot say anything else to you but if your answer is a no or maybe, then do think for a moment...kuhu’s crime is blind trust on kunal. She tried to trap mishti with the email too in that blind trust. And except for that incident, has she done harm to mishti? If verbal abuse is the crime, then what is the punishment you would prescribe jasmeet who is atleast as much if not more abusive to mishti?

An abusive marriage is way too harsh a punishment is what we are saying.

Originally posted by: msin

The family were skeptical about Kunal but they got blindsided by abir and family exuberance.. except meenu and her munna rest of the fam has been very very warm ...

I feel Abir and mishti have been callous they could see the cracks in KuKu but they overlooked it .. Shaurya , Varsha kept on asking mishti is this guy is not right for u how can he be good for kuhu .. but mishti to be a great sis overlooked his selfishness..

KuKu relationship will take a breaking point .. kuhu will try to do something drastic then Parul will hit Kunal and call him out for being a bad husband and a bad Son .. then Kunal will get shocked .. he will feel cheated by Big Ben .. then kuhu and his relationship will mend

Totally agree with bold parts above. Like We mentioned in some of the posts, the family should have been more diligent. And since elders didn’t do what they should have, it fell to people like abir and mishti and while they tried to do right, their lack of experience led them to do a few mistakes. Mishti should really have told her family the red flags she saw which made her reject kunal and maybe they all together could have tried harder to show kuhu the true face of kunal but alas, it never happened.

Sum of everything now is kuhu is facing an abusive marriage.

Kunal deserves the punishment he gets but it is really a harsh punishment for kuhu for trusting the wrong person

Originally posted by: zack69

I think once his birth truth comes out in the open, the he will regret doing wrong with Kuhu. I also want him to learn the truth about Swetha and how Big Ben used her to manipulate him. Shayad tab Big Ben Ko AKal aaJaye.

Hehe high hopes of akal ever coming for Big Ben. She will live and die an egomaniac.

First of all we don't know whether it is an abusive marriage or not but anyhow things r not going to be easy for kuhu...I'm not telling kuhu deserves punishment n even I'm feeling sorry for her..

N that email thing is not a small thing... actually if Abir din turn out to be savior for Mishti that entire episode can be a big Fiasco...how a fiancee can be so cheap to ask his girl to do such a cheapo thing..just imagine can you justify your friend if they have done the same...

N how much ever kuhu tells that she hates Mishti, she considers Mishti as her family..n kuhu loves her family too ...that email incident may b targeted for Mishti but it can cause problem to the entire family...

What I'm trying to say is kuhu blind trust in Kunal is what made her to pay for it ..v can't really blame elders coz I don't think kuhu will listen to anyone if they try to correct her...she was too much in blind love for Kunal...

Now may be she will realise what has happened n v can only sympathies her...may be after knowing the truth she may b able to connect to the entire thing..if she has used her brain n thought a little bit before the whole thing will be different...but as she is in love with him v couldn't expect that...she just wanted Kunal to be hers ...

Seetha, my question to you is shouldn’t punishment be commensurate to the crime? Is blind trust deserving of a punishment like an abusive marriage? If your answer is yes, then I cannot say anything else to you but if your answer is a no or maybe, then do think for a moment...kuhu’s crime is blind trust on kunal. She tried to trap mishti with the email too in that blind trust. And except for that incident, has she done harm to mishti? If verbal abuse is the crime, then what is the punishment you would prescribe jasmeet who is atleast as much if not more abusive to mishti?

An abusive marriage is way too harsh a punishment is what we are saying.

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First of all we don't know whether it is an abusive marriage or not but anyhow things r not going to be easy for kuhu...I'm not telling kuhu deserves punishment n even I'm feeling sorry for her..

N that email thing is not a small thing... actually if Abir din turn out to be savior for Mishti that entire episode can be a big Fiasco...how a fiancee can be so cheap to ask his girl to do such a cheapo thing..just imagine can you justify your friend if they have done the same...

N how much ever kuhu tells that she hates Mishti, she considers Mishti as her family..n kuhu loves her family too ...that email incident may b targeted for Mishti but it can cause problem to the entire family...

What I'm trying to say is kuhu blind trust in Kunal is what made her to pay for it ..v can't really blame elders coz I don't think kuhu will listen to anyone if they try to correct her...she was too much in blind love for Kunal...

Now may be she will realise what has happened n v can only sympathies her...may be after knowing the truth she may b able to connect to the entire thing..if she has used her brain n thought a little bit before the whole thing will be different...but as she is in love with him v couldn't expect that...she just wanted Kunal to be hers ...

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Yes we don’t know yet if it will be an abusive marriage but meenakshi’s behavior till now and kunal’s two faced behavior today does give a sense of foreboding. I hope it isn’t.

Yes, the email thing wasn’t small and I really hoped mishti would publicly have called kuhu out on it in front of family so the family could have known what her weird fiancée is making her do. Kuhu behaved totally stupidly throughout and I just hope she realizes her mistake and becomes a more mature now.