Babita and her emotions

Hi guys i am sheen. I so want to watch this show as finally we have something real like foreign shows but cant watch bxz of my final year medical exams coming soon.

Buts thanks you guysz, you all have such great skills that reading your updates helps me to atleast keep a tab

Ok so now coming to babita. As far as i have read about her and imagined her, i feel even though babita is mature woman, a mother but still somewhere deep inside she is like a child.

We all learn through are experiences, we all go through all sorts of emitions be it ego, jealousy , anger, happiness, selfishness, selfless, sadness before we could find balance within ourselves. And the most crucial moment to find that balance is our teenage and early adult hood. But if see babita, when it was her time to learn and find balance, she was married off became a mother. Trust me this is so much common, in our gynae ward there are so many pregnant women younger than me. At age when we have trouble finding our way, we have additional responsibility of a child. Babita never had anyone to argue with, to share her feelings with, to get angry with. She had no one who would pamper her, ask her opinion, support her.

But now she is slowly starting to experience all these emotions. She has finally found someone who she argues with, who she can get angry with, who supports her and most impt thing cares for her.

Remember when we were child, we used to say anything to our parents or friends but whenever they used to say something, we use to get angry and sometimes even stop talking to them. Even though subconsiously we knew we were wrong. But we thought this is our right to angry and stubborn with them and expect them to persuade us to give in .

But slowly slowly we started balancing out every emotion, we learnt from our experiences sometimes commited blunders but made correction and now turned out be person we are.

I guess we need to have patience for babita . She is like that child who thinks he know everything but the reality is still struggling to find balance between her emotions.

Journey ahead will be more challenging for her bcz she doesnt understand what actually marriage or relationship is. She will slowly slowly learn that communication is key to relationship, ruthna manana is a two way street but it will take time.

And no other than HS is best person to teach her what it actually means to be in love. Bcz he himself has experienced every sort of facet of love.

And isnt it great we always see FL teaching guy how to love. Here we have ML teaching FL about every shade of love.

I just want to say give babita some time. And see how beautiful women she will turn out to be but still it has long way to go .

I agree ... Babita has always lived her life in a capsule ... She has not experienced true love and her personality has not evolved yet ... She will keep learning and become better as a person.

Nicely put. All the best for your exams.

I agree with you Babita has lived quite sheltered life and had everyone taking decisions for her. Thus she appears to be scared , unsure and can be easily affected emotionally or we can say she is emotionally weak person.. She has not really lived a proper husband wife relationship ,also never into love passionate relationship with her husband. There would be many aspects where she will be experiencing it first time.. There is a man who not only loves her but also understands her well and I am sure with someone like HS who has seen so much from childhood and being so strong to go through worse and come out of it.. he is more mature and thus more understanding of her as he has seen life more vastly than her.. He will bring her out of her shell , make her experience love in new light..give her wings of her own in this relationship.. it could be beautiful journey..

Nicely explained sheen. You are so correct about the teenage moments she is having and not in a bad way. She is truly experiencing love and relationship with partner only now. If you think about it she is able to handle her relationships with the rest of the family and that is what we all like about her- gentle calm thoughtful (for why she returned her jewels to Biji and lovely), or why she maintains her relationship with her ex in laws or forgiving kammo and the others easily. She has also learnt how to manage people in business and workplace as we saw during her jobs and now the business.

But pyaar and love life, she is new to.