Sympathies with Kuhu

I'm unable to enjoy this wedding track not because it's just hampering mishbir time but it's too much - a girl shouldn't have to pay for loving a wrong person.. Punishment shouldn't be marriage

Moving to different thread dedicated to this as we were hampering happy places😆

Originally posted by: guy3

You wrote exactly what was in my mind! It is like Bali ki bakri...saare decorations ke saath halal hone jaa rahi hai. I don’t know why they didn’t even show any track of maheshwaris telling her what to expect after marriage. Like you said, she has been sheltered and bratty. I had hopes when Ananya came...that she would catch on and warn her but nope. Writers are lost in the festivities. Every show will show the festivities but I expected atleast one realistic heart to heart chat of an elder in the family with the bride to be. Maybe I expect too much from this show.

Marriage is not a joke and the whole kuku marriage just seems to trivialize it from the start. This is not a decision that can be reversed easily if found wrong! The red flags, warning signs are all there...no pretty dresses can gloss over the ugly stuff. What rose tinted glasses are these maheshwaris wearing?!

Like you said, I wouldn’t wish it for my worst enemy and here the daughter of the house is being pushed into hell for eternity! I still wish somehow that kunal does run away and the marriage doesn’t happen. Or perhaps kuhu herself calls it off after coming to know that kunal tried to run away....I don’t want kuhu’s life destroyed for abir to win Against his mother.

Rajshri and Varsha were lucky with their spouses doesnt mean that they hope against hope that everything “will work out” for kuhu. Where is mrs.parekh? I am hoping atleast she comes at this point to get some reaction out of Varsha. I don’t know why I am losing sleep over a fictional character. Maybe I have a daughter, that’s why. I can’t believe how blind they can be!

you know my cousin got engaged recently both the groom and bride were taken in separate rooms to be asked.. From all members of opposite family

Kunal should have been interrogated especially when they know Meenu is such an influence and head of the family. But story ka plot kaise aage badhta.

Abir's pretty words won't be enough for future. He can't follow kuhu 24x7 and moreover or kuch ni to kuhu ko duniya se deal krne ka gyan aana chahiye tha pr yaha to Sach chupane me time waste ho raha hai... Emails bheje Ja rhe hai... Khaandaan to raha hai baraat ni aayi to kya hoga.. Seriously ni aate to Acha hai na.. Zabardasti ka rishta na ho to better hai

Saare bheek maangne me lag gaye.... Tu or mai zyada kr rhe hai expect bas soch kuhu Sach ki character ni hai bas. Id cried for hours. My mom was like something happened to Mishti? I said bad thing is going to happen to kuhu. I know from personal experience kuhu is going to be much more stronger than before. No offense If same thing happened to Mishti, she wouldn't recover easily

Thanks for letting me vent dear

Yes what's happening to her is sad but she brought this on herself. Kuhu is an adult no one forced her for this marriage but she was the one who ended up getting drunk and sitting on a ledge. She is the one who has first hand been insulted by Kunal yet the next day instead of calling him out on it she starts dancing with him. She is the one who ignored how Kunal asked her to do such a vile thing such X send an email to frame her sister. She is the one who hasn't noticed that Kunal barely talks about them and their ristha. She is the one who chose to ignore that one her parentage truth came out instead of taking a stand for her Kunal lashed out on her. She is the one who sacrificed her self respect for Kunal by legit going on her knees and Kunal didn't even get an eyelid. When the ristha was in the process of getting fixed BP was skeptical. He wasn't fully convinced and at that time he asked Kuhu that what does she want? She said that ever since she set eyes on Kunal she wanted him to be a major part of her life and she doesn't even need time to think. That's one BP agreed. The whole family is ignoring the antics because Kuhu herself is ignoring her in-laws and their trash antics. She is desperate to get married to Kunal and the whole fam is aware of her desperation. So, no I won't blame the family because in this case there wasn't any pressure on Kuhu this was her own decision and she needs to bear the consequences of it. It does hurt to see her like this but she kind of brought it on herself by being blind to Kunal's faults.

Originally posted by: meen123

I'm unable to enjoy this wedding track not because it's just hampering mishbir time but it's too much - a girl shouldn't have to pay for loving a wrong person.. Punishment shouldn't be marriage

Moving to different thread dedicated to this as we were hampering happy places😆

you know my cousin got engaged recently both the groom and bride were taken in separate rooms to be asked.. From all members of opposite family

Kunal should have been interrogated especially when they know Meenu is such an influence and head of the family. But story ka plot kaise aage badhta.

