Is Babita at fault - Page 5

That dialogue that he said about being able to only love Imarti so deeply and crazy - I onow he might have been just saying it to push Minnie away but I wonder if Babita leaving had some influence too. After all, it was after she refused to even look at him that he put up Imarti's photo. Her departure may have made him feel like only Imarti was the one who gave him unconditional love, trust and support, the only one who accepted all of him, took none of his bullshit and saw through his ways.

Of course there's Minnie who's doing all of that now but in terms of a spousal / life partner, there was no one but Imarti.

Why makers are ruining Hanita. Why Minni will bring Babita back to Haveli. Why Babita can't take a decision without Minni. Why they are making Babita so weak that she can't stand for her love of the life herself?

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

Why makers are ruining Hanita. Why Minni will bring Babita back to Haveli. Why Babita can't take a decision without Minni. Why they are making Babita so weak that she can't stand for her love of the life herself?

Agree I think Mini Babita is ok but everytime showing Mini taking decisions makes no sense ...after all she’s 15 and in the serial 17 and even all of us feel she should take the decision...as this is what v have seen till now....in real life will v take decisions this way...not that kids have no importance ...they are very smart and nowadays v look forward to learning from them but here it seems Mini is the only one taking decisions.....anyway if the story has moved from Babita mini to Babita Hanuman singh then let Babita take Center stage now....asking mini ..understanding her thoughts is ok but making her take decisions every time is not realistIc nor required ...Babita is smart now high time they show her evolving ....taking decisions ....let Mini learn from her now ....she was naive but she is not stupid and they need to show her side now ...there will always be a time whn one person will have strong hold...like sometimes Whn v understand technolog v allow kids to decide but when there are some life decisions to be taken won’t kids want us to guide....think makers need to give this a thought...let Mini now also b shown as a 17 year old fun as it is nice to see her innocence ..tp banter with her friends ...her childish behaviour at times as that is what is also equally important .....

You know, at this point, I won't mind if HS and Babita never come together as lovers but remain friends. It would seem more realistic considering what's happening.

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Yes if u love someone so much which is very much possible as I don’t think time heals all wounds especially when u are deeply in love with someone ....but in life u need someone and if there is no chance of that person coming back u have to move on obviously only if u really meet someone like that who can help u have a new life ....but yes to do that u need to whole heartedly accept the person love the person ....HS at the start was totally in Babita ...Now he is totally in Imarti....that is really very confusing .....as if u r so much into someone u just can’t get into someone else ....u can’t

HS has always loved Imarti like this. It's just that over the years, he suppressed his pain, tried to forget the court case. It's importance had faded over the years but now that it's been moved to the High Court, he realized that he can never escape his past, that he's going to go through that hell all over again. He doesn't want the mother-daughter to burn with him.

When he was saying that he can never love anyone like he does Imarti that was true. Their dynamics were unique. But that does not mean he can't be crazy about his new family either, enough to push them away. He was doing that with Minnie not just with his words, but physically pushing her away from him.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

That dialogue that he said about being able to only love Imarti so deeply and crazy - I onow he might have been just saying it to push Minnie away but I wonder if Babita leaving had some influence too. After all, it was after she refused to even look at him that he put up Imarti's photo. Her departure may have made him feel like only Imarti was the one who gave him unconditional love, trust and support, the only one who accepted all of him, took none of his bullshit and saw through his ways.

Of course there's Minnie who's doing all of that now but in terms of a spousal / life partner, there was no one but Imarti.

In some twisted way, he wanted to get a reaction out of Babita to see if she would stand by him or at least give him a chance, even after he kept saying he killed Imarti. He has been waiting for one single word from her, and in this crucial moment he wanted something, anything to grasp but it was not forthcoming.

As someone has mentioned on the forum that this was the second time he was rejected. He is at his lowest and she's taking the moral high ground and doing what she does best: escaping her own feelings.

When HS was saying those harsh words, she tried to wipe off his touch but did she not even think back to all the non-physical amazing gestures of his love over the months?