Abir's pretty words won't be enough for future. He can't follow kuhu 24x7 and moreover or kuch ni to kuhu ko duniya se deal krne ka gyan aana chahiye tha pr yaha to Sach chupane me time waste ho raha hai... Emails bheje Ja rhe hai... Khaandaan to raha hai baraat ni aayi to kya hoga.. Seriously ni aate to Acha hai na.. Zabardasti ka rishta na ho to better hai

Saare bheek maangne me lag gaye.... Tu or mai zyada kr rhe hai expect bas soch kuhu Sach ki character ni hai bas. Id cried for hours. My mom was like something happened to Mishti? I said bad thing is going to happen to kuhu. I know from personal experience kuhu is going to be much more stronger than before. No offense If same thing happened to Mishti, she wouldn't recover easily

Thanks for letting me vent dear

Something like this won't happen with Misthi because she recognised Kunal's toxic traits and at the right time she broke the alliance. She made a rational decision and that's where the difference lies in both Kuhu and Misthi. Kuhu does not think before she leaps and like a child she justs wants her favorite toy and it's only because of her own attitude that she will fall face flat on the ground. Misthi on the other hand thinks before she leaps and sometimes she even over thinks but her attitude is not childish which kind of insures that she won't fall like this.

I think Kuhu is the only grey shaded character in this show. One can dislike her to the core, but at the same time can't help sympathise with her, because of her circumstances. She is cause of the situation she will be in after marriage, but at the same time she will be a victim too. I don't know how will writers take the character hereon, whether she will burry what Meenu and her Munna did to her and in Meenu's company groom herself to be a bigger conspirator against Mishti or rise from here and become a responsible and rational person in life. Hope it's the later. I wish her experiences make her shine..

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Something like this won't happen with Misthi because she recognised Kunal's toxic traits and at the right time she broke the alliance. She made a rational decision and that's where the difference lies in both Kuhu and Misthi. Kuhu does not think before she leaps and like a child she justs wants her favorite toy and it's only because of her own attitude that she will fall face flat on the ground. Misthi on the other hand thinks before she leaps and sometimes she even over thinks but her attitude is not childish which kind of insures that she won't fall like this.

I meant if Mishti does make a wrong decision, it'd be hard for her to forgive herself... Overthinkers like me and her analyse their mistakes and the guilt swallows us up..

I wasn't trying to offend or something.

Mishti is human at the end of the day. She'd have married Kunal too if meenakshi hadn't brought Naman.. Bhala ho aunty ka😆 before you say ki Abir nanko Ko rokne vala tha shaadi ke liye I doubt vo b rok pata nanko Ko, jab vo apni maa ko bol chuka k vo dobara fail ni ho sakta. Abir ko confess krna padta he loves Mishti then and there to break that rishta which would have been entirely another mess

Originally posted by: ZindagiCalling

I think Kuhu is the only grey shaded character in this show. One can dislike her to the core, but at the same time can't help sympathise with her, because of her circumstances. She is cause of the situation she will be in after marriage, but at the same time she will be a victim too. I don't know how will writers take the character hereon, whether she will burry what Meenu and her Munna did to her and in Meenu's company groom herself to be a bigger conspirator against Mishti or rise from here and become a responsible and rational person in life. Hope it's the later. I wish her experiences make her shine..

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Yes what's happening to her is sad but she brought this on herself. Kuhu is an adult no one forced her for this marriage but she was the one who ended up getting drunk and sitting on a ledge. She is the one who has first hand been insulted by Kunal yet the next day instead of calling him out on it she starts dancing with him. She is the one who ignored how Kunal asked her to do such a vile thing such X send an email to frame her sister. She is the one who hasn't noticed that Kunal barely talks about them and their ristha. She is the one who chose to ignore that one her parentage truth came out instead of taking a stand for her Kunal lashed out on her. She is the one who sacrificed her self respect for Kunal by legit going on her knees and Kunal didn't even get an eyelid. When the ristha was in the process of getting fixed BP was skeptical. He wasn't fully convinced and at that time he asked Kuhu that what does she want? She said that ever since she set eyes on Kunal she wanted him to be a major part of her life and she doesn't even need time to think. That's one BP agreed. The whole family is ignoring the antics because Kuhu herself is ignoring her in-laws and their trash antics. She is desperate to get married to Kunal and the whole fam is aware of her desperation. So, no I won't blame the family because in this case there wasn't any pressure on Kuhu this was her own decision and she needs to bear the consequences of it. It does hurt to see her like this but she kind of brought it on herself by being blind to Kunal's faults.