When Minnie was angry with him in hospital, she thought about the entire spectrum of his actions and words and then took her decision eventually. I hope Babita will do this too.

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

No ya don’t think so if u are seriously saying this....as the catering work honestly they just have taken off ....wat I feel is they started off with this unique concept of mother daughter moving ahead with their catering business and making it big ...but with time they had to give more importance to HS’s character ...and go for the love story ...so they changed the storyline ...then slowly they felt a normal simple love story might become too boring and there will be nothing later to work on hence they introduced Imarti track ...sudden twists (murder) and the sudden change in behaviour of HS...means moved to a different story line ...these two story lines are very different and I feel since no story is completely ready nowadays in serials ....producers change thm as per trps audience choice ....thinking of long run ....hence the catering business part is all lost ....they actually have forgotten abt it but just to show that it exists they in between mention it or show some order or Madhu to let ppl know it is there.....this way they can evn change tracks later is required 😀

Yeah, I don't know why the writers did all this. I would have preferred if Babita and Minnie had accidentally discovered the truth about the court case and then questioned him and themselves about what kind of a man HS really was.

Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

Why makers are ruining Hanita. Why Minni will bring Babita back to Haveli. Why Babita can't take a decision without Minni. Why they are making Babita so weak that she can't stand for her love of the life herself?

I think it is consistent with her character. She takes time to make tough decisions, and does so only when backed into a corner.

She's going to have to learn that sometimes we can't wait. We have to take action immediately.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, I don't know why the writers did all this. I would have preferred if Babita and Minnie had accidentally discovered the truth about the court case and then questioned him and themselves about what kind of a man HS really was.

Somehow m not liking this new murder track..it somehow takes away the softness ...the love v have loved for all these months ....it is too much to bear ...m sure everyone here was more keen for the confession but suddenly they have introduced a completely new track .....plus Itz too much of Mini knows it all ...like whn mini says ‘HAnuman uncle mujhe pata hain apne Babes ko jaan bujke hurt kiya kal’ ya ‘babes mujhe pata hain aap bhagne ki koshish kar rahe ho’ so everything she knows ...Baki ye dono pagal hain ...again I was thinking how Babita will react whn she will know that mini planned the parts to make thm confess their love or thn how the conversation will be between mother and daughter ....as in Babita wud care for wat mini feels abt her affection for HS....but all that has been ruined by this entire episode ...Minu just said it that Babes I know abt your feelings for Hanuman uncle and it just ended there....and also this Imarti story is not going to end so soon...next many episodes will be the murder story only and the complications with it ...though obviously with time it will all settle down....just hoping they don drag the murder story ....just end it in few episodes ...not interested in it at all....looks like some different story altogether

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

Somehow m not liking this new murder track..it somehow takes away the softness ...the love v have loved for all these months ....it is too much to bear ...m sure everyone here was more keen for the confession but suddenly they have introduced a completely new track .....plus Itz too much of Mini knows it all ...like whn mini says ‘HAnuman uncle mujhe pata hain apne Babes ko jaan bujke hurt kiya kal’ ya ‘babes mujhe pata hain aap bhagne ki koshish kar rahe ho’ so everything she knows ...Baki ye dono pagal hain ...again I was thinking how Babita will react whn she will know that mini planned the parts to make thm confess their love or thn how the conversation will be between mother and daughter ....as in Babita wud care for wat mini feels abt her affection for HS....but all that has been ruined by this entire episode ...Minu just said it that Babes I know abt your feelings for Hanuman uncle and it just ended there....and also this Imarti story is not going to end so soon...next many episodes will be the murder story only and the complications with it ...though obviously with time it will all settle down....just hoping they don drag the murder story ....just end it in few episodes ...not interested in it at all....looks like some different story altogether

Yeah, Minnie did the same thing to her parents that she did to Preet and Mickey by blurting it out. I know the reasons were different, but still.

If nothing else, by the end of this track I hope Babita openly shows her emotions to HS and makes him feel that he is a very valuable and important part of his life.