Can you explain the bits in bold and what actually happened haven't watched all the episodes.

Originally posted by: meen123

zara what I should rephrase, I wanted to say that I think kuhu will emerge strong of her wrong decision. It's going to be shattering, but with her family and time she will rise above all of this

I meant if Mishti does make a wrong decision, it'd be hard for her to forgive herself... Overthinkers like me and her analyse their mistakes and the guilt swallows us up..

I wasn't trying to offend or something.

Mishti is human at the end of the day. She'd have married Kunal too if meenakshi hadn't brought Naman.. Bhala ho aunty ka😆 before you say ki Abir nanko Ko rokne vala tha shaadi ke liye I doubt vo b rok pata nanko Ko, jab vo apni maa ko bol chuka k vo dobara fail ni ho sakta. Abir ko confess krna padta he loves Mishti then and there to break that rishta which would have been entirely another mess

Meen I wasn't offended at all. Was just trying to justify the differences between Kuhu and Mish. Kuhu for me is a sore subject because I was like her blind in love and I kind of fell flat on the ground. Baqi with Misthi I get your over thinking wala stance but Mish also has the capacity to dust off and get back up whenever she cries. Even in this track Mish somewhat tried to mould stuff in her favor. I feel if Mish had married the wrong person she would have struggled but would have dealt with it . For Kuhu I am actually worried because she is making excuses for Kunal's behavior and she seems like someone who would be willing to put up with torture to save her marriage. Let's see though.

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Yes what's happening to her is sad but she brought this on herself. Kuhu is an adult no one forced her for this marriage but she was the one who ended up getting drunk and sitting on a ledge. She is the one who has first hand been insulted by Kunal yet the next day instead of calling him out on it she starts dancing with him. She is the one who ignored how Kunal asked her to do such a vile thing such X send an email to frame her sister. She is the one who hasn't noticed that Kunal barely talks about them and their ristha. She is the one who chose to ignore that one her parentage truth came out instead of taking a stand for her Kunal lashed out on her. She is the one who sacrificed her self respect for Kunal by legit going on her knees and Kunal didn't even get an eyelid. When the ristha was in the process of getting fixed BP was skeptical. He wasn't fully convinced and at that time he asked Kuhu that what does she want? She said that ever since she set eyes on Kunal she wanted him to be a major part of her life and she doesn't even need time to think. That's one BP agreed. The whole family is ignoring the antics because Kuhu herself is ignoring her in-laws and their trash antics. She is desperate to get married to Kunal and the whole fam is aware of her desperation. So, no I won't blame the family because in this case there wasn't any pressure on Kuhu this was her own decision and she needs to bear the consequences of it. It does hurt to see her like this but she kind of brought it on herself by being blind to Kunal's faults.

I know bade papa ne koshish ki par ladies ke aage haar gaye, I wrote that... Bt Varsha, Shaurya, inka dimaag kaha gaya re.... Mostly guy3 and I were talking no elder of the family has talked to kuhu how to deal with meenakshi there as she'll be alone there and abir can't follow her everywhere. She has to be enough for herself. That is whats Irking me and her

I hope you're getting me

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

Can you explain the bits in bold and what actually happened haven't watched all the episodes.

In scenario 1 Kunal accuses her of being dumb and jeopardizing his plans and he legit shouts at her. He has brought her to the office on the pretext that he is treating her to a couple spa date. Instead he threatens that he might break the alliance and then tells her to wipe her tears and go to the spa alone.

Scenario 2

The truth about Kuhu's parentage comes out and she tells him how she wanted to confide in him but was scared. He calls her a liar and again tells her in front of the whole fam that he might back off from the wedding. As a result Kuhu goes to.RV house and legit bows down in front of Kunal and begs him to not break the ristha. Kunal doesn't even ask her to get up he just stand like a statute. Abir actually comes and chides her for begging like this and asks Kuhu to get up.